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 Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 8:57 am
Hey guys... I am sorry I've not been on in frigin forever... there have been a lot of things going on lately, that ultimately ended up in my boyfriend and once fiancé of almost three years and I breaking up very badly.
I started to fall for someone who said that he wants to treat all woman alike... and it was lovely, listening to him talk about how enamoured with women he is. Then when I would bring up certain ways to tell me that he loves me, and such, and he would say that it's because I have too many needs, and that I am too much of a woman, and that he doesnt care what makes me cry and such...
anyways.. he found the other conversations I had had with this man, and how I said that I thought he was making me fall for him with his words..
and my hunni freaked...
I was just wondering if you guys could send me a little white light...
I feel so hurt and broken it's insane... I cant stop feeling guilty as hell, and how I dont deserve to live...
I know this guild doesnt have a lot of spice to it right now.. but I hope you guys get this post...
Blessings
~Chandra
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Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 2:01 pm
I'm so sorry sad
I was with this guy for almost 2 years, but then when we broke up, my very first "crush" and I got back together, and he is SO wonderful. <3 We're both in the same "situation" at school. We're both classified as Goth Kids, and no one really likes us, except for our very close friends.
Tell your guy that you're sorry, and if you wanna stay with him or not, I'm sure it'll work out if you're meant for each other. ^_^
But... o_o; If your guy doesn't care what makes you cry, and that stuff, then you DEFINATELY either a: need to set him straight, or b: find the guy that does care. Trust me, if you stay with someone that doesn't care about your feelings, you'll be miserable...
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Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 3:05 pm
TeachingSpidersToCryBRB I'm so sorry sad I was with this guy for almost 2 years, but then when we broke up, my very first "crush" and I got back together, and he is SO wonderful. <3 We're both in the same "situation" at school. We're both classified as Goth Kids, and no one really likes us, except for our very close friends. Tell your guy that you're sorry, and if you wanna stay with him or not, I'm sure it'll work out if you're meant for each other. ^_^ But... o_o; If your guy doesn't care what makes you cry, and that stuff, then you DEFINATELY either a: need to set him straight, or b: find the guy that does care. Trust me, if you stay with someone that doesn't care about your feelings, you'll be miserable... Yes my dear, he very much knows that I want to be with him, and that I will always love him. He loves me, and also wants to be with him, but all this apparently made him realize that we arent grown up enough for each other.. I cant deal with his childishness and he cant deal with my needs. We are only 18 remember. I am looking for the guy that cares... but right now, I dont want to focus on living for a relationship. I left my university that I was in, because it was too hard to be away from him for so long. So.. now is my chance to get back into school and take what I really want, along with being friends with him. So thank you for the support, it's nice to hear. And you and your darling will be fine. Never let anyone drag you down because of who you are with. 3nodding Blessed be everyone.
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Posted: Sat Apr 21, 2007 9:25 pm
Oh dearie!
The hubby probably doesn't understand...
Oh yes... I'm officially gay... so... here's a story that happened 30 minutes ago...
I called one of my gay friends in St. Louis, right? Well, he answered, and hung up after saying "Hello?" and I was like, wtf!!!
So I called him back, and one of his friends that are girls, (girlfriends) answered, and said he wasn't able to talk atm. I was like, "ok, I'm sorry. Can you tell Nick it's Ryan, and that I'm sorry I missed his call today? I was working."
She answered, "Yea, I can do that." then said really snooty like, "Oh, and btw... I think he's into girls now..." and hung up on me. That left me angry and frustrated.
I like Nick, but I don't plan on entering a relationship this early. I like to take things slow, and so does he. I don't know weither to believe his bitchy friend, or if she's just being a jealous friend. I'm gonna ask him. I won't be angry with him, I'll just be hurt a little.
Any advice for me?
@hottz- He prolly doesn't understand. Maybe you'll forgive each other. If the guy was seducing you with words, why should you're fiance be angry with you. If anything, he should be angry with the other guy. It's so stupid, people anymore...
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 5:57 am
@Ryan: My aunt had the same situation with one of her guy friends, but she has a really "gruff" voice, so people mistake her for a guy sometimes.
She called one of her guy-friends, and his mom picked up and started screaming into the phone that, "Her little boy wasn't interested in another guy." and that kind of stuff. So, my aunt kept calling until the mom would listen. "Okay, I'll tell him you called."
