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 Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 7:48 am
Hey all, I was wondering if ya'lls could give me some advice. So I met one of my Bro's friends on MSN Messenger and got into some conversation and she mentioned some 'complicated issues' with her BF that she didn't wanna discuss. So after about 8-10 hours of chatting and three days, I had become rather attached and somewhat attracted to her. Finally on my third day knowing her, I did some prying and discovered her bf happens to be my brother. Mind you, this was rather ackward, since I'm 14, My bro's 19, and she's 15, oh, and my bro and I live in Alaska and she lives in Ohio.
Please reply with sime advice. And BTW my bro just broke up with his gf of 2 years.
Thank you,
'Cell
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Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 9:44 pm
long distance relationship? honestly after only a few days of knowing someone, you can't exactly say you like them. this girl, was dating your brother for 2 years also?
uhh, anyway off that, you've never met her it seems, and you're saying you might possibly like her, i'm not sure if that's possible. Right now it's best that you get to know her more, and try to get a really clear understanding of your feelings, before you come to some conclusion
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Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 10:15 pm
No offense, but you were fine without her a few days ago, you will be fine without her a few days from now.
Who means more to you - her or your brother?
Who are you sure you will love in a month, a year, a few years - her or your brother?
Who will you see more often - her or your brother?
Who will be there, right by your side, the minute you need them for anything - her or your brother?
I have done long distance relationships (and I'm an adult and can go anywhere I want, anytime I want), and they are really hard, even if they are only 2 hours away. I suggest that both you and your brother rethink this situation.
You should end your conversations with her, it won't take you long to find someone else to talk with, IM with. This isn't worth your relationship with your brother, nor your heartbreaking every time you want to see her but can't because she is so far away.
This is a lose - lose situation for you. Don't do that to yourself.
I commend you for reaching out for advice. You are a wise young man, now use the advice you went looking for.
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Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 10:51 am
This is going to sound so horrible,
But...
Long distance relationships never work.
Unless your brother comes down a heck of a lot,
Then it probably won't work out for them.
And normally the "few days" thing would put come into play,
But if you were talking to her for like a really long time about important stuff,
I can kinda understand...
You shouldn't worry about it though.
You're 14.
Relationships at that age don't last,
And don't matter.
All they bring is lots of pain and stuff.
But if you really wanna get into it,
Then just pray.
That's the answer for everything.
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