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 Posted: Tue Jan 16, 2007 12:14 am
I have a friend who is very in touch with themselves (you're never really sure which persona you'll get) you might say, and he told me about the dream he had not long ago (a rival for my leeching dream I think) which we both found extremel unusual. So here goes:
He dreamt that he was a whore (sorry for being so blunt) eek
My first thought was sexual frustration, but I don't know. So he's a little reluctant to allow himself the leisure of dreaming since he's afraid he'll have it again. So any suggestions of what this might mean? Is it healthy, he doesn't think so, and considering the mental strain we've both been under I don't trust myself much to look too deeply into it with just my opinion. As for him, he doesnt have one...but he doesnt want a revisitation of it either.
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Posted: Tue Jan 16, 2007 12:29 pm
It is VERY healthy to dream of sex and such. Now if he dreams it every night and thinks about it literally 24 hours a day 7 days a week, then he would have an issue. But a dream is a dream. They don't ALWAYS have a deeper meaning. Tell him that it is normal to have sex dreams. They will come and go. As long as he knows that there is a difference between dreams and the waking life, he will be fine. heart
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Posted: Tue Jan 16, 2007 11:46 pm
Very true, we have actually already had several discussions about that as well as things concerning people manipulating him into situations. And seriously he used to talk about it, and think about it alot more, so I think in that aspect he's gotten better, which is why I found the dream odd. Y'know, I was like 'why now?' But I usually have his well being at heart (except when I find him absolutely impossible and want to hurt him) so I am more than happy to know its nothing really awful. I just hate the idea of him staying awake for fear that he'll have a similar dream.
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 1:34 pm
Whores are not just about sex. But represent views on self respect, exploitation, gratification, and manipulation.
You had mentioned about him being manipulated. This dream could be an indication of his awareness of how often he is manipulated, and how he feels about it, then either figure out if he wishes to stop getting into those type of situations, or find ways to turn it into an advantage for him. wink
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 4:42 pm
Thyna Whores are not just about sex. But represent views on self respect, exploitation, gratification, and manipulation. You had mentioned about him being manipulated. This dream could be an indication of his awareness of how often he is manipulated, and how he feels about it, then either figure out if he wishes to stop getting into those type of situations, or find ways to turn it into an advantage for him. wink Yes, Thyna got to it before I could. 3nodding That is exactly right.
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 4:03 pm
Raeden Michelle Thyna Whores are not just about sex. But represent views on self respect, exploitation, gratification, and manipulation. You had mentioned about him being manipulated. This dream could be an indication of his awareness of how often he is manipulated, and how he feels about it, then either figure out if he wishes to stop getting into those type of situations, or find ways to turn it into an advantage for him. wink Yes, Thyna got to it before I could. 3nodding That is exactly right. lol think we should pool our resources and create our own Dream Dictionary lol j/k
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Posted: Sat Jan 20, 2007 3:47 pm
Thyna Raeden Michelle Thyna Whores are not just about sex. But represent views on self respect, exploitation, gratification, and manipulation. You had mentioned about him being manipulated. This dream could be an indication of his awareness of how often he is manipulated, and how he feels about it, then either figure out if he wishes to stop getting into those type of situations, or find ways to turn it into an advantage for him. wink Yes, Thyna got to it before I could. 3nodding That is exactly right. lol think we should pool our resources and create our own Dream Dictionary lol j/k Maybe, but I sometimes cheat and use Dream Moods. I think you've mentioned that site as well. I generally use it as a base for the symbolism, but end up using it to help me understand the dreamer's dream.
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Posted: Tue Jan 23, 2007 8:59 pm
Raeden Michelle Thyna Whores are not just about sex. But represent views on self respect, exploitation, gratification, and manipulation. You had mentioned about him being manipulated. This dream could be an indication of his awareness of how often he is manipulated, and how he feels about it, then either figure out if he wishes to stop getting into those type of situations, or find ways to turn it into an advantage for him. wink Yes, Thyna got to it before I could. 3nodding That is exactly right.
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Posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 6:02 am
Oterys Hmm, interesting. It's true he is manipulated a lot. Not necessarily because he's niave but just because he's swayed by emotions. But severing that part of himself hasn't really worked if he's still dreaming about being ill-used in such a way, has it? But its true that last year I told him the same thing about being pressured by friends who knew they were causing him pain. It doesn't have to be physically occurring still to have such dreams. Some of our dreams bring up our fears to try to protect us from them in our waking life. Kind of the whole, "if it happens in my dream it can't happen in real life" type of deal. It's his brain's way of dealing with his emotional scars and his fears of falling back into that pattern. How is he doing, by the way? Have his dreams gotten a little bit better since he's been talking about them?
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Posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 9:07 pm
Raeden Michelle Oterys Hmm, interesting. It's true he is manipulated a lot. Not necessarily because he's niave but just because he's swayed by emotions. But severing that part of himself hasn't really worked if he's still dreaming about being ill-used in such a way, has it? But its true that last year I told him the same thing about being pressured by friends who knew they were causing him pain. It doesn't have to be physically occurring still to have such dreams. Some of our dreams bring up our fears to try to protect us from them in our waking life. Kind of the whole, "if it happens in my dream it can't happen in real life" type of deal. It's his brain's way of dealing with his emotional scars and his fears of falling back into that pattern. How is he doing, by the way? Have his dreams gotten a little bit better since he's been talking about them?
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Posted: Sat Jan 27, 2007 7:03 am
Sometimes it can be healthy to refrain from friends for a short while, but try not to refrain forever. (I have always had issues with friends...mostly female friends. I can make guy friends OK, but females sweatdrop )
Maybe if he writes his dreams down, they may begin to disappear if he starts having them again. Its another technique that I just remembered.
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Posted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 7:22 pm
Raeden Michelle Sometimes it can be healthy to refrain from friends for a short while, but try not to refrain forever. (I have always had issues with friends...mostly female friends. I can make guy friends OK, but females sweatdrop ) Maybe if he writes his dreams down, they may begin to disappear if he starts having them again. Its another technique that I just remembered.
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