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 Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:11 pm
sweatdrop I am kinda wanting to see what others view as sex because me and my Girlfriend are wanting to preserve our virginity until after marriage, I dont know if its going to work out that way or not but I was just wanting to see what you think is considered 'sex'. For example, oral, foreplay, touching breasts, fondling/fingering? Just kinda wanting someones opinion on the subject....up for anyones advice because its kinda touchy and new to me u___u xd redface Can I get as much advice as willing to be given, I want anything from anyone, if it could possibly help, its better than nothing. [If you don't find it comfortable putting it here you can PM me and I will respond to that]
Thankies for the comments blaugh blaugh
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:38 pm
Some people think that anything sexual is sex. That would include oral sex, touching, whatever.
However, most people think that sex is just that, sex. Nothing else. That means genital/genital (p***s in v****a or v****a rubbing v****a) contact or genital/a**l (p***s in a**s, also called a**l sex) contact would be sex, but touching and oral sex would not be sex.
So it is up to you how you want to define "sex." Personally, I think most people would give you a funny look if you told them that you had had sex, and they found out that by "sex" you meant you touched a breast or something like that. I say it isn't sex until a p***s goes into my v****a or my a**s.
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 12:04 pm
Its all opinion.. i think that intercourse is the only way to loose ur virginity.. but thats jsut me...
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 10:01 pm
My boyfriend and I are waiting for marriage too, and we define sex as p***s in v****a. We have touched each other but we don't consider that sex.
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 1:45 am
Intercourse is the only thing I see as sex. Yes, the others are forms of sexual intimacy, but I see sex as intercourse.
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 5:22 am
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 6:10 am
^_^ Thankies for the replies, I would like to keep them coming with maybe some alternatives or something if possible, but I suppose it really comes down to what she feels is and isnt intercourse though huh? Well I want to make her happy and don't want to force her into anything, but thanks for the advice. biggrin
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Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 11:34 pm
From my point of view, if there are genitals involved, it's sex. I can't personally see how oral sex or manual sex is any less intimate than penetrative sex, especially when the former are usually the more pleasurable (for women, at least). It's just personal opinion, though.
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Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2007 3:44 pm
just ask her.
I already told my boyfriend what isn't considered sex.
So I think he's happy.
^_^;;
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 8:38 pm
if theirs genitals involved its sex,
but you're still virgins until its p***s to v****a.
that's how i see it, i guess.... i think I'm just confusing people though. >.>
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