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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 5:27 pm
"women be silent in church" "wives submit to your husband" "divorce is a hateful sin"
Men, be prepared to become jealous.
Women be silent in church. IMMEDIATELY THROW UP YOUR DEFENSES AND DON'T LISTEN!!!!!!!!!!! Your reaction? Shared by many. But these Bible quotes apply to men and there are things in the Bible that men should be jealous of.
First off, let me state that men are the head of the household. That is one of humanity's curses for sin.
Then let me state that the duck at the front of the 'V' gets the most resistance.
Let men be in front and us women can hold them up.
Insulted for being support only. Well, a leader without followers is a nobody. A house without supports will fall down. Truth is, men are useless without woman. But it also goes vice versa. God made it so that we would have to lean to together to stand.
My cousin is now kicking me off the computer so respond to only what I've addressed.
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 5:37 pm
I've noticed that a great many people seem to like to point out where Saint Paul supposably spoke out against women in his letters. I HIGHLY disagree with this conclusion. A great majority of bible scholars agree that the verses in 1 Corinthians 14:33-36 which appear to degrade and restrict women from roles in the Church appear to be a later forgery by a later Non-Pauline author, as it contradicts many other verses in his letters in favor of women, and interupts the flow of the text, among other obvious red flags. Here is some important information I've gathered on this topic from religioustolerance.org and bibletexts.com:
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1 Corinthians 14:34-35: This is a curious passage. It appears to prohibit all talking by women during services. But it contradicts verse 11:5, in which St. Paul states that women can actively pray and prophesy during services. It is obvious that verses 14:33b to 36 are a later addition, added by an unknown counterfeiter* with little talent at forgery.* Bible scholar, Hans Conzelmann, comments on these three and a half verses: "Moreover, there are peculiarities of linguistic usage, and of thought. [within them]." If they are removed, then Verse 33a merges well with Verse 37 in a seamless transition. Since they were a later forgery*, they do not fulfill the basic requirement to be considered inerrant: they were not in the original manuscript written by Paul. This is a very important passage, because much many denominations stand against female ordination is based on these verses.
Verses in Favor of Women in Paul's Letters:
1. In Paul's letter to the Galatians, Paul had said that in Christ, "There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one." (Galatians 3:2 cool
2. In Paul's letter to the Corinthians, he refers to women praying and proclaiming God's message in public worship. (1 Corinthians 11:5, see TEV)
3. In Paul's letter to the church in Ephesus (Romans, chapter 16), he recognized and introduced the woman Phoebe as not only a "deacon" (not a deaconess) but also the president of the Christian church in Cenchreae. (Romans 16:1,2)
4. In the same letter to the church in Ephesus, Paul refers to the woman Prisca and her husband Aquila as his coworkers, who also host the church at their house. (Romans 16:3-5) Earlier when he was in Ephesus writing his letters to the church in Corinth, he also had referred to the church in Ephesus as being in the home of Prisca and Aquila. (1 Corinthians 16:19)
5. In the same letter to the church in Ephesus, Paul also addressed the woman Junia and her husband Andronicus as apostles -- even as "prominent among the apostles." (Romans 16:7)
6. In the same letter to the church in Ephesus, Paul refers to Erastus as the city treasurer. (Romans 16:23) Erastus is one of the very few Christians mentioned in the New Testament of whom there is verifiable archeological evidence of their place and time. In Ephesus Erastus' pavement has been excavated, which described him as the city treasurer. At that time and place, engraved pavements were used for the same purpose that signs on the window, the door, the awning, or elsewhere on the front of today's stores and businesses. This is literally concrete proof that Romans 16 was written to the Christians in Ephesus.
7. Later Greek texts of the Western Text lineage display clear anti-women biases in modifications that were made.
1 Corinthians 14:33b ... (As in all the churches of the saints, 34 women should be silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be subordinate, as the law also says. 35 If there is anything they desire to know, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church. 36 Or did the word of God originate with you? Or are you the only ones it has reached?)
