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 Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 9:16 am
I haven't told my mother or any other family member im going to have a baby. I mean the last time i thought i was pregnant was about 2 months ago and than my mother told me to stay on my birth control and that wouldn't happen to me again. But i haven't taken BC in well three or four months and i am not about to start now. I love my family and they know this, but i am scared beyond belief that when i tell them they'll kick my fiancee and i out. And well im getting married on the 12th of May and i would like to keep it secret that im pregnant until im about 6 months pregnant because than ill be Canada and my mum can not kick me out. But at the same time i wish i could tell her. So i am currently wondering what exactly i should do. Should i tell them? Should i keep it a secret? Im just so confused.
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Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 7:38 am
I wish I cold help you with this, but I know nothing of your family and their ideas on things like this so I can't help you, I'm sorry. sad heart
I do know that I'd probably tell. But that's because I can't deal with stress. sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 11:44 am
You'll have to tell eventually.They'll eventually figure it out on their own if you don't tell them. It'll be better if you tell sooner, rather than trying to keep it a secret.
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Posted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 1:24 pm
:/ I had the same problem. I didn't tell my step mom until Jan. I got prego in July... I knew she'd be mad so I didn't want to put up with her yelling at me the whole time, so I waited until I started showing to tell her. I'd much rather have her angry with me for three to four months rather than nine.
If your family is anything like my step mom, I'd wait. But she was also upset that I waited so long to tell her, because she could've put me on her insurance. When she found out she hugged me and cried with me though. And that NEVER happens. Ever. The last time we were close was when I was eight maybe.
Just think about the pros and cons of the situation. Do what you feel is right. Not to make others happy.
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:12 am
If you really think your mother will kick you out over this, I say keep it to yourself. But if there's a chance that you're just expecting the worst case scenario and you know, deep down, that she'll support you through this, tell her early on, and maintain her trust.
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