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Fuzzy Necromancer

PostPosted: Sun Jan 07, 2007 6:41 pm


It comes to my mind that Inuyasha is in a very unhealthy relationship. Think about it. The necklace means that Kagome has total control of him. She can hurt and incapacitate him whenever she wants. It would be like if she periodically smashed a beer bottle on his head. It's superficially funny, but it seems kinda creepy to me. It's like physically abusive men are sick, but physically abusive women are just entertaining? Inuyasha doesn't really have the psychological capacity to retaliate either. He can't hurt Kagome because that would go completely against who he now is, so the only thing he can do is act rude and pump up the insecurity-coating bravado. It seems to me a lot like slavery. If there was a race of demons that went around putting shock-collars on humans, it would certainly be viewed as that.

Thoughts?
PostPosted: Sun Jan 07, 2007 7:28 pm


wow, I never thought of it that way, but you're right! Then it makes me think of when Kikyou was about to give him the necklace, but changed her mind. What would happen if she didn't change her mind? eek hmm. I guess the fact that she didn't give it to him gave her more trust to him, visa versa. Kagome is very abusive, but in a small way it's more for herself that she's doing it, then for fun. she says sit so he will stay with her...that confuses me.

Kaleidosaur

Hopeful Trash


Fuzzy Necromancer

PostPosted: Mon Jan 08, 2007 5:29 am


If she did give him the necklace however, Naraku wouldn't be able to decieve her. She'd realize the sit-commands didn't work and know the ruse before she died. As a result, when she got ressurected all pottery-like, she wouldn't be all "DIE INUYASHA!"
PostPosted: Mon Jan 08, 2007 1:52 pm


wow..your right!its only on there to control him...kagome could take it off whenever she wanted...so THAT MEANS SHE WANTS TO KEEP IT ON! OMG!!!! eek I still love the couple though...cant help it...fangirl reflex is kicking in..... heart

[Vertically.Challenged]


nikkygirl777

PostPosted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 11:06 am


Ihate to do this sweatdrop but I totolly have to agree 3nodding 3nodding with you on this
PostPosted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 10:19 am


RoxyChick2003
wow, I never thought of it that way, but you're right! Then it makes me think of when Kikyou was about to give him the necklace, but changed her mind. What would happen if she didn't change her mind? eek hmm. I guess the fact that she didn't give it to him gave her more trust to him, visa versa. Kagome is very abusive, but in a small way it's more for herself that she's doing it, then for fun. she says sit so he will stay with her...that confuses me.

Yes but remember WHEN she got it. He was trying to kill her at the time and it seemed a very good way of protection! She keeps it on him because sometimes he has to be put in line. And yes I know, he doesn't deserve to be thrashed into the ground but still. And not to count the NUMBER of times that necklace saved his life. Kagome uses it to keep him and line and she's saved his life. I'm just saying, Kagome isn't abusive because she wants to be, she alone does it when he is being an insufferable brat and when she is trying to save him!!! Both reasons sound well enough to me. Even though, ouch. Poor InuYasha, but sometimes he deserves it. Inu heart Kag. =]

Emily the Omnivore


Fuzzy Necromancer

PostPosted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 10:43 am


It is true that, when she put the necklace on him initially, he was trying to kill her.

However, over time, they came to build a kind of trust. Yes, she has saved his life. He has saved hers many more times over. Yes, it's true that sometimes Inuyasha is a dickweed with all the emotional sensitivity of an autistic hitman and the tact of an air-to-ground missile. She can chastise him for that by using a thing called "words" (at least, words like "you two-timing manwhore" as opposed to words like "sit!") instead of delivering the thaumaturgical equivalent of a beer bottle to the forhead. It's something that mature people do. A relationship built on the threat of violence can never be a healthy one.

