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 Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 5:56 pm
Ok, so is it just here or are there like major problems with gay guys everywhere?
Like I would not mind dating someone, and it would be extra nice if it was someone with in like five years of my own age. But they all have major issues. (Thank goodness for my strong will power!)
Many guys my own age have like drug addictions or are absolute whores. At the vary least they drink too often for my liking or they smoke xp . And to top it off, if they are not trying to get in your pants their compleat and utter a** holes! talk2hand
I mean, I almost did not "come out" because every gay I meet was rude, arrogant and down right mean. Do nice normal gays exist?
I've have meet some nice ones though, I have to admit. The only thing is, their all like way older than me. *sigh* This is making me feel hopeless so I'm gonna stop here for now, till my spirit gets back up. emo
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 7:56 pm
*hugs*
We're not all bad. Most gays in general come from backgrounds that aren't openly accepting or at least percieved that way, and that can lead them to seek comfort in other ways, such as alchohol, smoking, drugs, sex or any other diversion to take their mind off of their many social frustrations and family issues.
For some, this even means lashing out at people because it keeps them from getting hurt first. What you need to do if find someone who is like you; fun, sensitive and looking for a happy and healthy relationship. There are people like that out there, but as gays we have a smaller pool to work with.
Keep your chin up, and just know that we're all pulling for you because we're all in this together.
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raindownsweetlight Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 10:26 pm
confused Hmmm... I never looked at it that way. Well, that does give me a lot to ponder on... and it makes me feel a lot better to blaugh .
I wish "fun, sensitive and looking for a happy and healthy relationship" guys had a sign on their head saying "fun, sensitive and looking for a happy and healthy relationship" so I could see them better though... I wonder, if I started the trend by wearing a sign that said that, would others? 4laugh
Just kidding, it would be hard to find outfits that go with the sign anyway. lol. rofl
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 8:34 pm
That is true, but just remember; finding the right person should be a challenge. Challenges make us work and sweat for what we want in the end, and if we don't have to work for it than how can we appreciate it when we finally get what we want?
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raindownsweetlight Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 10:20 pm
challenges blow when you dont know how to get past it rain
when i am running i know i need to go this far and get there and bam challenge overcome
when i am trying to find someone who will love me i dont know whats what
challenges = sucktastic blowtards
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Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 8:58 pm
Sucktastic Blowtards? Very cute, Brian.
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raindownsweetlight Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 4:57 pm
Sorry Rain, Halloween_Orphan wins this round. I have to agree with him. Sucktastic Blowtards! xd
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 5:36 pm
No. Not all gay guys are mean and whore-ish. I mean my cousin and best frien is gay and he's such a sweet heart and he tells me every thing about his boyfriends and they are sooo nice. And none of his boyfriends would every pressure him to get into his pants, becasue they know that sex doent mean you love them, but that if you're in love then and only then you should have sex. I know that alot of gay guys are mean and whore-ish, but alot of them are nice and normal too.
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Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 9:37 am
Ya, I know they are out there it just seems like they are few and far between is all. *sigh* smile
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Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 9:46 am
Yeah, just like with straight guys.
However, most studies show that after young gay "studs" go through their party stage, they really want to commit and settle down, and can be more loyal companions than straight men. Don't ask me to name my source, it was very late one night I was reading up on this sort of thing. Another example of the lonely life I lead.
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raindownsweetlight Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Jun 08, 2007 6:07 pm
Ya, but that means I have to wait if I want some one thats anywhere near my own age (up to 2 years younger or 5 years old, I'm ok with) , it will be like ten years before I'll have much choice. crying
As for "studs" they decide on commitment when their not "studs" no more. Ha! I would not hold my breath for a "stud" anyway. Almost every "studish" guy I've ever talked to turned out to be a let down as soon as they opened their mouth. Either they are complete dim wits, self coincided or they are so fake you can piratically see the lies oozing forth from their mouths (GROSS! And sadly the last is most common). I'd rather have someone real than a "stud". rolleyes lol. xd
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