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 Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 8:42 pm
Thought I might come here for a bit of advice, Loves.
Anyways, Matt and I told his dickass friends on Thursday that we've been dating for some time now, and although their first reaction was a little... Unpleasant... Things are okay now.
Anyways, my friend used my account and told her he needs to be more affectionate with me and that she doesn't think he actually loves me and things like that, so now he always saying he lvoes me and things like that, which we haven't done before, even though we've been dating for more than six months.
But we're only 13, though we act older, we're just 13... Are we suddenly going a bit quick?
I'm not saying I'm uncomfortable with it, I'm feeling happy for once, I feel loved and all that... But I'm kinda worried what my parents would say and such...
Do you think we may be taking this the wrong way, or do you think it's fine?
And yeah, I know he's probably going to read this xD
If you do, Matt, I love you ^^
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 8:48 pm
I don't mean this to sound mean, I do not mean to sound like a jerk, I do not mean to sound like I'm under-minding people who date so young, please just take this as harmless advice, just don't throw the word "love" around too easily. That is what I have to say about that. 3nodding
Good luck with your relationship, Panda. heart
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 8:52 pm
Juria-San I don't mean this to sound mean, I do not mean to sound like a jerk, I do not mean to sound like I'm under-minding people who date so young, please just take this as harmless advice, just don't throw the word "love" around too easily. That is what I have to say about that. 3nodding Good luck with your relationship, Panda. heart I totally understand, you don't sound like a jerk at all. We're mature about it and don't take it like the normal relationship at our age, we just like being together, we see much more to a relationship than holding hands and hugging between classes and phoning every hour, etc... And I use the word cautiously, don't worry ^^ Thanks <3
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 8:57 pm
Don't do it. D:
Save it.
HirunHikari
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 9:01 pm
HirunHikari Don't do it. D:
Save it.
HirunHikari
Still drugged on a shitload of Tylenol, here... Save what?? sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 9:17 pm
Just... realize, that although you may love him and he may love you (iono, I can't read minds... but "love" would be a willingness to do anything... ANYTHING for the one you love, and realizing that they love you as well)
That... you shouldn't be surprised if things do eventually turn up with you two apart... very few "first love" couples stay together...
That is assuming, that the both of you are actually in love... If one of you is merely "using" the other for something, it's gonna turn out bad... period.
But, that's not a good note to end a post on... sooooo... I say, that you should keep your guard up in certain areas (I'm not gonna clarify, you can figure that out...) and enjoy the affection...
And be careful, I'm not an "expert" on the "female reproductive system" but any "experimentation" (without proper precautions, and even then...) could lead to consequences that you aren't equipped to deal with at this stage in your life...
Anyways, I should shut my mouth now... x_x
However, just know that I'm pretty sure that anyone who cares for you wants you to be happy... o.O
(yay for cryptic messages...)
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 9:44 pm
*decides not to be discreet*
scream Don't have sex!
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 9:51 pm
[Cherry.Wine] *decides not to be discreet* scream Don't have sex!
3nodding
HirunHikari
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 9:56 pm
Thanks guys ^^
Don't worry, I promise to stay a virgin for you.
Besides, I told myself I wouldn't have sex until I was married, or at least 22 years old if I'm not married by then, and I'd want to have it with someone I really care about.
And I know how to say no.
@Sib- I'd do anything for him, I really would. I know I say that and there may be a time where I might have to live up to that, but I swear I'm not making any mistake when I say I love him, even if it's not as much love as others may have, seeing as we are so young and don't have the capacity to love someone at the full extent of what it is.
I'll keep my guard up xD
And there's no need to not say something you want to say, guys, I want to hear it all, even if it isn't so positive. I can understand things.
EDIT: And besides, I'm more afraid of his friends touching me than I'm afraid of him touching me sweatdrop
Perverted little dickheads...
And Matt isn't someone I just met and fell in love with, he's been a close friend of mine for as long as I can remember... I've always loved him, even if it was simply in a platonic fashion until a little while ago.
Hell, I've known Matt longer than I've known Pinka!!
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 10:03 pm
Panda Pocky And there's no need to not say something you want to say, guys, I want to hear it all, even if it isn't so positive. I can understand things. You really are mature for your age. I just want to put more emphasis on the "sex is a no-no" thing, 'cause I worry about people - especially people getting so close at your age. Why, I have a little buddy whose about twelve and going out with a violinist girl at his school, a boy who is like a son to me, and I just do not approve of my little one getting caught up in that so young- ...Um. Anyway. o.o As Sib pointed out in his oh-so-modest and discreet post, not all first-love relationships last, and even if it doesn't, leave with no regrets for being with him, no regrets for getting as close as you did to him, and no regrets as to how it ended up. ...A little bit more of my insight.
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 10:07 pm
Juria-San Panda Pocky And there's no need to not say something you want to say, guys, I want to hear it all, even if it isn't so positive. I can understand things. You really are mature for your age. I just want to put more emphasis on the "sex is a no-no" thing, 'cause I worry about people - especially people getting so close at your age. Why, I have a little buddy whose about twelve and going out with a violinist girl at his school, a boy who is like a son to me, and I just do not approve of my little one getting caught up in that so young- ...Um. Anyway. o.o As Sib pointed out in his oh-so-modest and discreet post, not all first-love relationships last, and even if it doesn't, leave with no regrets for being with him, no regrets for getting as close as you did to him, and no regrets as to how it ended up. ...A little bit more of my insight.