His mom would keep doing this, every single time she called. Finally, after almost 2 weeks of this, my aunt got him on IM. She was like, "Why haven't you called me back?" He said, "What? You haven't called me." She was like, "Yes I did, didn't your mother give you my messages?" "No..." "Go check your recent calls. I've been calling you for 2 weeks, and haven't talked to you once."
He called her back, just so she could hear him telling his mom that, "If she doesn't respect his friends, and not give him his messages, then she can find some place else to live." o_o
So just keep trying to get a hold of him. 3nodding And tell on the betch. D:<
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 6:05 am
Sakumi-San @hottz- He prolly doesn't understand. Maybe you'll forgive each other. If the guy was seducing you with words, why should you're fiance be angry with you. If anything, he should be angry with the other guy. It's so stupid, people anymore... I agree! D= Your guy should be happy that things didn't get further than just, "I think I'm falling for you." ninja Did they? But just apologize to him, explain what was going on, and wait. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 8:01 am
TeachingSpidersToCryBRB @Ryan: My aunt had the same situation with one of her guy friends, but she has a really "gruff" voice, so people mistake her for a guy sometimes. She called one of her guy-friends, and his mom picked up and started screaming into the phone that, "Her little boy wasn't interested in another guy." and that kind of stuff. So, my aunt kept calling until the mom would listen. "Okay, I'll tell him you called." His mom would keep doing this, every single time she called. Finally, after almost 2 weeks of this, my aunt got him on IM. She was like, "Why haven't you called me back?" He said, "What? You haven't called me." She was like, "Yes I did, didn't your mother give you my messages?" "No..." "Go check your recent calls. I've been calling you for 2 weeks, and haven't talked to you once." He called her back, just so she could hear him telling his mom that, "If she doesn't respect his friends, and not give him his messages, then she can find some place else to live." o_o So just keep trying to get a hold of him. 3nodding And tell on the betch. D:< But he was right there beside her when she answered, cuz he answered the first time... Makes me wonder... AHHH! I'm angry all over again. I'm gonna beat some b***h a**!!! evil evil evil
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 4:25 pm
I'm really sorry to hear about all of this, I really hope everything works out for you guys.
@Ryan: Chill hun. You can't go around threatening people. I know you're mad but just try to calm down and meditate or something. Harming none means in mundane things to ya know! wink
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 5:06 pm
Sakumi-San TeachingSpidersToCryBRB @Ryan: My aunt had the same situation with one of her guy friends, but she has a really "gruff" voice, so people mistake her for a guy sometimes. She called one of her guy-friends, and his mom picked up and started screaming into the phone that, "Her little boy wasn't interested in another guy." and that kind of stuff. So, my aunt kept calling until the mom would listen. "Okay, I'll tell him you called." His mom would keep doing this, every single time she called. Finally, after almost 2 weeks of this, my aunt got him on IM. She was like, "Why haven't you called me back?" He said, "What? You haven't called me." She was like, "Yes I did, didn't your mother give you my messages?" "No..." "Go check your recent calls. I've been calling you for 2 weeks, and haven't talked to you once." He called her back, just so she could hear him telling his mom that, "If she doesn't respect his friends, and not give him his messages, then she can find some place else to live." o_o So just keep trying to get a hold of him. 3nodding And tell on the betch. D:< But he was right there beside her when she answered, cuz he answered the first time... Makes me wonder... AHHH! I'm angry all over again. I'm gonna beat some b***h a**!!! evil evil evil D= Think happy thoughts~~~ It'll be okay. ^_^ But if he's just gonna sit there and let her talk to you like that, then he needs a good talkin' to. D=
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 5:13 pm
Oh... I most certainly agree... I've decided not to call or whatever until he send me a message on facebook, or myspace saying he's sorry, or explaining the situation.
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Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 6:48 pm
That's what I did to my ex. o_o We were still together, but he would never call me, so I just stopped calling him. I didn't talk to him for almost a week. >_< After that week, I got mad and bitched him out. That's why we're exes now.
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Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 4:10 pm
sweetie im so sorry!!! i know how that works because i had a simialar problem with one of my recent exs!! i wish that there was something that i could do!
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