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 Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:06 am
Well, this is the deal:
one of my friends went to a party with her bf. Before that she got mad at him because he was looking to some girls while she was talking. On the party, she was sitting on the couch all the time and wasn't even bothering to talk to someone. Only people she knew was her bf and his brother.
And there was, including her, two girls on the party.
So her bf noticed that she was still angry and probably he didn't know what to talk about so he started to talm about their little fight and why she is that quite. Anyway, after some while he offered her rose (wine). Funny enough, she told him that she gets easy drunk, especially when it comes to wine. After first glass he filled it once more. She asked him if he was trying to get her drunk and he answerd in funny way that he is. Only, she thought that he was just kidding and that he wouldn't so such thing, afterall, he is her bf.
After her 2nd glass, he went playing wii with other guys and she was still sitting on that couch with that other girl and some boy between that she didn't know. That boy started to fill in her third and forth glass. The another girls was pretty much drunk but not that much as my friend. Anyway, my friend started to talk nonsense etc. So in her drunk condition she phoned me. Half hour later, i picked her up. Her boyfriend didn't even care, only what he told me was that he was would drive her back home.
I was speechless. What bf is letting his gf get drunk in front of his nose? Isn't that embarassing for both of them?
Anyway, next day he had family party and he was expecting her to be there. She had headache and was still... lame. of course she said she is sick and can't manage. She is still feeling terrible. Damn, she trusted him.
I'm just curious... what would you do if you were him? I know she could put away that glass, but she had some emotionel problems (still is) and well, such problems and alcohol don't go together.
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:21 am
Getting drunk both is fun xd
But I have no idea what he's trying to do. Honestly.
I think he either wants to get her drunk so he could hit on the other girls.
Or he just want her to be some bit happier than she was.
I dont know x_x this is too much complicated for me to solve ( may I add ;3 I solved a murder... ).
If I were him, I wouldnt even bother to go to the party, but to sit home and talk with my girl.
Thats my choice.
But I have no idea what he has in mind xd
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:38 am
Sieu Getting drunk both is fun xd But I have no idea what he's trying to do. Honestly. I think he either wants to get her drunk so he could hit on the other girls. Or he just want her to be some bit happier than she was. I dont know x_x this is too much complicated for me to solve ( may I add ;3 I solved a murder... ). If I were him, I wouldnt even bother to go to the party, but to sit home and talk with my girl. Thats my choice. But I have no idea what he has in mind xd
Just because she didn't have her day?
Another thing is, they went on party together, but on the party they spent lile 5 minutes together. 5 min and being there for 6 hours. Where did it go wrong? She also says that he is totally different when they are alone.
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:52 am
most men are like that xd
when they're with their friends
they tend to be ... more provincial?
I am myself around everyone.
With my (future) girlfriend I will be more intimate and close ;P
But of course..
I think
most likely, yes, perhaps she didnt have her day.
I dont know x_x
there are many ways why.
Or perhaps he wants her to stfu xd
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 5:15 am
If she's smart she'd talk to him about how she feels. And say it wasn't right what he did at the party. Even if he is different when they're alone it doesn't give him the right to treat her bad. That doesn't seem really good for their relationship and maybe even her health...
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 5:46 am
Now that's an advice! Thank you Candy. I'm going to tell her that. 3nodding
Sieu, thank you for your time. wink biggrin
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 5:48 am
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:36 am
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:58 am
Ja he xd Ik heb het zelfs in the poll gezet xd
Trouwens, betekent dit nou dat alleen Candy en ik serieus zijn, aangezien niemand anders hier heeft gepost? :Xd
ok, jij ook, maar dat kwam alleen omdat ik zei waar ik het heb gepost rolleyes
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 9:05 am
candy_loves_candy If she's smart she'd talk to him about how she feels. And say it wasn't right what he did at the party. Even if he is different when they're alone it doesn't give him the right to treat her bad. That doesn't seem really good for their relationship and maybe even her health... I would go for that advice ..
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 11:49 am
Lady_Laguna Ja he xd Ik heb het zelfs in the poll gezet xd
Trouwens, betekent dit nou dat alleen Candy en ik serieus zijn, aangezien niemand anders hier heeft gepost? :Xd
ok, jij ook, maar dat kwam alleen omdat ik zei waar ik het heb gepost rolleyes Misschien komt het doordat we meiden zijn, dan komt dat er wat makkelijker naar voren xp
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Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 4:15 am
..if there's a murdercase u can alwys call me u know that rite ._. ;D
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Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 7:01 am
Sieu ..if there's a murdercase u can alwys call me u know that rite ._. ;D
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Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 12:36 am
Lady_Laguna Sieu ..if there's a murdercase u can alwys call me u know that rite ._. ;D
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Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 4:45 am
Tajci Lady_Laguna Sieu ..if there's a murdercase u can alwys call me u know that rite ._. ;D yes ninja
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