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I say someone is bisexual when they are attracted to both sexes. They might like one sex far more than the other, but as long as there is some attraction to both, there is is some bisexuality there. So I would say that you are bisexual, but strongly leaning towards men.

"Bisexual" is just a label, however. If you really aren't comfortable calling yourself bisexual for some reason, you certainly don't have to.

Sometimes there is a fine line. Sometimes people are attracted to one sex about 95% and the other about 5%. So there's some attraction there, but they still don't consider themselves bisexual just because it's such a small attraction. It's tough to measure attraction. Really, all we can do is estimate. So if you feel a tiny attraction to women, but just don't feel bi, go ahead and call yourself straight if that's what you're comfortable with. No one can stop you. 3nodding

That doesn't make you bi. O.o I'd hook up with Dax Shepard or Gerard Way, and I'm a lesbian. talk2hand It's normal to have celebrity crushes.

And saying you'd bang someone doesn't even mean it's a crush.

When a woman is attracted to people of both sexes, she is bisexual. That is what bisexual means. Sexual preference is not necessarily related to sex. Sexual preference is based on attraction. Someone is gay when they are attracted to the same sex. They are bisexual when they are attracted to both sexes, even if they never actually have sex with someone of both sexes. For example, a woman might know she is bisexual. She is attracted to both men and women, however, she has only had sex with a women because she has been in one long term relationship with that woman. By your definition, someone would not be bisexual until they have had sex with someone of both sexes, and that just does not make sense. People know who they are attracted to long before they have sex with them.

I guess this is a touchy subject for me. A lot of young people are under the impression that they need to be curious and experiment sexually with everyone so that they know what they like. They fail to realize that people know who they are attracted from all of the way across the room. We don't have to have sex with everyone just to find out who we are attracted to.