(The above text is from The HarperCollins Study Bible: New Revised Standard Version: A New Annotated Edition by the Society of Biblical Literature, San Francisco, 1993, page 2160. Note also that the NRSV encloses 14:33b-36 in parentheses to characterize it as a parenthetical comment that does not fit in smoothly with the surrounding texts. The footnotes below, on 14:34-35 and 14:36, are also from The HarperCollins Study Bible.)
14:34-35 Some scholars regard the instruction for women to be silent in churches as a later, non-Pauline addition to the Letter, more in keeping with the viewpoint of the Pastoral Letters (see 1 Tim 2.11-12; Titus 2.5) than of the certainly Pauline Letters. See also Eph 5:22-24; Col 3:18; 1 Pet 3:1-6.
14:36 Some scholars include this verse in the non-Pauline addition.
1 Corinthians 14:33b-36 This self-contained section upsets the context: it interrupts the theme of prophesy and spoils the flow of thought. In content, it is in contradiction to 11:2ff, where the active participation of women in the church is presupposed. This contradiction remains even when chaps. 11 and 14 are assigned to different letters. Moreover, there are peculiarities of linguistic usage, and of thought. And finally, v 37 does not link up with v 36, but with v 33a. The section is accordingly to be regarded as an interpolation. Verse 36, which is hardly very clear, is meant to underline the "ecumenical" validity of the interpolation. In this regulation we have a reflection of the bourgeois consolidation of the church, roughly on the level of the Pastoral Epistles: it binds itself to the general custom. Those who defend the text as original are compelled to resort to constructions for help.
1 Corinthians 14:34-35. These verses are not a Corinthian slogan, as some have argued..., but a post-Pauline interpolation... Not only is the appeal to the law (possibly Gen 3:16) un-Pauline, but the verses contradict 11:5. The injunctions reflect the misogynism of 1 Tim 2:11-14 and probably stem from the same circle. Some mss. place these verses after 40. [Written by Jerome Murphy-O'Connor, O.P., Ibid., pages 811-812.]
1 Timothy 2:11,12. 1 Cor 14:33b-35, a probable early addition to the original text of 1 Cor, is close in language and sentiment to this text. The author of the Pastorals speaks explicitly only of women's behavior at Christian worship but may intend a more general application... [Written by Robert A. Wild, S.J., Ibid., page 897.]
Either Paul is truly inconsistent here, reacting against a threat of 'unruly' women by forbidding their verbal participation, despite what he had earlier allowed [e.g., 1Co 11:2-16, where women were understood as publicly praying and proclaiming]. Or this passage is an interpolation into the letter by a later editor, one who took the opportunity of the surrounding context to introduce the restrictive ethos of the Pastoral Letters (e.g. 1 Tim 2:8-15, part of a letter generally regarded as written by a later Paulinist, not by Paul himself). This latter option is favoured by many commentators, and it is given slight textual support by the fact that some manuscripts place verses 34-35 at the end of the chapter, rather in their present location; that might indicate that they were once a marginal gloss which was inserted by scribes a varying points in the the original text...
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2005 8:41 pm
I don't really believe in "gender roles". I say women can do anything that men can do and vice versa (except, of course, for certain things that would be impossible for one gender or the other).
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 11:11 am
SyphaBelnades I don't really believe in "gender roles". I say women can do anything that men can do and vice versa (except, of course, for certain things that would be impossible for one gender or the other). Gender and sex are not hte same thing. There isn't anything that is impossible for one gender or the other; genders are purely social constructs. Gender deals with all those silly associations people have about what it means to be masculine or feminine. SEX is what you are biologically by genetics and THAT is what makes certain this improbable for one sex versus the other (ie, men cannot give birth). Beyond that, not much to say. whee
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 11:28 am
Starlock SyphaBelnades I don't really believe in "gender roles". I say women can do anything that men can do and vice versa (except, of course, for certain things that would be impossible for one gender or the other). Gender and sex are not hte same thing. There isn't anything that is impossible for one gender or the other; genders are purely social constructs. Gender deals with all those silly associations people have about what it means to be masculine or feminine. SEX is what you are biologically by genetics and THAT is what makes certain this improbable for one sex versus the other (ie, men cannot give birth). Beyond that, not much to say. whee I see, so your saying that there are different definitions for "sex" and "gender". I like that, it makes a lot of sense to me.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 5:49 pm
I'm not going against chicks. I am a chick.
