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 Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 6:02 pm
Ok...so I think I'm bi, but I don't know. I know I like girls, so no need bringing up completely homosexuality, but I keep getting these feelings for other guys. I can't test if I am, since I don't know anyone that I could trust to not tell if I did do anything. Anyone have any advice?
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Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 6:36 am
If you think you like both male and female equaly or close to equaly, as you said in your post. Then yes, your Bi. Is it a bad thing? No. I am sure if you explained to your parents, they may help you out with your problem even further.
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Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 9:33 am
It sounds like you might be bisexual, maybe leaning towards girls. You certainly shouldn't have to "test" anything. You know you're attracted to girls, right? Can't you tell when you're attracted to a girl even if you don't do anything sexual with her? Can't you see an attractive girl from across the room and know you are attracted to her? You probably wouldn't say, "I have no idea if I am attracted to her or not yet since I have not kissed her." So the same should go for men. If you're attracted to them, you should be able to know that without having to fool around with any of them to find out.
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Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 3:59 pm
LorienLlewellyn It sounds like you might be bisexual, maybe leaning towards girls. You certainly shouldn't have to "test" anything. You know you're attracted to girls, right? Can't you tell when you're attracted to a girl even if you don't do anything sexual with her? Can't you see an attractive girl from across the room and know you are attracted to her? You probably wouldn't say, "I have no idea if I am attracted to her or not yet since I have not kissed her." So the same should go for men. If you're attracted to them, you should be able to know that without having to fool around with any of them to find out. Oh, I didn't think of it like that. I guess I am bi. Now, I wonder I should come out, or just stay quiet. I'll probably do the latter since my school has only 500 students, and I can tell you that like most small towns I know, they are bigoted and I won't make I out alive being bi.
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Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 5:06 pm
Shadimar Oh, I didn't think of it like that. I guess I am bi. Now, I wonder I should come out, or just stay quiet. I'll probably do the latter since my school has only 500 students, and I can tell you that like most small towns I know, they are bigoted and I won't make I out alive being bi. Sure, there's no rush. It isn't anyone's business who you are attracted to unless you want to make it their business.
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Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 9:07 pm
Thanks for the advice. smile
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