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We have a thread about your first times; but for those of you who havn't lost their virginity yet, let us know how you want it to go.

Ok guys, First i'm saying Hello, because this is my first post, but let me tell you about first times:

They aren't what you think. Yes, they are romantic and meaningful, but seriously very rarely will everything "Click into place" as you'd expect it to sweatdrop

My first time was with my boyfriend (Who I'm still with! ). It was his first time too, and it was romantic and everything smile Like Romeo and Juliet.

He used to ride his bike 5kms to my house at 2AM whenever I felt sad so I could feel better and he'd hug me all night until he had to go home at dawn.
Anyways one day we organised "it" and it happened. It was great, but really not great as in, it hurt and it was confusing, but you guys will get used to it ^_^ If it's with the person you love the most, then it will be great no matter what happens heart

Long story short, We live together and he proposed yesterday OMG! heart heart

Sorry about the life story pirate

aww wow, i am so happy for you

Thanks everyone heart

I've often thought about it, and even discussed it a bit with 3 out of the 5 or 6 girlfriends I've had. I've come up with two answers for the when..... I've thought about waiting till my honeymoon or something to make sure that it's with someone that I know I will be with and love regardlessly the rest of my life. On the other hand though, I've thought about doing it right away because (like other teens) I am curious as to what it feels like both physically and emotionally. I even got close to doing it one time, but ended up not because my parents were approaching the room I was in. But anyway, that's besides the point. For the where though........ I'd want it to be somewhere private, but still romantic. I've gone anywhere from a candle-lit bedroom to a shower. Any which way I've looked at it though, I've wanted it to be special and actually mean something....... not just do it to do it. More so do it because I feel it's appropriate at that point in time to do with the girl I love to the point where I find it appropriate. I've also had friends tell me about their experiences. All of them had told me that it's painful, but that's just what I've heard from them.

So, in a more summed up version, I want it to be somewhere private, yet romantic. For the time, I want it to be when it seems appropriate.

hey my name is amanda aka mandy

I just wanna say that i just want it to be good romantic and i wanna lose it to someone i love like Bishoujo Samurai did.

I want mine to be spontaneous, but only as long as we have some form of protection. And I want the house to be empty, so nobody bursts in on us halfway through, because that would be uber embarrassing. AND I want to love him, or at least have REEEEEALLLLY strong feelings for him, and him for me. Oh, and I'd have had to have been with him for at least ten months, maybe probably longer. And I'd probably tell my parents about it before hand, because I'd hate to be sneaking around behind their backs.

awww!
congratulations <3!