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PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2007 12:01 pm


I hope you won't ban me for this, but it is true that God wants you to have sex with your wife and abundantly so. What I'm unsure about is, what is allowed in the bedroom?

I know that sodomy is a sin, so that would rule out doing that with your life partner.

Please discuss and help make it clear to me of what sex positions and sexual acts are allowed.
PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2007 5:40 pm


Christian Sexual Ethics

I hope this helps you.

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PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2007 7:17 pm


I don't know that there are many other rules though the link provided by omnidomus might be helpful.
PostPosted: Fri May 04, 2007 8:18 pm


Sex inside of marriage should be the kind that glorifies God. He created it after all, as a gift to be enjoyed, in its proper context. So what is sex that pleases God? It should be consensual for one thing, between both partners, and should involve only those two partners. Aside from that, it's anything goes. Whatever kinky quirk turns you on and gets you off. -shrug- And there are tons of books written by Christians for Christians to spice up their sex life in a way that is God-pleasing and "soul-bonding."

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PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 9:39 am


Fushigi na Butterfly
Sex inside of marriage should be the kind that glorifies God. He created it after all, as a gift to be enjoyed, in its proper context. So what is sex that pleases God? It should be consensual for one thing, between both partners, and should involve only those two partners. Aside from that, it's anything goes. Whatever kinky quirk turns you on and gets you off. -shrug- And there are tons of books written by Christians for Christians to spice up their sex life in a way that is God-pleasing and "soul-bonding."

Somehow I keep finding that my words end up coming out of your fingers. Can't really add any more to this. xd
PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 7:19 pm


Haha, cool beans. I guess you would be one of the few here that knows this more than anyone too, since you are married. 3nodding As weird as that sounds. confused

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PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 7:23 pm


ryuu_chan
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Sex inside of marriage should be the kind that glorifies God. He created it after all, as a gift to be enjoyed, in its proper context. So what is sex that pleases God? It should be consensual for one thing, between both partners, and should involve only those two partners. Aside from that, it's anything goes. Whatever kinky quirk turns you on and gets you off. -shrug- And there are tons of books written by Christians for Christians to spice up their sex life in a way that is God-pleasing and "soul-bonding."

Somehow I keep finding that my words end up coming out of your fingers. Can't really add any more to this. xd


Yeah Fushigi, you totally have a habit of saying what I was trying to say, but way more clearly and eloquently.
PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 7:45 pm


Haha, thanks? sweatdrop heart

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PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 10:45 pm


I'm no expert, but I'm pretty sure that anything that helps to procreate (missionary, doggy-style, etc.) would be fine, but anything else (sodomy, 69ing, any other form of oral sex, etc.) would not be. Obviously, no condoms.

At least, from traditional Zionist views that's what I would expect. Again, my own beliefs are that anything goes as long as both participants consent to the action.
PostPosted: Mon May 07, 2007 1:09 pm


Lethkhar
I'm no expert, but I'm pretty sure that anything that helps to procreate (missionary, doggy-style, etc.) would be fine, but anything else (sodomy, 69ing, any other form of oral sex, etc.) would not be. Obviously, no condoms.

At least, from traditional Zionist views that's what I would expect. Again, my own beliefs are that anything goes as long as both participants consent to the action.

No offense to this, but makes me glad I'm a Methodist. xd Personally, I tend to look at Old Testament laws as a health and sanitation issue. Good needed a numerous, healthy people. So nothing that would spread disease and prevent babies. In this day and age... we know better and the world is getting disgustingly overpopulated anyway. biggrin Inside the confines of marriage, I'm definitely an 'anything goes' kinda person. If God's intending us to enjoy it, then darn it, I shall! lol

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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:19 pm


Okay... um... what's "sodomy"?

I wasn't sure so I felt the need to ask...
PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 10:46 pm


s0prano42_x3
Okay... um... what's "sodomy"?

I wasn't sure so I felt the need to ask...

Sodomy is a**l sex.

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PostPosted: Sat May 12, 2007 8:55 pm


Lethkhar
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Okay... um... what's "sodomy"?

I wasn't sure so I felt the need to ask...

Sodomy is a**l sex.


One of the definitions on Dictionary.com said this:

Any of various forms of sexual intercourse held to be unnatural or abnormal, especially a**l intercourse or bestiality.
PostPosted: Sun May 13, 2007 11:54 am


Fushigi na Butterfly
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s0prano42_x3
Okay... um... what's "sodomy"?

I wasn't sure so I felt the need to ask...

Sodomy is a**l sex.


One of the definitions on Dictionary.com said this:

Any of various forms of sexual intercourse held to be unnatural or abnormal, especially a**l intercourse or bestiality.

Ok, you're right.

It's technically "unnatural" sex, so sex with someone of the same gender or with an animal.

I guess it's just in modern culture where it really refers to a**l sex.

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PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2007 5:17 pm


ryuu_chan
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I'm no expert, but I'm pretty sure that anything that helps to procreate (missionary, doggy-style, etc.) would be fine, but anything else (sodomy, 69ing, any other form of oral sex, etc.) would not be. Obviously, no condoms.

At least, from traditional Zionist views that's what I would expect. Again, my own beliefs are that anything goes as long as both participants consent to the action.

No offense to this, but makes me glad I'm a Methodist. xd Personally, I tend to look at Old Testament laws as a health and sanitation issue. Good needed a numerous, healthy people. So nothing that would spread disease and prevent babies. In this day and age... we know better and the world is getting disgustingly overpopulated anyway. biggrin Inside the confines of marriage, I'm definitely an 'anything goes' kinda person. If God's intending us to enjoy it, then darn it, I shall! lol


Methodists represent biggrin

I do agree, most of the OT was sanitation things for keeping the people healthy, but we've moved past that as far as technology goes. I think God still wants healthy people, but it's a lot easier these days.
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