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Should parents be allowed to mess with your love life?
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Vamp_Chick9986

PostPosted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 9:40 pm


crying Ok, I have been dateing my g/f for a while. I dated her two years ago in like October through February of last year when we desided to call it quits because she was moving. I found her Myspace recently and we have been dateing since February 22. I really love her, but my mom is a homophobe, and we have been fighting about every little thing. I feel so angry that she won't accept me for who I am. I am also upset about not getting to see my g/f. My mom said if she ever catches me talking to my Love ever again, I will be off of the internet for good. What do I do? I will not give up the Love of my Life. That would make it not worth living. sweatdrop
PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2007 4:59 am


I... Oh my god, I don't even know what to say.


I would say what I would do.
But I don't want to give you any Illegal Idea's. >_<



crying I'm so sorry!!! crying

Lady Freakshow


the_haunted_boy

PostPosted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 4:46 pm


I would say that they should never mess with anyone's lovelife.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 4:58 pm


That's really ******** up! You're mom should just understand you're not the same as her, that you're a different person. She should accept you and let you at least speak with your love...

Lost Dream Faerie


b.u.n.n.i.e

PostPosted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 5:32 pm


Heres what would happen if this happened to me

Mom: You are never to speak to her again!
Me: PISS OFF! *runs and packs bags*
Mom: what do you think you're doing!?
Me: Im going over to erika's(best friend) and then Im buying a plane ticket to canada (where my love lives)
Mom:....
Me: walks out the dorr* Thanks for nothing. I'll ssend for my stuff see ya!! b***h!
PostPosted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 2:05 pm


lol!!! eek eek rofl

wow thats sad!! if i even told my mom that i was bi she would probably put me in the mental institute!

she would do the same thing...

Starry Phoenix


MaDe_PeRfEcTlY_ImPeRfEcT

PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 9:33 am


when my dad found out that i was bi (like 8th grade year) he pulled me by my hair off of my bunk bed and broke my arm, my nose and gave me a concussion. sad he also kept me pretty much on house arrest for 6 months and told all the teachers that if i talked to my best friend(then my crush) that they were to contact him. then when eighth grade year was over he made us move. i somehow convinced him that my bisexuality was just a phase and so i have all my privelages back. which i'm kinda ashamed of redface

and the wierd/sad things about this is that I've been dateing my heart wonderful, amazing, caring beautiful girlfriend heart for almost three months(on the 14) and my parents are becoming inquisative about why i have not had a boyfriend for so long. i thought about it for a while and decided that i was going to get my friend richard, whom i trust deeply to pretend be my b/f. which entails writing a couple mushy letters going to group movie events and making sure to hold my hand and hug me when my parents drop me off and pick me up. and my girlfriend was really upset at first. cry i understand where she was coming from but i'm doing this so my parents dont take everybody away from me again. She apologized for overreacting but i'm still terrafied that my parents are going to find out and take her away from me. emo


i know it's sad, but three months is an awfully long time for me. i'm very insecure and have mass commitment issues.

I LIKE SMILIES!!!
PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 3:10 pm


MaDe_PeRfEcTlY_ImPeRfEcT
when my dad found out that i was bi (like 8th grade year) he pulled me by my hair off of my bunk bed and broke my arm, my nose and gave me a concussion. sad he also kept me pretty much on house arrest for 6 months and told all the teachers that if i talked to my best friend(then my crush) that they were to contact him. then when eighth grade year was over he made us move. i somehow convinced him that my bisexuality was just a phase and so i have all my privelages back. which i'm kinda ashamed of redface

and the wierd/sad things about this is that I've been dateing my heart wonderful, amazing, caring beautiful girlfriend heart for almost three months(on the 14) and my parents are becoming inquisative about why i have not had a boyfriend for so long. i thought about it for a while and decided that i was going to get my friend richard, whom i trust deeply to pretend be my b/f. which entails writing a couple mushy letters going to group movie events and making sure to hold my hand and hug me when my parents drop me off and pick me up. and my girlfriend was really upset at first. cry i understand where she was coming from but i'm doing this so my parents dont take everybody away from me again. She apologized for overreacting but i'm still terrafied that my parents are going to find out and take her away from me. emo


i know it's sad, but three months is an awfully long time for me. i'm very insecure and have mass commitment issues.

I LIKE SMILIES!!!



Three words.


Nine. One. One.




