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 Posted: Wed Apr 11, 2007 6:44 pm
After a bit of thinking I came out to my mother a couple weeks ago, she seemed to handle it well enough, but things she said to me are going to be a problem later on. I would like some advice.
She said:
"Yeah some people are born that way, but it is still a choice"
"Bi is the same as gay"
"Please don't be bi"
She also mentioned the risk of AIDs, and the a**l sex, both of which I relise can be taken care of, but she obviously doesn't. And I told her I wasn't even interested in a**l sex, that it actually turned me off(I prefer oral, just didn't say that to her).
Generally she holds a more libral way of thinking, but not entirely in this area.
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Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 7:33 am
Well, it seems she is trying to look out for you, which most mothers do. I don't think a parent should tell a child of theirs not to be gay/bi though. She just wants to protect you from what gays/bis go through.
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Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 7:13 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 3:17 pm
How did you break it to her? Was it just randomly out of nowhere?
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2007 10:49 pm
Nah, I waited till everyone was gone, then sat her down for it, hoping to get the best response possible.
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 3:36 pm
i have the same problem withmy dad my parents are split up so im with my dad a couple years then my mom and none of them know and ive been looking for the best way possable to tell them i hear my dad make all of these homophobic comments and he even ask me if im gay i say no because im bi but he says good because i would hate u if you were and i would never speak to you again so i dont have a boyfriend because im afraid he might find out and my mom well shes just on the edge with getting her new boyfriend and 3 more kids so i dont plan on telling her...i just wish i could tell my dad and mom because there are only a few people that know a couple of my friends most who r bi or gay and my cat and dog.
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Posted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 7:30 pm
Your lucky to have bi and gay friends... all my friends down here are straight.
But you also seem to be in a much tighter situation...
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Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 12:13 pm
i dont want to tell my parents. mainly because both of them are extremly homophobic. my entire family is extremely judgemental so im always afriad to tell them
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Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 6:22 pm
Well, now I really know why.... Im getting bugged in school about it. "Do you like Brent?" *silence* "Hey Bobo!" thats what DeVonte bugged me about today...
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