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 Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 5:30 pm
at my school. Her smile is beautiful, and she and I catch myself staring at her eyes for 5 minutes at a time. sweatdrop Recently, she's shown some signs of interest in me: sitting at lunch with me, asking me to be in her group for class projects, etc. I'm in the 7th grade right now, so it is early for me to be getting in a relationship, but then I found out that half of our class is in relationships. neutral Should I ask her out or something? I know I'm to young to some people so on a side not: When did you have your first relationship and what do you think is a good age to actually get into a relationship?
Thanks
N
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 8:18 pm
 If you like her then go for it. Personally I don't think you should get into a relationship so young but that's just my opinion. I had my first relationship at 15/16 it was a total was of time. I think people shouldn't date till they are atleast 18 but that's just what I think. 
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 3:03 am
I think you should, if you want. 4laugh Age should not be as much a factor as maturity. I'm sixteen and I've had two, err, really good friends xd starting from when I was fourteen, but never an actual relationship yet. ♥
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 6:46 am
Our own personal experiance is irrelivant. I've had friends that went all the way around your age. I'm not saying i approve of that but im not saying i don't. I just think some people mature faster then others. But you re at a stage of life i like to call. "Expirment Phase" You and all yoru students around you are looking for the experiance of dating with somebody. I doubt the relationship will go anywhere major in the future BUT WHO KNOWS!? The world id random like that. Ask the bannana cat. 
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 7:59 am
phantasmagore I think you should, if you want. 4laugh Age should not be as much a factor as maturity. I'm sixteen and I've had two, err, really good friends xd starting from when I was fourteen, but never an actual relationship yet. ♥ I'm eighteen, and that's pretty much the same with me. A couple of crushes - one dance partner whee - but no dating yet. Maturity is definently a factor - if you're uncomfortable about it, don't do it (on the other hand, if you're comfortable with the idea perhaps you should).
Personally, I don't agree with high school/middle school dating. I believe that the teenage years are meant for you to figure out who you are - and if you're still trying to figure that out, how in the world will you know who's right for you? But hey, that's just my opinion... domokun
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 5:57 pm
*is munching on a cookie* Dear god, something must be wrong with me if I'm in a love topic conversation. O.O
Well, let's see 17 going onto 18 haven't had a single crush or boyfriend yet. In fact I happen to think I have general no luck, I think. ((O.O Why am I in here?))
Anyways, really it's up to you. I think everyone is right about maturity cause really I can't stand some of the guys at my school. ((O.O;; wink ) but really you never know if you don't try. You might out that you really like each other, or maybe it's just a passing fling.
Like for example, I have one friend who had two relationships, the first one the guy was a jerk, the second one well they've been together for about almost half a year now. I had another that was together with her boyfriend for almost over a year and half (and they were going into freshman year in high school when they first started), sadly they broke up. I have another friend who had two girlfriends and about three crushes and is currently single. >> And another friend who's been with his girlfriend for about two years now. My own YOUNGER brother has had a girlfriend (for about oh 3 months?). And another friend who has sworn off never to date guys until she's graduated from college only to find herself obsessed with this one guy's hair and that same guy likes her hair. *hits head*
Really, it's up to you. Try and see what happens you know? I don't have time for a guy nor can I find a decent one nor am I interest in finding one. Some of friends found someone they liked and either found out they didn't like each other as much as they thought or maybe they did. *shrugs* I'm a hopeless romantic. I'm the worst person to be asking for love advice.
*Hides in a dark corner* Someone can shoot me now.
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 8:08 am
Houkiboshi3133 *shrugs* I'm a hopeless romantic. Doesn't a hopeless romantic mean that you fall in love easily? confused
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 10:47 am
Jac E. Houkiboshi3133 *shrugs* I'm a hopeless romantic. Doesn't a hopeless romantic mean that you fall in love easily? confused No it means that you fall for such things as beautiful sunsets together and beautiful words from the one you love^_^ I myself am a romantic :3. The beauty that befalls upon me day by day is an intoxicating drug i cannot befall from habit. Day by day i stand with you, among you taking in your presence as a blessing from above, cherishing it. Oh what a world i would suffer were it not with you my everlasting love. May eternity last a bit longer so that i my gaze upon those star stricken eyes once more.... blaugh see?
