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 Posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 12:39 pm
Okay, so lemme start off by saying that i do check out other girls, but i dont date other girls. my best friend.. lets call her jean, and me were talking once about how i was worried about if i was bi or not and she was saying that she does the same thing. we kinda laughed about it and wen we finished she said "i would go lez for u anyday" or something along the lines of that.. i figured she was just joking, but the week after (which was 2 days ago) she was hinting that she wanted to try a elationship with me. she said that it was "curiousity" and that she thinks shes luvs me more than a friend should. i told her that if she is curious,as a friend, i would be willing to "help" her.. but i just am not interested in a relationship. did i do the rite thing? wat should i have done different? am i wierd? plz comment T crying T
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Posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 3:15 pm
If you are sexually attracted to women, fine. If you want to do sexual things with women, fine. If you don't want a relationship, fine. I don't see a problem. xp
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Posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 4:01 pm
but is it normal? for girls to want to check out girls..but not date? o.o
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Posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 9:24 pm
Sure. Some bisexual people lean heavily towards one sex or the other. I dated a man who said he was sexually attracted to both sexes, but was only interested in dating women. He said he was about 70/30, leaning towards women. So he was sexually attracted to men some, but not a lot, not enough to have a long term relationship with one.
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Posted: Fri Jan 26, 2007 12:07 pm
ok.. thank u lots ^^ that helps ^^
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Posted: Sat Jan 27, 2007 6:09 pm
Lol. I actually had a very similar instance. I have checked out women in the past, I felt emotionally connected to one girl once, and I actually did hook up with a female friend once just for the hell of it.
And I still consider myself straight. xd Really. Because I've never "liked" girls the same way I like guys. But I don't even really think labeling is a good idea. Especially when you're still in high school (which I am). I think it's better to just leave your sexuality unlabeled and that way, you don't fret over it but no path is closed to you...
Try stuff out with your friend if you like. However, you did need to make it clear that it's kinda an experiment to you so that she doesn't get any other ideas. I don't insanely regret having hook-uped with a friend out of curiousity, although I probably wouldn't do it again now (different factors involved). For me, actually surprizingly, our hooking-up didn't change the nature of our friendship at all. We're still great friends, we even will mention it every once in awhile. The key here, though, is that there was no romantic interest. And if your friend has romantic interest in you while you only have curiousity/lust in mind, that might clash. You need to make sure both people understand what is going on.
I believe that all women are at least a little bit bi. Or at least more so than men. So a normal "straight" women would probably still have a little interest in other women.
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