.... uhm
...uhm
BABIES ARE DAMN HARD THINGS TO TAKE CARE OF.
Trust me. I had to take home a baby simulator that whined like no tomorrow.
It was hell.
My mom says it didn't do HALF the things a real baby does, so babies are hell.
HirunHikari
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 10:10 pm
Juria-San Panda Pocky And there's no need to not say something you want to say, guys, I want to hear it all, even if it isn't so positive. I can understand things. You really are mature for your age. I just want to put more emphasis on the "sex is a no-no" thing, 'cause I worry about people - especially people getting so close at your age. Why, I have a little buddy whose about twelve and going out with a violinist girl at his school, a boy who is like a son to me, and I just do not approve of my little one getting caught up in that so young- ...Um. Anyway. o.o As Sib pointed out in his oh-so-modest and discreet post, not all first-love relationships last, and even if it doesn't, leave with no regrets for being with him, no regrets for getting as close as you did to him, and no regrets as to how it ended up. ...A little bit more of my insight. I promise, no sex for Panda ^^ It took us nearly six months just to hug, it'll take a lot more for us to get naked xDDDDD I know we might not last, I completely understand that. It's diffucult right now for me to see a future without him... But, this is life, you never know what exactly it'll throw at you. No regrets, never. Thanks -huggles-
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 10:12 pm
HirunHikari Juria-San Panda Pocky And there's no need to not say something you want to say, guys, I want to hear it all, even if it isn't so positive. I can understand things. You really are mature for your age. I just want to put more emphasis on the "sex is a no-no" thing, 'cause I worry about people - especially people getting so close at your age. Why, I have a little buddy whose about twelve and going out with a violinist girl at his school, a boy who is like a son to me, and I just do not approve of my little one getting caught up in that so young- ...Um. Anyway. o.o As Sib pointed out in his oh-so-modest and discreet post, not all first-love relationships last, and even if it doesn't, leave with no regrets for being with him, no regrets for getting as close as you did to him, and no regrets as to how it ended up. ...A little bit more of my insight.
.... uhm
...uhm
BABIES ARE DAMN HARD THINGS TO TAKE CARE OF.
Trust me. I had to take home a baby simulator that whined like no tomorrow.
It was hell.
My mom says it didn't do HALF the things a real baby does, so babies are hell.
HirunHikari
I babysit my year old cousin. I know. No kids for me until I'm WAY older, I just can't stand them right now ^^ Yeah, I hate kids. Stupid little buggers... Of course, when I am ready, I'll love them, but right now they annoy me.
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 10:15 pm
Panda Pocky Juria-San Panda Pocky And there's no need to not say something you want to say, guys, I want to hear it all, even if it isn't so positive. I can understand things. You really are mature for your age. I just want to put more emphasis on the "sex is a no-no" thing, 'cause I worry about people - especially people getting so close at your age. Why, I have a little buddy whose about twelve and going out with a violinist girl at his school, a boy who is like a son to me, and I just do not approve of my little one getting caught up in that so young- ...Um. Anyway. o.o As Sib pointed out in his oh-so-modest and discreet post, not all first-love relationships last, and even if it doesn't, leave with no regrets for being with him, no regrets for getting as close as you did to him, and no regrets as to how it ended up. ...A little bit more of my insight. I promise, no sex for Panda ^^ It took us nearly six months just to hug, it'll take a lot more for us to get naked xDDDDD I know we might not last, I completely understand that. It's diffucult right now for me to see a future without him... But, this is life, you never know what exactly it'll throw at you. No regrets, never. Thanks -huggles- ^^ Good - don't do drugs, stay in school, safe or no sex, all that good j**z. Very responsible. Very good. If you do get to "THAT" point, though... Good luck, and God's speed. o.o Haha. Hope I helped or reassured. heart And @Hirun: That was the most poetic and nicely-worded way to put it. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 10:18 pm
Juria-San Panda Pocky Juria-San Panda Pocky And there's no need to not say something you want to say, guys, I want to hear it all, even if it isn't so positive. I can understand things. You really are mature for your age. I just want to put more emphasis on the "sex is a no-no" thing, 'cause I worry about people - especially people getting so close at your age. Why, I have a little buddy whose about twelve and going out with a violinist girl at his school, a boy who is like a son to me, and I just do not approve of my little one getting caught up in that so young- ...Um. Anyway. o.o As Sib pointed out in his oh-so-modest and discreet post, not all first-love relationships last, and even if it doesn't, leave with no regrets for being with him, no regrets for getting as close as you did to him, and no regrets as to how it ended up. ...A little bit more of my insight. I promise, no sex for Panda ^^ It took us nearly six months just to hug, it'll take a lot more for us to get naked xDDDDD I know we might not last, I completely understand that. It's diffucult right now for me to see a future without him... But, this is life, you never know what exactly it'll throw at you. No regrets, never. Thanks -huggles- ^^ Good - don't do drugs, stay in school, safe or no sex, all that good j**z. Very responsible. Very good. If you do get to "THAT" point, though... Good luck, and God's speed. o.o Haha. Hope I helped or reassured. heart And @Hirun: That was the most poetic and nicely-worded way to put it. 3nodding Drugs are gross, cigarette smoke makes me gag, my grades are important to me, public toilets have condoms, I can say no, 'and all that good j**z' ^^ Yes, you did help, thank you =)
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