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 12:28 pm
Shinobi-x05 Jac E. Houkiboshi3133 *shrugs* I'm a hopeless romantic. Doesn't a hopeless romantic mean that you fall in love easily? confused No it means that you fall for such things as beautiful sunsets together and beautiful words from the one you love^_^ I myself am a romantic :3. The beauty that befalls upon me day by day is an intoxicating drug i cannot befall from habit. Day by day i stand with you, among you taking in your presence as a blessing from above, cherishing it. Oh what a world i would suffer were it not with you my everlasting love. May eternity last a bit longer so that i my gaze upon those star stricken eyes once more.... blaugh see? Bleagh! gonk
Oh sorry... The Ghost of Bluntness posessed me for a moment. sweatdrop I guess I'm not much of a romantic... Talk is so cheap to me. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 12:56 pm
Well if i were to sy that to a woman i would be very sincere. I'm very loyal and faithful even to my friends. I back my words up with actions that follow suit^_^
Those who are my close friends know that I made a pledge to protect them by any means even my own life. A samurai's pledge to serve as a guardian. And i would die for any of them in an instant.
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Posted: Thu Feb 01, 2007 9:12 pm
Jac E. Shinobi-x05 Jac E. Houkiboshi3133 *shrugs* I'm a hopeless romantic. Doesn't a hopeless romantic mean that you fall in love easily? confused No it means that you fall for such things as beautiful sunsets together and beautiful words from the one you love^_^ I myself am a romantic :3. The beauty that befalls upon me day by day is an intoxicating drug i cannot befall from habit. Day by day i stand with you, among you taking in your presence as a blessing from above, cherishing it. Oh what a world i would suffer were it not with you my everlasting love. May eternity last a bit longer so that i my gaze upon those star stricken eyes once more.... blaugh see? Bleagh! gonk
Oh sorry... The Ghost of Bluntness posessed me for a moment. sweatdrop I guess I'm not much of a romantic... Talk is so cheap to me. sweatdrop Yeah I fall easily for the cute adorable things. >.> It's a vague insult that my date to junior prom didn't even say I looked nice that night. >.> But yeah. I'm weird sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 6:31 pm
i think u sould go for it if u dont then u will never know
i was 13when i was with my girl and i still am
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Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 6:33 pm
[N] at my school. Her smile is beautiful, and she and I catch myself staring at her eyes for 5 minutes at a time. sweatdrop Recently, she's shown some signs of interest in me: sitting at lunch with me, asking me to be in her group for class projects, etc. I'm in the 7th grade right now, so it is early for me to be getting in a relationship, but then I found out that half of our class is in relationships. neutral Should I ask her out or something? I know I'm to young to some people so on a side not: When did you have your first relationship and what do you think is a good age to actually get into a relationship?
Thanks
N i think u sould go for it if u dont then u will never know and u do not have to if u do not want to t is up to u
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 4:13 am
John?
*head/desk*
Gah...I'm watching you. neutral
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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 4:21 am
[N] at my school. Her smile is beautiful, and she and I catch myself staring at her eyes for 5 minutes at a time. sweatdrop Recently, she's shown some signs of interest in me: sitting at lunch with me, asking me to be in her group for class projects, etc. I'm in the 7th grade right now, so it is early for me to be getting in a relationship, but then I found out that half of our class is in relationships. neutral Should I ask her out or something? I know I'm to young to some people so on a side not: When did you have your first relationship and what do you think is a good age to actually get into a relationship?
Thanks
N Hmm...young love may perhaps be the most innocent of all. Often it is poked fun at or not taken seriously.
You've come to a wise point in this, N, as you do realize that it may be a little early for you to be in a *serious* relationship. However, my friend, I personally suggest you go for it! Sure, there's always the first-time screw ups, but hey, if you truely are crazy for this girl, (she seems lovely) then you must face your fears and ask her to uh...go out with you? ((Is that what the young folk say?))
Remember, you must start somewhere, and I believe 7th Grade is the right time. You're in for some tough times, but hey, just be strong, be able to listen, and be flexible. If she likes you even half as much as it seems you like her, then you two will be good to go. 3nodding
As Phantasmagore said, it is really a matter of Maturity. If you can have a good head about this whole thing, then you'll not only enjoy yourself, but you'll also learn a thing or two.
To answer your questions to us...
My first *real* realtionship was, in fact, 7th grade! Go figure. It lasted two years, but was broken by distance. gonk A killer of killers. We met in 6th Grade, became good friends, but lost it all around 9th Grade. We're still friends though!
My second started around the end of 9th Grade and continued on...right up until Christmas. That was a good one...but a rather tragic ending.
I've learned alot, although it was "just" two relationships, I kept my eyes open and was flexible. I mean...a 7th grade relationship lasting two years? I think that's pretty good!
A third Relationship? Mm...who knows. I hear the 20th of this month is lucky. heart
So in conclusion!
Face up your fears man! If you're bonkers about this girl go for it!
The worst she can say is "No", and hey, if it's a no, then maybe theres time for her to say "Yes". Never let a single word ruin your friendship.
Good luck! We're all pulling for you! 4laugh
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