Inuyasha is immature, grouchy, insensitive, and ill-tempered. However, I wish to point out that he has never physically harmed Kagome. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but non-magical words are no excuse to do harm to others.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 2:54 pm


never thought of that but now its so true shes like abuseing him in a way but i still like that couple but personally i think shes a hore mad

Passionate-Death-Angel


Kaleidosaur

Hopeful Trash

PostPosted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 5:55 pm


Kagome and Shippo are complaining about how stupid Inuyasha can be, and I'm pretty sure a small concusion isn't going to help him in any way...just had to add that. xd
PostPosted: Fri Jan 26, 2007 10:19 am


GothicKittenKisses
never thought of that but now its so true shes like abuseing him in a way but i still like that couple but personally i think shes a hore mad


If Kagome's anything, she's a tease rather than a whore. She only actually displays any affection or interest in Inuyasha, while she merely allows Koga and Hojo to go on courting her because...I dunno? Because she wants some weapon to use as emotional blackmail against Inuyasha? Because she doesn't have the clitoris to say "no" to them? Because she likes the attention?

She would be a whore only if she actually did things with other guys, like kissed them, bore their children, etc. Even then, I think it's a pretty harsh insult for a moderately disturbed teenage girl.

Fuzzy Necromancer


inuyashafan34
Captain

PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 1:06 pm


I dunno further on into the anime you find that kagome actually feels something for inuyasha. I think she just keeps it on so he doesnt go running off all the time. If you ask me she keeps in on their to keep him with her, and not with kikyo. Maybe a jealous thing or just an affection for love. But if however she did take it off, I think inuyasha would stay with kagome. No matter what.
PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 5:08 pm


Satoru Tokushima
RoxyChick2003
wow, I never thought of it that way, but you're right! Then it makes me think of when Kikyou was about to give him the necklace, but changed her mind. What would happen if she didn't change her mind? eek hmm. I guess the fact that she didn't give it to him gave her more trust to him, visa versa. Kagome is very abusive, but in a small way it's more for herself that she's doing it, then for fun. she says sit so he will stay with her...that confuses me.

Yes but remember WHEN she got it. He was trying to kill her at the time and it seemed a very good way of protection! She keeps it on him because sometimes he has to be put in line. And yes I know, he doesn't deserve to be thrashed into the ground but still. And not to count the NUMBER of times that necklace saved his life. Kagome uses it to keep him and line and she's saved his life. I'm just saying, Kagome isn't abusive because she wants to be, she alone does it when he is being an insufferable brat and when she is trying to save him!!! Both reasons sound well enough to me. Even though, ouch. Poor InuYasha, but sometimes he deserves it. Inu heart Kag. =]
I've never thought of it like that. but i do also agree with Satoru. it's confusing....

RedxWolf13


Kaleidosaur

Hopeful Trash

PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 5:13 pm


glitterbunny13
Satoru Tokushima
RoxyChick2003
wow, I never thought of it that way, but you're right! Then it makes me think of when Kikyou was about to give him the necklace, but changed her mind. What would happen if she didn't change her mind? eek hmm. I guess the fact that she didn't give it to him gave her more trust to him, visa versa. Kagome is very abusive, but in a small way it's more for herself that she's doing it, then for fun. she says sit so he will stay with her...that confuses me.

Yes but remember WHEN she got it. He was trying to kill her at the time and it seemed a very good way of protection! She keeps it on him because sometimes he has to be put in line. And yes I know, he doesn't deserve to be thrashed into the ground but still. And not to count the NUMBER of times that necklace saved his life. Kagome uses it to keep him and line and she's saved his life. I'm just saying, Kagome isn't abusive because she wants to be, she alone does it when he is being an insufferable brat and when she is trying to save him!!! Both reasons sound well enough to me. Even though, ouch. Poor InuYasha, but sometimes he deserves it. Inu heart Kag. =]
I've never thought of it like that. but i do also agree with Satoru. it's confusing....
You got that right! xd
PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 9:21 pm


Well it wont matter, because the more they fight. The better chances of them being together in the end.

inuyashafan34
Captain


I_LOVE_BOOKZ

PostPosted: Tue Feb 27, 2007 8:59 pm


I totally get what your saying and I agree with most of it but Inuyasha is a demon so I guess it really dose not hurt him that much not that I'm making exuses or anything. xp
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