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So my friend broke up with his girlfriend last week on thursday. I don't know why, but my friends always seem to tell me their problems. I guess I'm a good listener and I give them good advice (advice that they never follow).

Now he'd tell me about their problems and finally he breaks up with her. So we figure what the heck - he's single now and we're good enough friends to be ******** buddies.

So we are. Don't worry. I'm using protection and everything. I'm very careful about this - I'm Indian and extremely fertile.

Anyway I see him walking and talking with his ex. I knew they were friends before they dated, but I feel a bit suspicious.

This next part's going to sound lame: I looked up his myspace and it still says that he's going out with her and it still has this cute picture of them together. But the last comments from that picture were sometime back in january and the last comments she wrote him were back in january.

The only reason he really gets on his myspace is to change his display name anyway.

This is kinda a big deal to me because I don't advocate cheating AT ALL. I'm totally against it. I don't cheat, nor do I help others. (I mean on girlfriends and boyfriends - not on tests. we cheat all the time of tests). See, i had another booty call with him on monday (the monday that just passed) because we had a snow day. But the myspace says the last time he updated was sunday. When he broke up with her he took off all of the "taken - *sarah*" things he'd put up in his profiles... so I'm wondering what's going on. This like rock has dropped to the pit of my stomache.

I could not possibly help someone cheat on his girlfriend. I mean come on now. I don't know what to think.

What do you guys think? Am I over thinking this?

Do you think he was just too lazy to delete those pictures with sarah out of his profile, or do you think he got back with her and didn't tell me?

Thanks for answering.

In the past he's had some major major issues with lying. Recently he told me that the fact that he's an a*****e bothers him. I think he's slowly trying to change himself in different ways.

I see a lot more honesty in him nowadays than I used to.

However, I'm still afraid he'd lie which is why I didn't ask him. I did ask my friend today at pep band. He told me they're not going out anymore.

Good.

But thank you.

-sigh- but he's such a liar, he wouldn't answer me anyway. He has admitted that he dislikes being an a*****e and a liar and wants to change it because it would be better for his personality to do so.

might I add that he treats this girl like she's his future wife, and she always treats him like s**t? Not something I'd want to hang on to if you ask me.

Hah all I want is booty, and his ex wants to stay a virgin till marriage. That was a big thing. He even talked about them getting married just because he was referring to sex. Sipid they weren't even going out for two months! She just embodies his perfect woman or something. It's like he's been in love with her for years and he's just waiting for her to come around. She never will. She just doesn't give a damn.