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 Posted: Tue Dec 26, 2006 8:18 pm
i wanna tel them, but i don't know how they will react to it. i mean there hasn't been one person in my family that is gay, bi, or les. and even tho i'm 15 my parents still don't think i am "ready to face anything" they don't let me walk to the end of the driveway withouy their eyes on me.
i think they already know but i don't want to find that out.
Still, the truth is tearing me apart and i want to be "free".
any ideas?
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Posted: Thu Dec 28, 2006 8:18 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 10:13 am
Gain some big trust first. Make yourself seem like an adult in their eyes. Be super duper responsible and then tell them. Make sure you plan it out first, so you know what to say.
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Posted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 1:17 pm
ya but if u will lose more than u will gain dont do it
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Posted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 2:17 pm
Rezal_Zioun ya but if u will lose more than u will gain dont do it But how can you be sure about what is going to happen afterwards, without trying you never know what exactly the the future advantages or disadvantages will be, right?
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Posted: Sat Dec 30, 2006 11:37 pm
Darwinsch Rezal_Zioun ya but if u will lose more than u will gain dont do it But how can you be sure about what is going to happen afterwards, without trying you never know what exactly the the future advantages or disadvantages will be, right? for me every 1 of my friends knows. but if i told my perants they would not let me hang out whit the friends they think are bi or gay so i would lose time with guys, but not really gain anything
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Posted: Sun Dec 31, 2006 12:13 am
kazia asim i wanna tel them, but i don't know how they will react to it. i mean there hasn't been one person in my family that is gay, bi, or les. and even tho i'm 15 my parents still don't think i am "ready to face anything" they don't let me walk to the end of the driveway withouy their eyes on me. i think they already know but i don't want to find that out. Still, the truth is tearing me apart and i want to be "free". any ideas? sorry no
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 6:01 am
Rezal_Zioun Darwinsch Rezal_Zioun ya but if u will lose more than u will gain dont do it But how can you be sure about what is going to happen afterwards, without trying you never know what exactly the the future advantages or disadvantages will be, right? for me every 1 of my friends knows. but if i told my perants they would not let me hang out whit the friends they think are bi or gay so i would lose time with guys, but not really gain anything Yes but you seem to know about what would happen if you would tell them. Just because this is the scenario you imagine to happen, doesn't mean that this actually have to be the awaiting reality for everyone. My parents, for example wouldn't do anything I guess. They would just tell be to be careful and that they still love me, because I am there son and always will be. ^^
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Posted: Mon Jan 01, 2007 8:03 pm
go for it hunneh. i did it and so can you. i had basically the same problem as you.
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 3:25 pm
doit my friend i just came out to my closest friends and my dad and it was hard as ******** theres nothing u will loose that will even come close to what ud gain,hiding it can only torture ones soul further and ud be degrading urself and in the end feeling more ashamed over nothing than u ever shouldv
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 6:20 pm
imtiredofbeinghacked doit my friend i just came out to my closest friends and my dad and it was hard as ******** theres nothing u will loose that will even come close to what ud gain,hiding it can only torture ones soul further and ud be degrading urself and in the end feeling more ashamed over nothing than u ever shouldv ya your right
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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 10:34 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 10:40 am
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