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 Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 10:18 am
Right, so obviously I'm bi, or I wouldn't be in here. But I have a problem, my dad and my stepmom don't know. I live with my mom and stepdad who know and are okay with it. I don't really know how to tell my dad and stepmom because my stepmom is extremely homophobic and we don't get along, and my dad is just well, we're trying to rebuild a relationship and he freaked out because I have lipring, so he'll probably freak that I'm bi. I want to be honest with everybody. So any advice on how to break it to them nicely?
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 8:13 am
well just tell them ok biggrin can we be girl friend and boy friend on gaiaonline biggrin
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 9:05 am
I was kind of looking for advice on how to tell them. They're not people you jsut sit down and say hey this is whats going down.
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 11:12 am
well yell it at them that's wut i did biggrin can we go out
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Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 12:37 pm
I need some actual advice on this. My dad and stepmom are not very accepting people.
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Posted: Sat May 05, 2007 4:25 pm
i say get them drunk or make them a crazy a** dinner and mention it to them
or just do it weirdly like say... so...how about...them bisexuals eh! ... and go from there i dunno just a thought haha
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Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 6:58 pm
i have asked myself the same question...
i dint think i will tell them for awile..
my parents wouldnt understand...at all...
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Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 7:43 pm
....heres my advice.....introduce it to your dad slowly.....when you think he is ready tell him calmly.....not your stepmom......if he understands, then he'll keep to your side when you tell your stepmom.......if not, he'll tell your stepmom and they will be forced to face the issue....so be prepared for bad blood among the family.....
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Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 9:06 pm
Thank you guys so much. There's already bad blood in the family, my stepmom talks alot of crap about people and about stuff she doesn't even know. And I know my dad wouldn't tell her, he doesn't tell her anything. I think my dad will be more accepting than my stepmom. I'm just nervous and afraid to tell my dad, my dad can get pretty angry over simple things. But thanks so much for your guys advice, and please keep it coming. ::gives everyone mad hugs & kisses::
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Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 1:42 pm
my plan is to take a pic of me and my gf and e-mail it to my mom after i move out
power to the gay,bi,lesbien peeps out there exclaim
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