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 Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 2:50 pm
My boyfriend is a typical 18 year old guy..He plays video games, likes sports, hangs with his buds...But in all the time I have known him and dated him (which is quite a while) he has never bought up sex, or even try to put the moves on me. We have kissed and made out, yes, but nothing further. Not that I want to, it just doesnt seem typical for a teenage boy. Is he just special..or is he holding back? Any ideas or suggestions?
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 3:33 pm
The only one that really knows the answer to your questions is him. Maybe he is masturbating like crazy behind your back or maybe he really doesn't have a raging lebido like most boys his age. Either way if you want to know you are probably going to have to ask him or let him bring it up on his own. Sorry.
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Posted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 3:36 pm
Talk to him about it and ask what's up. 3nodding
Maybe he's nervous or worried about what you might do if he puts the moves on you, or maybe he's waiting until marriage to be sexual. Either way, just be polite him and ask what's up. Tell him you're curious as to why he is the way he is. wink
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Posted: Sun Jul 03, 2005 10:52 pm
SerenitySpeaks My boyfriend is a typical 18 year old guy..He plays video games, likes sports, hangs with his buds...But in all the time I have known him and dated him (which is quite a while) he has never bought up sex, or even try to put the moves on me. We have kissed and made out, yes, but nothing further. Not that I want to, it just doesnt seem typical for a teenage boy. Is he just special..or is he holding back? Any ideas or suggestions? He sounds kinda like me, but i'm 16. Not every teenage guy is only about sex, some people like to enjoy the lesser stuff like cuddling and kissing and etc, but i bet if u asked him to [have sex] he would, most guys wouldent say No...even i wouldn't. But anyways thats just what i thought. blaugh
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Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2005 4:45 pm
maybe HE is scared about talking to you about it, because sex is a very personal thing. Maybe he isnt ready. If you feel so strongly about talking to him about it or DOING it, than maybe you should talk to him? And try to boost his confidence.
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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 3:27 pm
just like my bf lately ninja he's the one who jumps me but then quits... evil
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Posted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 4:02 pm
a man not wanting sex is not a hard thing to believe.
most men want it because its natural and the media promotes it. but a few see it as a problem and not worth it because of feminists and other things involved.
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Posted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 10:42 pm
I'm surprised at the people who say he might be scared of it. What eighteen year-old is so immature to still be frightened of something such as love-making? He simply doesn't want to ******** her. No more, no less. Nothing to read into until she flat-out asks him.
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Posted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 10:58 pm
Shadowfury I'm surprised at the people who say he might be scared of it. What eighteen year-old is so immature to still be frightened of something such as love-making? He simply doesn't want to ******** her. No more, no less. Nothing to read into until she flat-out asks him. There ARE people like that out there. I have a couple of friends who are like that, for their own reasons. It does happen from time to time. There's a guild member I can think of off the top of my head, actually, who is like that.
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Posted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:09 pm
Nikolita Shadowfury I'm surprised at the people who say he might be scared of it. What eighteen year-old is so immature to still be frightened of something such as love-making? He simply doesn't want to ******** her. No more, no less. Nothing to read into until she flat-out asks him. There ARE people like that out there. I have a couple of friends who are like that, for their own reasons. It does happen from time to time. There's a guild member I can think of off the top of my head, actually, who is like that. I'm 16 and I'm afraid of sex. whats the problem? I mean girls are afraid of sex for along time ( well most I know ) and what nikolita said. some people are just like that.
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Posted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:11 pm
The head of the CIA Nikolita Shadowfury I'm surprised at the people who say he might be scared of it. What eighteen year-old is so immature to still be frightened of something such as love-making? He simply doesn't want to ******** her. No more, no less. Nothing to read into until she flat-out asks him. There ARE people like that out there. I have a couple of friends who are like that, for their own reasons. It does happen from time to time. There's a guild member I can think of off the top of my head, actually, who is like that. I'm 16 and I'm afraid of sex. whats the problem? I mean girls are afraid of sex for along time ( well most I know ) and what nikolita said. some people are just like that. Not all girls, but some are, yes.
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Posted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:30 pm
Nikolita The head of the CIA Nikolita Shadowfury I'm surprised at the people who say he might be scared of it. What eighteen year-old is so immature to still be frightened of something such as love-making? He simply doesn't want to ******** her. No more, no less. Nothing to read into until she flat-out asks him. There ARE people like that out there. I have a couple of friends who are like that, for their own reasons. It does happen from time to time. There's a guild member I can think of off the top of my head, actually, who is like that. I'm 16 and I'm afraid of sex. whats the problem? I mean girls are afraid of sex for along time ( well most I know ) and what nikolita said. some people are just like that. Not all girls, but some are, yes. some times I wish I had more sexual experience. do girls find virgins to be atractive like boys find them?
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Posted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:31 pm
The head of the CIA Nikolita The head of the CIA Nikolita Shadowfury I'm surprised at the people who say he might be scared of it. What eighteen year-old is so immature to still be frightened of something such as love-making? He simply doesn't want to ******** her. No more, no less. Nothing to read into until she flat-out asks him. There ARE people like that out there. I have a couple of friends who are like that, for their own reasons. It does happen from time to time. There's a guild member I can think of off the top of my head, actually, who is like that. I'm 16 and I'm afraid of sex. whats the problem? I mean girls are afraid of sex for along time ( well most I know ) and what nikolita said. some people are just like that. Not all girls, but some are, yes. some times I wish I had more sexual experience. do girls find virgins to be atractive like boys find them? It varies I think. Everyone has different opinions. To me, it doesn't matter. Whether a guy is a virgin or not isn't really an issue with me.
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Posted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:36 pm
Nikolita The head of the CIA Nikolita The head of the CIA Nikolita Shadowfury I'm surprised at the people who say he might be scared of it. What eighteen year-old is so immature to still be frightened of something such as love-making? He simply doesn't want to ******** her. No more, no less. Nothing to read into until she flat-out asks him. There ARE people like that out there. I have a couple of friends who are like that, for their own reasons. It does happen from time to time. There's a guild member I can think of off the top of my head, actually, who is like that. I'm 16 and I'm afraid of sex. whats the problem? I mean girls are afraid of sex for along time ( well most I know ) and what nikolita said. some people are just like that. Not all girls, but some are, yes. some times I wish I had more sexual experience. do girls find virgins to be atractive like boys find them? It varies I think. Everyone has different opinions. To me, it doesn't matter. Whether a guy is a virgin or not isn't really an issue with me. yeah. I was wondering because I've had my older cousins go. would you look at his sexy a**! I bet he's a sweet lil virgin to! statement like that have made twitch before but they have also made me wonder this. secondly why would a guy want a girl to be a virgin for him?
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Posted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 11:43 pm
I think it's that some guys like knowing they're the first person to have sex with a female virgin. They might get a kick knowing that they're the one who "deflowered" a female virgin, "opened her eyes to sex" and the aspects of it.
Or something like that.
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