You quoted a scripture that said that men and women are one. Just think, when God made Adam, he said it was made in his own image. But it said "man and woman, he created them." He created them as one, but they were separated into male and female later. God did this so we would have a companion. He didn't want us to be lonely.
But the thing with men being the head of the household is still applied. When you marry someone, you become one with them, but according to God's mantles of authority, the husband is the head. This makes sense. You see, the Church is the wife of God, and, no matter what, the Church can't supercede God. It's impossible. When it says wives submit to your husbands, the Bible is also saying Church, submit to God. That is what I meant by the rules for women apply to men.
I also put that woman must be silent in church. Ever heard of Joyce Meyer? She is a wonderful preacher and she is funny, too. It scared my Dad because he liked her but if women are supposed to be silent in church, then I shouldn't listen to one. Then, one day, the revealed it to my Dad. Joyce Meyer mentioned her husband, and what she said about him lifted him up and acredited him to much of her success. Don't supercede your husband. God made them the head of the house for a reason.
There seem to be some problems with putting the man at the head of the household. Men are generally quicker to anger than women are. Well, that is why men need women backing them. Women can think things through with emotions other than anger. When God separated Eve from Adam, he split us perfectly so that they could work together.
When you out dating, looking for someone to be the head of your house, remember that you are looking for someone that you will become one with. If you pick the right guy (by listening for God to tell you who is right), you should fit perfectly with him.
This is the reason God says divorce is a hateful sin. When you become one with someone and you separate, well, a house divided will not stand. If your husband is the head and his legs leave him, how is he gonna stand?
WELL, WHAT IF MY HUSBAND ABUSES ME!! MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY?!!! Why are you marrying someone who treats you like that? If your answer is because you love him, first try to discover if he really loves (you'll know). If he doesn't, you married the wrong guy and I guess you're gonna have to commit a hateful sin to get out of that relationship. If he does, well, just think, if someone you love is hungry you give them food and it helps them. If your husband beats you leave him for a while. Don't divorce. It has become a common falacy that divorce solves all problems in a relationship. It is not true.When youleave him or even if you stay with him, get a counselor, or even call the police and send his butt to prison, if you think it'll help him. It may hurt you to help him by sending him to prison, but God doesn't say to help people only if it doesn't hurt you. He says help people. And if you truely love and respect your husband, you'll help him.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:20 pm
Other than abuse, your husband might just ignore you, or, if you do something totally new that's really good they don't even seem to notice. When Paul is speaking he says that husbands are supposed to lift up their wives everyday. "Honey, you look beautiful, " when you don't feel so beautiful. "You sure brighten my day, Dear," when you think no one appreciates you. Husbands are supposed to make you feel good.
I keep losing my train of thought.
Oh, right. Now I said that the Church and the people in it are the wife of God. That also means God is supposed to lift you up and make you feel good everyday, too, right? Well, somedays, it just doesn't feel like that, does it? Believe me, I know. I've ended a day wanting to shoot myself and feeling completely betrayed by God. Then, the next day, I realized how much of that bad came from myself. I asked God to help my Mom to stop crying and bring her out of the hospital. I was too busy crying over that fact that God didn't instantly and miraculously lift her up at my whim to notice that she had stopped crying and was now looking up at my dad smiling. God is always willing to make you feel good. But, if we don't feel good, it's either us wives (including the church) to blame, or Satan being an a**, which is his favorite daily pass time.
No offense to Satanists, I'm just going by what my Bible says. Maybe not the pass time thing, but....
