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 Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 2:46 am
When I first joined this guild I was a size twelve. I lurked around here and took advice that was given to others and used it in my own life. Well, since then I have lost a whole lot of weight. I've gone from a twelve to a six. I still have my curves like my hips (never really had any boobs) and my a**, but I really don't think that qualifies to be in this guild. So, I will leave this guild if ya'll wish, because I really don't want to waste ya'lls time.
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:22 am
Wow. Not to be rude, but that makes you sound just a bit ungrateful.
So you've lost weight. Great for you, for sure.
I know it's not your intention, but just up and leaving makes it sound like you're saying, 'well, I'm too good for you people now'.
Don't get me wrong, I just think it'd be more appropriate to stick around and support others who might be trying to shed a few pounds; just as others have done, as you said. Share what you've done to reach your current weight.
Just saying...This is a group for everyone. I apologize again for reacting in such a manner, but at this point I'm too lazy to hit 'backspace'.
If not, all the best, then.
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:51 pm
i agree with ryo, even though u lost wight it doesnt mean that u have to leave, but its all up to u in the end anyway
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 10:31 pm
This guild isn't about size, it's about support. You think all the members are chubby guys and girls then you're wrong. If you want to leave, that's up to you. Noone is going to ask you to leave. I don't know of anyone here who would make you feel like you don't fit in.
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 11:34 pm
I don't know if I think it sounds ungreatful so much as you misunderstand the point of this group... This is a guild for support for larger people, even at your new size I'm sure you can still understand and be supportive of the issues larger people have to deal with....especially as you used to be one.
Weather or not you're plus sized doesn't matter to me, or really anybody I can think of here.
And I'm super-glad that some things you picked up here helped you lose weight, would you care to share what they are? I know we get new threads repeatedly where the girl asks how she can lose weight... I always give advice, but I always wish there was somebody who regularly responded who had actually taken such tips and used it to lose the weight.
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 4:36 pm
Being fat or being a FA is not a requesite to be in this guild.
The guild was meant to be a general hangout that was fatty-friendly and not hostile like many other parts of Gaia.
You'd be missing the point if you were only here cause you were overweight.
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