|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 4:36 pm
hello everyone, i am Derek otherwise known as levi jones
i love to right, act sing and what not and i beileve God has given me many talents and can use me for different things
But i have a problem...here's the story
Around the age of seven my brother's God brother ( no relation)
ha d a very strong attraction for me. And he tried to have sex with me an several occasions four of which worked. And during this time he always told me is was fine for guys to do that, so like the little kid i was i thought it was alright. Then around nine my cousin did the same thing. lets just simply say..i would have never done this things had i known what God felt about them.. An both of the people that were with me..knew what they were doing more than i was.. but regardless
of the point....it put me a at the cross roads of being attracted to both genders... and i don't want to be and every time i think i'm doing well, brfore i know it i'm back at the computre making the same mistake i have made for eight years... basically i seriously need help
I'm telling you guys this because i really can't tell anyone else in my world because i son't want to break my famiy/friends' heart, nor my girlfriend.
But i just need help on what to do..how do i break this cycle
i know that i can be a great tool for God if i Break free
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Jan 06, 2007 9:15 am
Sexual sin is a hard thing to break. Its something that can become addicting which in itself causes a lot of problems. My best advice I can give right now is not to give up trying to live a holy life for God. The moment you give up, is the moment satan wins. Remember that God has planned a relationship between one man and one woman for as long as they live, because they are happiest and most fullfilled in that kind of relationship. It doesn't matter what you have done in the past, once you become a Christian you will try to obey all of God's because of your love for Him.
Sin is very hard to break, especialy at first. But once you start breaking some sinful habits it will be easier to start breaking others. Ways to break sinful habits:
keep in mind when you do that particular sin and change what you do during that time in a way that will discourage that type of sin
keep praying, God is the only one to help you through sin, you can't do it alone also help from friends can be help even more
most importantly, don't give up sin is hard to break but not impossible, keep trying with God's help and you will succeed
Let me know if you like me to clarify on anything. I will keep you in my prayers. May God bless you and help you conquer your sin.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sat Jan 06, 2007 12:44 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply
