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Say Hi to people
Should I wait till people talk to me
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should I not try so hard
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 6:45 am


Hi,

I don't know what I should do I try awful hard but I am having trouble with bullies at church. I will say hi to people and try to be helpful but sometimes like yesterday I have trouble and I don't know why. Take yesterday I was at a store and said hi to one of the church people I know and tried to say hi to her mom but the mom just stared blankly. So I say hi again blank stare again. I felt like such a idiot. Oh no I thought. Yikes sometimes I just feel like crawling in a little hole. At least I know what to do. Yikes.

Any way have a nice day,
Susie

ps. I probably won't crawl in my little hole I will try to connect with people some more today. rolleyes
PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 7:14 am


Susie502
Hi,

I don't know what I should do I try awful hard but I am having trouble with bullies at church. I will say hi to people and try to be helpful but sometimes like yesterday I have trouble and I don't know why. Take yesterday I was at a store and said hi to one of the church people I know and tried to say hi to her mom but the mom just stared blankly. So I say hi again blank stare again. I felt like such a idiot. Oh no I thought. Yikes sometimes I just feel like crawling in a little hole. At least I know what to do. Yikes.

Any way have a nice day,
Susie

ps. I probably won't crawl in my little hole I will try to connect with people some more today. rolleyes

People are different and you must treat them accordingly. I understand your desire to be friendly and helpful, but being friendly and helpful could also mean staying silent or leaving someone alone. smile

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:25 am


a ha but how do you know the difference.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:55 am


Susie502
a ha but how do you know the difference.

It's the art of Sociality. If you don't know someone, you are quite at first right? Well, use that time to get to know them by seeing how they act and what they do when they are around you. Just pay more attention to them and not yourself. Then you will see that there is a time for you to be you and a time for them to be them.
It all takes time. Life is the school of wisdom.

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 7:28 pm


ok you speak wisdom smile
PostPosted: Tue May 01, 2007 11:57 pm


Grab life by the horns! domokun domokun

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PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2007 8:01 pm


Thank you so much I will biggrin
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:10 pm


Maybe they're just incredibly shy and get freaked out when strangers talk to them.

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