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Having a finger in the hole and a tongue on the c**t works very well. Especially if the finger is just gently going in and out and the tongue is making like a circular motion. Gently sucking on the c**t area feels great. Different girls are more or less sensitive on the c**t so the guy has to kinda test out how direct he can be with the pressure (some, like me, don't like it when it's directly on the c**t because it hurts. rubbing or licking above the hood is the best way to go but other girls might like it directly on.)

The best thing is just to experiment with different things and see what the girl likes. The guy should definitely ask to find out what works best.

This is exactly how I would have answered this question. People are just too different. Some like it gentle, some like rough, some like it somewhere in between. Half the fun is in experimenting anyway. I can't imagine why anyone would rather get detailed instructions on how to please a stranger off the internet. xp I could tell you and your boyfriend what I like, but that doesn't necessarily help you! You could like a very different technique! xp Experiment and Communicate.

I understand your question, but I am still not going to give you what you want. xp I still say half the fun is in experimenting. So what if you don't find out what does it for you right away? What's the rush? xp When I first started having sex, all we did was experiment and communicate. My partner was pretty clueless too. Everyone has a first time, when they go in slightly clueless. Sure, we might know about sex, STDs, and birth control because of school, but we all go into sex not knowing exactly what we will like. That's just the way it is. That's the way it is for just about everyone. I think that if two people are mature enough and comfortable with each other enough for sex, they should not mind trying anything they can think of (providing it is safe of course), even if it doesn't work at all! That is how we learn about ourselves and our bodies. That is how we learn what we like, gain confidence in telling our partner what works and what doesn't, and strengthen the relationship. I know that's not the answer you want, but I think giving all of those tips and details is not a good idea. I would suggest having him touch you in different places, lick you in different places, or both and see what works for you both.

I like your sig picture. 3nodding

have him practice with a fruit.. for me (yes ima girl) you (ugh..) start around tha outside then work ur way in... so .. just have him practice...