I would've Immediatly. =[

Lady Freakshow


MaDe_PeRfEcTlY_ImPeRfEcT

PostPosted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 9:08 am


Little Labled Princess
MaDe_PeRfEcTlY_ImPeRfEcT
when my dad found out that i was bi (like 8th grade year) he pulled me by my hair off of my bunk bed and broke my arm, my nose and gave me a concussion. sad he also kept me pretty much on house arrest for 6 months and told all the teachers that if i talked to my best friend(then my crush) that they were to contact him. then when eighth grade year was over he made us move. i somehow convinced him that my bisexuality was just a phase and so i have all my privelages back. which i'm kinda ashamed of redface

and the wierd/sad things about this is that I've been dateing my heart wonderful, amazing, caring beautiful girlfriend heart for almost three months(on the 14) and my parents are becoming inquisative about why i have not had a boyfriend for so long. i thought about it for a while and decided that i was going to get my friend richard, whom i trust deeply to pretend be my b/f. which entails writing a couple mushy letters going to group movie events and making sure to hold my hand and hug me when my parents drop me off and pick me up. and my girlfriend was really upset at first. cry i understand where she was coming from but i'm doing this so my parents dont take everybody away from me again. She apologized for overreacting but i'm still terrafied that my parents are going to find out and take her away from me. emo


i know it's sad, but three months is an awfully long time for me. i'm very insecure and have mass commitment issues.

I LIKE SMILIES!!!



Three words.


Nine. One. One.




I would've Immediatly. =[


I'm not that strong. my train of thought isn't necissarily logical. i never thought i would but i'm one of those people who believes i some how deserve it. i'm not sure why, but i must. because if i didnt, it wouldnt happen.
PostPosted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 10:58 am


.....no...it would happen whether you deserved it or not....think about all of the punishments you receive compared to what they are for.............most likely if he did that for being bi, then he is overly abusive about everything else......get your life together as quick as you can so you can get out of that situation.....

OverlordMMM


MaDe_PeRfEcTlY_ImPeRfEcT

PostPosted: Thu Mar 15, 2007 10:36 am


Vamp_Chick9986
crying Ok, I have been dateing my g/f for a while. I dated her two years ago in like October through February of last year when we desided to call it quits because she was moving. I found her Myspace recently and we have been dateing since February 22. I really love her, but my mom is a homophobe, and we have been fighting about every little thing. I feel so angry that she won't accept me for who I am. I am also upset about not getting to see my g/f. My mom said if she ever catches me talking to my Love ever again, I will be off of the internet for good. What do I do? I will not give up the Love of my Life. That would make it not worth living. sweatdrop



has anything new happened in this situation?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 17, 2007 10:06 pm


I do agree MaDe_PeRfEcTlY_ImPeRfEcT that you should contact someone who can get you out of that situation. <:3 You don't deserve that. It might be hard but you need to eventually work up the strength. If your lover is true then she wouldn't want you to be hurt like that. Ask her for help maybe.

and Vamp_Chick9986 I wish I knew how to help. Ive never been in that situation so its hard to imagine what your going thru. I wish there was laws or something that stopped parents from treating there kids like that. Maybe you should just find a place to live away from her.

Dko
Vice Captain


Vamp_Chick9986

PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 7:45 pm


Yall are sweet emo I have to see a psychiatrist now. I will be 17 in June, and when I turn 18, my love will come and get me, and I can't wait. Prom was 2night, and I couldn't go because I won't break up with my love. If my parents physically hurt me, I honestly don't know what I would do. My mom said if I left with my girl to never come back unless I gave up being bi.
PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 6:22 pm


Vamp_Chick9986
Yall are sweet emo I have to see a psychiatrist now. I will be 17 in June, and when I turn 18, my love will come and get me, and I can't wait. Prom was 2night, and I couldn't go because I won't break up with my love. If my parents physically hurt me, I honestly don't know what I would do. My mom said if I left with my girl to never come back unless I gave up being bi.


On my 18th Birthday.
I'd give her a card.
That said "I hope you burn in hell you Narrow-Minded c**t." and run off with my girlfriend to be happy, and never look back.

Then probably forget about it, somehow. .

Then again.
That's just me.

sweatdrop excuse the language people like this piss me off somethin' fierce. sweatdrop

Lady Freakshow


Phantom Corpse

PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 3:45 am


omg your parents should not be allowd to do that!

if you love her that is all that matters

and it's not about what your parents think!
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