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 Posted: Tue May 15, 2007 8:39 pm
Ok, to begin I am only fifteen and I have four other siblings. My mom and dad divorced almost three years ago but she truly "loved him" and he would constantly beat her up. He left her because she was stealing and wasting all his money on alcohol. He left and since she doesn't have a job she moved back in with her mom (my grandmother) which I adore to death.Throught these three years my dad found a girlfriend married her and they're having a baby. But my mom on the other hand is still drinking, beating up my sisters and me and throws fits whenever my dad comes around to say hi. I understand my dad was an a*****e and I don't want to see him but my little brother and sisters didn't understand the situation back then so they don't hate him. Well he comes around to say hi to them and she goes outside and throws her jeolous fits and says stuff like "Why don't you go ******** your girl friend" and stuff like that. Well she recently found out that my dads new wife is having a baby and she went on a drinking binge and things have gotten worse! I haven't eaten in like three days because when we got home she didn't cook and we had to prepare food for the little kids ( we get home forty or an hour later than them) and right when Im about to eat she wakes up and starts fighting with me and I lose my appetite. She's been fighting with my grandmother who supports all of us (my mom doesn't work she stays home sleeping all day) and Im worried becuase my grandmother can't take that type of stress...summer is coming up and I fear the situation will only get worse! and I suffer from depression and have gotten so depressed these past few weeks I fear It might get worse...the idea of suicide has been itching at my head for a while now and to relieve all the stress I started cutting...I know its wrong and im not emo so please son't call me that I just need a way to relieve stress...I tried punching walls but it didn't help and i use to only pop myself with rubber bands but that didn't work either and I find that this is the only thing to help me relieve stress and about my situation what should I do?
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 6:03 pm
stare It's stupid to use that emo s**t.... Your mom is sad that your father moved on, tell her to get some help, if she doesn't, talk to your grandmother about kciking her out. I know you probably wont want to do that but it's either kick her out in hopes of her getting help, or let her stay there & watch as she slowly brings everyone down. ok sry for the emo thing I said above, Ijust hate that ... the whole stereotype thing. Cutting will feel great the first couple of times, than it slowly declines until you make that last cut that will either kill you, or make you feel losted & trying other ways to hurt yourself in hopes that it will relieve your stress. You can pm me if you want to talk about anything
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 5:55 pm
[Innocent_Sin] stare It's stupid to use that emo s**t.... Your mom is sad that your father moved on, tell her to get some help, if she doesn't, talk to your grandmother about kciking her out. I know you probably wont want to do that but it's either kick her out in hopes of her getting help, or let her stay there & watch as she slowly brings everyone down. ok sry for the emo thing I said above, Ijust hate that ... the whole stereotype thing. Cutting will feel great the first couple of times, than it slowly declines until you make that last cut that will either kill you, or make you feel losted & trying other ways to hurt yourself in hopes that it will relieve your stress. You can pm me if you want to talk about anything
Thank you and we tried. She refuses to leave and my grandmother won't do it. my mom refuses to get help and the only reason I said the emo thing is because I've been called that by my sisters a few time's and I actually hate labeling
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Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 9:51 pm
yaluna [Innocent_Sin] stare It's stupid to use that emo s**t.... Your mom is sad that your father moved on, tell her to get some help, if she doesn't, talk to your grandmother about kciking her out. I know you probably wont want to do that but it's either kick her out in hopes of her getting help, or let her stay there & watch as she slowly brings everyone down. ok sry for the emo thing I said above, Ijust hate that ... the whole stereotype thing. Cutting will feel great the first couple of times, than it slowly declines until you make that last cut that will either kill you, or make you feel losted & trying other ways to hurt yourself in hopes that it will relieve your stress. You can pm me if you want to talk about anything
Thank you and we tried. She refuses to leave and my grandmother won't do it. my mom refuses to get help and the only reason I said the emo thing is because I've been called that by my sisters a few time's and I actually hate labeling
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Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 5:19 pm
I would tell a counselor at school or someone like that. They might be able to make your mother get the help that she needs whether she wants to or not since children are involved.
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Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 6:58 am
Ok as my father used to be a very bad alcholic, i used to get into fights with him and even hostibalise him once when i beated him up with a steel bar. Know he is recovered and the family is healed but my suggestion to you who have lived with an alocholic, One tell you mum if she doesnt get her act together that she will call the social welfare and pack it up and leave for a person WHO cares. Remember use direct lanuage, your mom has a illness and for her to get better you have to scare her into it. Theres no point in ruining your lifes if she is ruining hers. Ask your father if you can stay in his for a while, and force your mom to get some help. I did some real cruel things to get my father into rehab but in the end it was all good and he thanked me for it. But im still effect even though he was healed, I still remember the beatings i gave him or the long nights looking for him in Dublin city in the rough spots. You have to force your mom to stop wasting her life away as well as yours and your sisters.
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Posted: Wed Aug 18, 2010 9:11 am
Don't have much advice. Hold on, you will grow up and then you'll have control of your own life. Look forward to it.
Good Luck.
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