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Am I bi? I'm so confused! :(

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Wings Akimbo

PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 4:36 pm


So there's this girl... well, actually, she's my best friend. I kind of have a crush on her. I mean, I like guys, and this is my first crush on a girl, so I don't know what to think. It's a pretty strong crush though. neutral

I just want to figure out my sexuality. I want to understand, because I think that maybe if I understand at least one aspect of my life, all the other things I don't understand will follow. Or something.

Anyways, I want to figure it out... Help!
PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 4:51 pm


possibly, I have had crushes on other guys before, when I started thinking about it, it made a lot of sense for me to be bi.

I am proud actually..

Fae_Knight


Zeklan

PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 5:08 pm


I know how you feel. I started to realize I was bi about two years ago. I always thought of myself as straight but I had feelings for my best friend. I found out he was bi too and tried to push myelf on to him. He thought he liked me as well but he didn't want it to get in the way of our friendship. It tore me apart for about half a year but I look back on it now from 2 years ago and I am glad we haven't done anything.

Note: I do not condone on dating best friends because if it doesn't work out than that means one of the closest people two you are basically cut off from your life.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 6:16 pm


Unless your willing to devote the rest of your life to them..

Fae_Knight


Dko
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 11:27 pm


He's saying if things don't work out. That means neigther(Well maybe) of you have any intrest any more about devoting to each other >.<
PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 2:42 pm


Just go with your feelings and you should figure it out eventually.

the_haunted_boy


rikuu uchiha

PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 1:36 pm


Crazy Bananna
So there's this girl... well, actually, she's my best friend. I kind of have a crush on her. I mean, I like guys, and this is my first crush on a girl, so I don't know what to think. It's a pretty strong crush though. neutral

I just want to figure out my sexuality. I want to understand, because I think that maybe if I understand at least one aspect of my life, all the other things I don't understand will follow. Or something.

Anyways, I want to figure it out... Help!
id try dating a girl not your best friend but another girl if you like dating her then your bi just because you have a crush on your friend dosnt mean your bi
PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 5:50 pm


Dating your best friend is not a good idea, trust me. lol. But if you like girls as well as guys, then so be it, nobody can tell you how to feel.

Fish Roll


The Wrath of Marcy

PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 7:01 am


You can like someone of the same sex that stongly without being BI ... like some of the others stated above me... try it out...experiment so to say...just dont try things with your best friend becuz most people crush there best friends no matter what their gender is and what their sexuality is becuz they are so close to that person who want to be their only one...

Only you can know if you are bi are not...if you like other girls besides your best friend I think you should try it out to see how YOU like it

GEA
PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 7:29 pm


I'm afraid to try.

I know the way I feel about other certain girls besides my best friend. It's just like when I see a cute guy. You know? It's just the same. I'm almost convinced. But not quite. I always doubt, and in this case it works to my advantage.

Wings Akimbo

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