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Dr. Phoenix

PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 7:02 am


What is the difference between flirting and being friendly? I always talk to the cashiers at the bookstore and stuff, and I think I'm just being nice, but my mom says I'm flirting. So how do you tell when you're flirting?
Also, when you're trying to flirt (with either gender), what are some good techniques?
PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 10:10 am


I wish I could tell you, but I don't know sweatdrop

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 11:24 am


There really is a fine line between flirting and being friendly. One difference I know of is touching. If you're talking to someone and you're constantly touching them on the arm, etc. other than a handshake, that's being flirty.

I can't really think of any other differences.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 1:26 pm


the eyes you can tell if there just talking to u or if there is a special motive.
and the tone of voice. and when some 1 is just talking to u they offen are still, But when flirting every 1 has a think they do when they think maby play with there hands move there feet. use signs like these to tell becouse flirting usely take more thought. body language will offen gice people away.




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Darwinsch

PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 2:15 pm


I would agree ion every aspect that has already been mentioned. To touch someone or just look at the person, you are talking to, makes a huge difference between being friendly or flirty. As well as the tone of your voice. But as you all know I am a huge fan of voices, so this point might be a little bit to subjectively to be taken for granted.
But I would say that the subject about which is talked during the conversation may also be an indicator wether it's just a friendly or a flirty conversation. *smiles* heart
PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 11:33 pm


as far to tell if u are flirting it just depends on your motives

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Dr. Phoenix

PostPosted: Sun Dec 31, 2006 4:02 am


What tone of voice makes it flirting?
PostPosted: Sun Dec 31, 2006 7:56 am


I think it all depends on the topic the two people are discusing

b.u.n.n.i.e


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 31, 2006 5:04 pm


The line between being friendly and flirty is very fine. I tend to cross that line without even thinking about it. ^^'

If someone is flirting there is definitely touching involved, and lots of eye contact. Body language is a very good indicator. ^_^
PostPosted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 5:51 am


Dr. Phoenix
What tone of voice makes it flirting?


If you pronounce certain words in a different way. You may not even notice, but your partner definetely will. The one talking is perhaps not able to notice the difference, as we have already found out that the line between flirting and being friendly is very thin. It's the same with your voice.
We humans were made for without even realizing it, noticing such little signs and therefore know wether one is flirting with you or just being friendly. And because this signs are really hard to read and to see, funny and sometimes even terrible mistakes are likely to happen. *nods*

And as B.u.n.i.e. already said, I also believe that the topic you discuss is also very important, when I like someone I would never talk about Freud's interpretation of dreams, but of sports and sweat. sweatdrop

Darwinsch


TrueUndying

PostPosted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 1:04 pm


There when there hot and you thinking I likey and you and zd person is talking then your flirting
PostPosted: Mon Jan 08, 2007 4:27 pm


Idk what the difference is I dont really even know how! PM me advice please?

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