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 Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 1:47 pm
I like my boyfriend hes very nice though theres the smoking that kills me but then again this isn't about his habit which he said hes not going to kick and when I'm around him his smoking makes my clothes stink of it ugh. Anyways I'd like to know if anyone has any advise on how to make sex go a bit easier if the girl isn't what most people would say " loose " I've had sex several times before and now I'm with someone that well I think is about eight inches long though I don't know how big with being wide and I'm fairly tiny on the inside my doctor told me I'm only five inches in or so. When we have sex sometimes I don't want to do many positions because it sometimes hurts when he goes into hard or moves to fast going in. I've talked to him about it some and he said he'll try to go a bit slower but some how it isn't working. I don't want to break up with him for this, it might give him the impression that I think the sex is bad. The only thing I think is bad is his oral hes not very good at it though he boasts like heck about all his ex girlfriends loving it. I'd like pointers about that to give him or let him know lightly without telling him I don't like what hes currently doing when down there. I almost forgot I'm trying to understand why its hard to get him to stay hard, he says when he was younger in his teens he didn't masturbate a lot and now hes 28 and has not done it for years. I don't feel I'm exciting him at all if his man part doesn't get erect all the way. He did tell me he was into drugs and well I think that was it that ******** him up.
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 2:49 pm
mikomihino_25 Anyways I'd like to know if anyone has any advise on how to make sex go a bit easier if the girl isn't what most people would say " loose " I've had sex several times before and now I'm with someone that well I think is about eight inches long though I don't know how big with being wide and I'm fairly tiny on the inside my doctor told me I'm only five inches in or so. The average v****a is only about four inches long most of the time. It stretches a great deal (about two to three times as much) when the woman is in the mood. v****a size does not vary nearly as much as p***s size. So most women can handle a p***s that is about 9 inches long with no discomfort if she is relaxed and adequately lubricated. You could try buying some lubricant. The number one cause of pain during sex is not enough lubrication. Sometimes women aren't even as lubricated as they think they are. Also, some medications cause women to be dryer than they would usually be. If added lubrication does not work, I would ask the doctor if she can give you any tips. Quote: When we have sex sometimes I don't want to do many positions because it sometimes hurts when he goes into hard or moves to fast going in. I've talked to him about it some and he said he'll try to go a bit slower but some how it isn't working. I don't want to break up with him for this, it might give him the impression that I think the sex is bad. Keep communicating. Let him know what hurts. Make him stop, go slower, or whatever else you tell him. Quote: The only thing I think is bad is his oral hes not very good at it though he boasts like heck about all his ex girlfriends loving it. I'd like pointers about that to give him or let him know lightly without telling him I don't like what hes currently doing when down there. You can always say things like, "faster" or "slower" or "be gentle." Sex involves communication. People like different things. He should not be offended by your telling him what you like. Quote: I almost forgot I'm trying to understand why its hard to get him to stay hard, he says when he was younger in his teens he didn't masturbate a lot and now hes 28 and has not done it for years. I don't feel I'm exciting him at all if his man part doesn't get erect all the way. He did tell me he was into drugs and well I think that was it that ******** him up. Masturbating should not be an issue there. You're right about drugs; they can cause erection problems. People have different sex drives too though. Some men get erections faster and easier than others, just like some women get lubricated faster, or more, or stay lubricated longer, or any other combination. So it does not necessarily mean that he is not attracted to you. I would talk to him about it just so that you both know how the other feels about the situation and so that you might not have to feel like it is something you are doing or not doing that is causing it.
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 12:15 pm
If he's having a hard time keeping an erection due to the drugs or some other medical reason, maybe he should see a doctor. There's such a condition called Erectile Disfunction Disorder, or something like that.
