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Deslen

PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 3:51 pm


I joined this guild originally because I was invited at the request of Kian. I'm far from out of place, as I've allways been far from normal. I've allways been straight, but lately, I'm not so sure...
I've grown close to a guy friend of mine, closer than I ever thought I would. I can easily say that I love him as a friend, and maybe even more... I don't know what to do, really, but I know that I would gladly spend my life with him if he was closer...
I don't know why I post this here, perhaps its because I can't seem to find anyone else to talk to about it...
PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 4:19 pm


have you ever though of telling him how you feel?

Juusu


Deslen

PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 4:55 pm


Well, I kinda have... I just haven't told him the extent of how I feel for him...
PostPosted: Thu Jul 07, 2005 9:33 pm


Do you know how he feels about you?

Lavyne


Juusu

PostPosted: Fri Jul 08, 2005 7:23 pm


Deslen
Well, I kinda have... I just haven't told him the extent of how I feel for him...
hmm.. when you told him.. what was his reaction?
PostPosted: Fri Jul 08, 2005 8:08 pm


Aww...

Undying Fury


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 10:11 am


That is cute...I'm not sure really what to tell you to do...Mabey you should just telll him how you feel...But mabey you shouldn't..I'm not to good with dating advice...
PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 10:55 am


Do you think that the two of you are close enough that he would understand and accept your feelings if his weren't the same towards you?

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 8:51 pm


sweatdrop Sorry I can't help you, but good luck on this biggrin
PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 12:35 pm


I would have to say, since it's your first experience with a guy, tell him your situation. Tell him you have a guy you like and you're not sure how to handle it. If he seems interested and encouraging, you might even want to tell him who it is. Which is him.

Really, just be cautious, you don't want to lose this guy as a friend and you really don't want unneeded heartbreak. I wish you the best of luck and hope to hear how this turns out!

fragile_yuki


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 1:38 pm


this is a really hard situation... just tell how you feel...well first try to know wath his reaction would be...

I remeaber about this girl I met when I practice martial arts I fealt so weird around her.. and I was really scared for the atraction that I was feelling, I was freked out but it wa a good thing on that time that I get apart of her ... I was so confuse...so with two weks you cant tell if youre in love with some one at lease I cant...as the time pass trought.. I just start to ask my self if it would be better to know then if I could feel anything because my sexuality is so mix up right now...
PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:26 pm


The end of a friendship is near?

vincejustvince


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 7:12 am


Pilas
I would have to say, since it's your first experience with a guy, tell him your situation. Tell him you have a guy you like and you're not sure how to handle it. If he seems interested and encouraging, you might even want to tell him who it is. Which is him.

Really, just be cautious, you don't want to lose this guy as a friend and you really don't want unneeded heartbreak. I wish you the best of luck and hope to hear how this turns out!
PostPosted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 12:50 pm


Kyrite
Pilas
I would have to say, since it's your first experience with a guy, tell him your situation. Tell him you have a guy you like and you're not sure how to handle it. If he seems interested and encouraging, you might even want to tell him who it is. Which is him.

Really, just be cautious, you don't want to lose this guy as a friend and you really don't want unneeded heartbreak. I wish you the best of luck and hope to hear how this turns out!


ya huh?

fragile_yuki


Systems Handler 014

PostPosted: Thu Jul 14, 2005 7:12 pm


aww I hope he feels the same way about you, Im not gay or bi but I think girls are really sexy, thow the idea of doing a girl doesent apel to me at all, ppl get the idea Im bi but Im as straight as a arrow I just dont have very good aim so I kinda know how your feeling
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