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 Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 12:27 am
i was wondering how you guys came out if you have yet (sorry if i worded that wrong im not to good in english sorry)
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Posted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 12:31 pm
Heh. . it was easy. My mom came up to me when me and my ex where in my room and she went " I told your father" I asked her what and she said that your gay. MY JAW DROPPED I hadn't told anyone yet and she knew XP
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Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 10:11 pm
My parents still don't know, at least not from me telling them, but I'm open with my sexuality with other people that i know and always have been, unless it will get back to my parents than i don't really mention anything. My parents and I do not really get along, we try our best, but it doesn't really work that well.
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Posted: Sat Jan 13, 2007 4:01 am
I was 14 years old and I use to have the fascination of wondering how it would be with another girl.. my mom pissed me off and I went and talked to my 16 year old friend who turned out to be a lesbian >_> and thats the story of how I figured out I liked the idea of bisexuality and me. One day I told my mom and she screamed at me that it wasn't true all girls have a fasication with wondering how it would be to be with other girls blah blah when I was 16 I had my first real girlfriend.. first time I was truly in love.. My mom liked her she was my friend before my girlfriend then omg.. My mom to this day tells me no one in our family can know that it would kill my grandparents and father and my father would blame her for me being bisexual lol so thats my coming out story only my mother and cousin know.
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[Beautifully Broken] Captain
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Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 7:25 am
Sorry, no big story from me. I've just sort of always been accepting of everything so I never really got distressed over the whole 'omg i think i'm gay!' thing.
My mother once asked me if I was, this was still in high school, i think i was 15 or 16 at the time. It was an unusually silent dinner and she just asked me flat out, no intro or anything. I nearly choked on my potatos. I said no, cause she asked if i was a lesbian. Technically I'm not, I'm bi.
So i've never really told my family, but my friends know. At least the ones who care to remember. I'm not the type to say 'Hey, my name's ____, how are you today? And by the way, I'm bisexual.' If it comes up in conversation, it comes up.
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Posted: Fri Jan 26, 2007 8:35 am
In my Sophmore year of high school, my girlfriend broke up with me because her dad found out about us and was treating her like s**t about it. It wouldn't have been a big deal if I hadn't spent the night and acted like we were nothing. Anyways, she broke up with me. I was extremely, extremely sad about it, because she's just one of those girls you can never ever forget no matter how much you try and how much you make yourself believe you hate her. So I pretty much stayed home from a school a few days, cried my eyes out. My mom never asked me about what was wrong. I wrote some poems about said ex-girlfriend. Posted them on Poetry.com. Uh-oh. Yeah. They were chosen to be in a literary magazine. They were sent back in an envelope. My mom read them. Asked me if this girl was the reason I've been depressed. I said yes, and cried some more. She told me people break up and not everyone's going to be accepting and blah, blah, blah. AND then, she asked me if she could order a lot of magazines with my poem in it to send to relatives across the country. Yeah. So, that's how that went.
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:47 pm
Well I basically came out because everyone for one reason or another knew any way. Except for the first person I told, my mother. She didn't know but she was accepting(she thinks where all born bi anyway). I told one friend who came out to me but the arse began telling people behind my back. So when I finally told them they said he already told them. >.< Im very lucky thought that so far all my friends that know are cool with it. But it would of been nice if it was me who told them first.
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:49 pm
I haven't come out yet, at least not to anyone I know :^)
(btw, I'm bi, just so you know, as a reference)
I don't hide it, it's just that I haven't been interested in anyone, so it hasn't come up with my family, and even if it did I wouldn't care what they think either way.... I don't get out much... lol.
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:49 pm
No one that is around me knows, just basically friends on gaia.
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 9:28 pm
I started with my closest friends when I was about 17.
When I started working when I was 19, I got a ride home with someone who lived sort of near me. She had this deal with someone that night. The deal was she would tell me that her friend was attracted to me, and her friend would tell the person she had a crush on that she was attracted to him. I was not interested in this person at all because she was obese (I'm sorry to anyone who this might offend, I'm fat myself, but this person was almost needing a wheelchair sort of obese). I didn't want to come out and say "No, she's too fat" because of that being really rude. After a long pause of me not know what to say, I just blurted out "I'm not really interested in girls". It started to get around work very slowly after that. My sister worked there, and she found out. Now I'm open to pretty much everybody except my family.
I don't think I'll ever come out to my family. I don't really talk to anyone except my sister though. The last time I talked to my mother was when I was 18, and I haven't talked to my father in almost a year now. I don't plan on talking to my mother ever again, and my conversations with my dad are awkward enough already. Throwing in a "btw I'm gay" would just make things way too awkward.
After that ride home though, the girl who gave me the ride home has since become my best friend. I have talked to her about it, and she said if I had said "she's too fat" that she would have understood and just told her friend that I wasn't interested.
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 12:19 am
Mine is quite long...
Last summer, I asked to go to a concert and spend the night with my friend Meghan. My mom said no. When I asked why, she said that Meghan might be my girlfriend and therefore she didn't want me spending the night with her. Now, Meghan and I were together at the time. I ignored this although it was odd. Probably a month later, I was talking to my friend Nick and his Mom. They both knew that I was bi. Michelle(Nick's mom) had just heard about Evan(a friend) who was mad at me for being with Meghan(ex situation). She told me that night that if I hadn't told my mom by the end of summer than she would tell her...So, I figured she should hear it from me. I went home that night and set down by my mom...Here's our dialogue...
Me: You know how you were wondering if Meghan and I were together?
Mom: Yes?
Me: Well, why'd you ask that?
Mom: Well, when you're bisexual you date girls and guys.
Me: Huh? -confused-
Mom: Well, you're bi.
Me: Huh? -still confused-
Mom: You know I check up on your MySpace...
-Conversation ends-(That's how it happened...on my MySpace, it says I'm bi...)
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 12:50 pm
:::help me out plz:::
ok...i know this doesnt sound very mature and im feeling a bit stupid, but...i dont know, im feeling a bit lost. ever since im really yound i have always had something for girls, but i only understood it more when i was about 11, but i guess i must of been 13 when i got the message across. so, i thought i was bi, and i had a couple things with girls.
but now im confused again. im sort of with a guy, not "officialy" or what ever but its been a year even though his far...and he came to visit me recently and im starting to think i might be lesbian but i have no idea. i really like him, but guys tend to have this "i need to take care of youkuz im a guy" thing that...i dunno, i dont really like it. i like it when some one wants to help, and huggs you when you are sad but im more the person who wants to care more then being cared for. "if that makes any sence"
i dunno, im a bit confused again, and i needed some help but i think this is really confusing. anyways, if any one wants to say somethin... quote it, or pm me or...somethin. thx smile
-shnitz-
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