If you want to know why God hasn't taken her from the hospital yet, it is because I am constantly doing things like this. I always expect God to do things on my time, even though he commanded me to follow his will, and let his will work in my life. But that is way off topic.
But it can be worked into my topic. You see, my Dad has suffered as much of a hardship as my mom while she has been in the hospitals. The Doctors told him to pull the plug. Our family and friends said to forget about her, but he hasn't. My Dad treats my mom as though she is him. She is. As a married couple they are one. He will try to help my mom as long as their is breath in his body. But also, he will try to help people in my mom's position. If you know something bad is going on and you turn your back and let it happen, it is as bad as the sin itself. My mother truely loves my Dad too, but if he had been the one in the hospital and not her and she was in his position, she would not have lasted this long. This is why men and women were made to work together.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:50 pm
Mercution I also put that woman must be silent in church. Ever heard of Joyce Meyer? She is a wonderful preacher and she is funny, too. It scared my Dad because he liked her but if women are supposed to be silent in church, then I shouldn't listen to one. Then, one day, the revealed it to my Dad. Joyce Meyer mentioned her husband, and what she said about him lifted him up and acredited him to much of her success. Don't supercede your husband. God made them the head of the house for a reason. But why de men have to be at the head? Why can't they be equal?
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:56 pm
SyphaBelnades Mercution I also put that woman must be silent in church. Ever heard of Joyce Meyer? She is a wonderful preacher and she is funny, too. It scared my Dad because he liked her but if women are supposed to be silent in church, then I shouldn't listen to one. Then, one day, the revealed it to my Dad. Joyce Meyer mentioned her husband, and what she said about him lifted him up and acredited him to much of her success. Don't supercede your husband. God made them the head of the house for a reason. But why de men have to be at the head? Why can't they be equal? 'because the bible said so.' feh. most things ive seen truly work had a girl running them. but im still in high school so i havent seen too much.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 6:59 pm
Please don't reply to my stuff anymore. All you seem to do is harass me.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 7:04 pm
Mercution Please don't reply to my stuff anymore. All you seem to do is harass me. You mean me? I'm sorry, I'm just trying to state my opinion, I don't mean any offense. I'll try to be more respectful.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 7:05 pm
Not you! Not you! I meant that to Schildeguy, but I take that back. I think I'm taking stuff wrong.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 7:08 pm
Mercution Not you! Not you! I meant that to Schildeguy, but I take that back. I think I'm taking stuff wrong. Oh, okay. I was a bit worried there.
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 7:19 pm
No I like your responses. They are thoughtful, though-invoking, and respectful. Schideguy(slaughtered the name) has thought-invoking responses. I think I'm just being pissy today and taking it out on him...
HEY! Another good use for guys! You get to take out your whininess on them!
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Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 5:09 pm
Mercution I'm not going against chicks. I am a chick. Being female doesn't stop you from being anti-feminist or misogystic. This isn't a personal attack on you: I don't know whether or not you are either, and I doubt that you are, but that needed pointing out. The way you talk about this issue shows that you believe that women are important, but your beliefs differ from mine. I actually find the idea that I should submit to being 'support' for a man or that I am useless without a man or that I should be part of the same entity as a man to be demeaning, as much as I think suggesting that men must always be the head of the household or that men are always quick to anger or irrational is demeaning for men. I don't think that roles should be prescribed to sexes, I think that people should find their own roles in life and in a relationship, but I don't see any fundamental differences between the sexes other than the obvious physical differences. There is nothing that precludes any given woman from being just as or more adept than any given man at a particular task such as performing a particular job or running the household, nor is there anything that precludes any given man from being just as or more adept at nurturing children. It is society that prescribes these roles to us. On the other hand, I am not of the same faith as you, and if people within the faith are happy to submit to these roles then I don't feel compelled to make them change. Ultimately, what you do is a personal choice and if you believe that this is what God wants and that it's right for you then nobody has any place to interfere. By the way, Satanists don't actually worship Satan. It's a little more accurate to say they worship the self, but their actual beliefs are quite varied.
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