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Eating/weight disorders; Media influence.

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Korynnn

PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 12:28 am


Well, I don't do love letters.. I'm no good with flowers..


Well today I was walking around my local Target store. My sister was waiting in line to buy her friend a Starbucks giftcard as a late Christmas present, so I just thought "Hmm I'll look at some magazines." I got there and I found the way they were all about the same thing interesting. I don't even know what possesed me to take pictures of it.. maybe because I was alone at the time. I got some weird looks from a salesclerk. But it was fine with me.. I get weird looks all the time. xD

Sorry, I got off the point a bit. Almost every magazine I saw had something about weight. (I had more pictures but I took them on my phone and it costs a quarter per pic to send to my email.)

I'll just get to the point. Here they are:

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I found it pretty weird and depressing. What do you think?



If I forget your birthday.. Will you still love me?
PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 12:43 am


I agree. That creeps me out. There's a huge difference between saying, "My doctor says that I should lose 20 pounds so that I will be healthier," and "Well, my weight is supposedly ideal for my height, but I would like to lose 20 pounds anyway." It's like there are the two extremes that we always hear about in America, the obese people and the people with eating disorders. The weird thing is that we often make the eating disorders sound glamorous.

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Savina

PostPosted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 11:08 pm


I think it's sad. It's so tough NOT to have image problems when everything in the world, even the grocery store check out line has things screaming at as to how to be more beautiful, more sexy, please your man in bed, get bigger boobs, lose weight, etc.
Everything tells you that you're not perfect, and there's ways to "Fix" yourself.
I'm not going to rant about my self-image problems, but I will tell you there's nothing out there that HELPS them.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 12:02 am


The media puts out what will sell, and weight is definitely a concern for most people. The sad part is that being concerned about your weight actually makes you more likely to be overweight.

I would say that blaming all the diet articles is only looking at half of the problem though. The other half of the time, food is being pushed towards us. You'll see an add for McDonald's right after you see on for Slim Fast. The media telling us to eat first and then worry. It's just not healthy.

Personally I think it would be easier to change the way food is presented. If people didn't feel so strongly towards their food, there wouldn't be a need for diet articles.

I once asked my mom, "How much more than normal do you need to eat to become fat? Why do fat people eat more than normal?" She said that for overweight people, having more food than "normal" was normal to them. They had most likely been raised to expect a certain portion size, and anything less than that makes them feel deprived.

For me, when I go to a restaurant, the portions always seem so huge. I can never finish them and I feel guilty about wasting money on the food that I didn't eat. It's hard for me to imagine seeing a restaurant portion as normal, but I'm sure some people do.

My vote goes for smaller portions and less media emphasis on the joys of food. The disappearance of diet articles will follow.

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godessoftheflute3

PostPosted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 6:13 pm


LorienLlewellyn
I agree. That creeps me out. There's a huge difference between saying, "My doctor says that I should lose 20 pounds so that I will be healthier," and "Well, my weight is supposedly ideal for my height, but I would like to lose 20 pounds anyway." It's like there are the two extremes that we always hear about in America, the obese people and the people with eating disorders. The weird thing is that we often make the eating disorders sound glamorous.


and it is so weird, because eating disorders make you look so...sickly
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