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 3:52 pm
LorienLlewellyn mikomihino_25 Anyways I'd like to know if anyone has any advise on how to make sex go a bit easier if the girl isn't what most people would say " loose " I've had sex several times before and now I'm with someone that well I think is about eight inches long though I don't know how big with being wide and I'm fairly tiny on the inside my doctor told me I'm only five inches in or so. The average v****a is only about four inches long most of the time. It stretches a great deal (about two to three times as much) when the woman is in the mood. v****a size does not vary nearly as much as p***s size. So most women can handle a p***s that is about 9 inches long with no discomfort if she is relaxed and adequately lubricated. You could try buying some lubricant. The number one cause of pain during sex is not enough lubrication. Sometimes women aren't even as lubricated as they think they are. Also, some medications cause women to be dryer than they would usually be. If added lubrication does not work, I would ask the doctor if she can give you any tips. Quote: When we have sex sometimes I don't want to do many positions because it sometimes hurts when he goes into hard or moves to fast going in. I've talked to him about it some and he said he'll try to go a bit slower but some how it isn't working. I don't want to break up with him for this, it might give him the impression that I think the sex is bad. Keep communicating. Let him know what hurts. Make him stop, go slower, or whatever else you tell him. Quote: The only thing I think is bad is his oral hes not very good at it though he boasts like heck about all his ex girlfriends loving it. I'd like pointers about that to give him or let him know lightly without telling him I don't like what hes currently doing when down there. You can always say things like, "faster" or "slower" or "be gentle." Sex involves communication. People like different things. He should not be offended by your telling him what you like. Quote: I almost forgot I'm trying to understand why its hard to get him to stay hard, he says when he was younger in his teens he didn't masturbate a lot and now hes 28 and has not done it for years. I don't feel I'm exciting him at all if his man part doesn't get erect all the way. He did tell me he was into drugs and well I think that was it that ******** him up. Masturbating should not be an issue there. You're right about drugs; they can cause erection problems. People have different sex drives too though. Some men get erections faster and easier than others, just like some women get lubricated faster, or more, or stay lubricated longer, or any other combination. So it does not necessarily mean that he is not attracted to you. I would talk to him about it just so that you both know how the other feels about the situation and so that you might not have to feel like it is something you are doing or not doing that is causing it. umm tey ... crap i forgot what i used for my bf... well viagra works too.... XD
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 3:54 pm
Nikolita If he's having a hard time keeping an erection due to the drugs or some other medical reason, maybe he should see a doctor. There's such a condition called Erectile Disfunction Disorder, or something like that. yeah ED happens in alot of guys... and it sux... alot.. but like i saidthey have pills for that
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Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 12:19 pm
xAngelofTearsx Nikolita If he's having a hard time keeping an erection due to the drugs or some other medical reason, maybe he should see a doctor. There's such a condition called Erectile Disfunction Disorder, or something like that. yeah ED happens in alot of guys... and it sux... alot.. but like i saidthey have pills for that No good doctor is going to give ED pills for someone who can easily quit doing drugs. It's been proven that drugs affect your sex drive and performance, it would be common sense to cut out the illicit drug use first before investigating ED. The length of the v****a is irrelevant with how "tight" you are. It's been suggested numerous times to find a lubricant that is right for you. Also, communication is the key importance here. Masturbation in teenage years is irrelevant as well to performance in his late 20s.
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Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 4:52 pm
lunashock xAngelofTearsx Nikolita If he's having a hard time keeping an erection due to the drugs or some other medical reason, maybe he should see a doctor. There's such a condition called Erectile Disfunction Disorder, or something like that. yeah ED happens in alot of guys... and it sux... alot.. but like i saidthey have pills for that The length of the v****a is irrelevant with how "tight" you are. It's been suggested numerous times to find a lubricant that is right for you. Also, communication is the key importance here. Masturbation in teenage years is irrelevant as well to performance in his late 20s. Oh agreed. I think I meant that if drugs were ruled out as the reason why he had a hard time keeping an erection, then going to a doctor might be in order. But going off the drugs would be the first thing to do, as Luna suggested. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 7:22 pm
Nikolita lunashock xAngelofTearsx Nikolita If he's having a hard time keeping an erection due to the drugs or some other medical reason, maybe he should see a doctor. There's such a condition called Erectile Disfunction Disorder, or something like that. yeah ED happens in alot of guys... and it sux... alot.. but like i saidthey have pills for that The length of the v****a is irrelevant with how "tight" you are. It's been suggested numerous times to find a lubricant that is right for you. Also, communication is the key importance here. Masturbation in teenage years is irrelevant as well to performance in his late 20s. Oh agreed. I think I meant that if drugs were ruled out as the reason why he had a hard time keeping an erection, then going to a doctor might be in order. But going off the drugs would be the first thing to do, as Luna suggested. 3nodding hes been off them for a long time now it was like experimenting in his teen years though he said he smoked weed when he was 18 though I didn't ask him how long he did that for. Also he does get hard just not like rock hard like most men do.
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Posted: Tue Feb 27, 2007 9:33 am
well it might not be the drugs. i know sometimes i have trouble keeping my erection when im with my gf. For some reason i think it has something to do with the masturbating, b/c i never did eithor. I was just wonder if there was any way to fix it other then viagra
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Posted: Tue Feb 27, 2007 9:53 pm
mikomihino_25 Oh agreed. I think I meant that if drugs were ruled out as the reason why he had a hard time keeping an erection, then going to a doctor might be in order. But going off the drugs would be the first thing to do, as Luna suggested. 3nodding hes been off them for a long time now it was like experimenting in his teen years though he said he smoked weed when he was 18 though I didn't ask him how long he did that for. Also he does get hard just not like rock hard like most men do. Not all men get "rock hard." If it functions, he orgasms, and he's interested, then he's as hard as he ever needs to be. All bodies are designed differently. Some guys may feel "rock hard" and others slightly squishier, even when they've got the exact same amount of bloodflow to their p***s. By the way, if you're having sex, please learn to use the word p***s. It's part of the maturity you should have at this point in your life. You don't want to talk to a doctor about a "man part" or "titties" or "coochie" do you?
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