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 Posted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 5:23 pm
domokun I remember when i found out i was bi
though i was bi since i was born
xd sometimes my parents would get videos with a bit of nuditiy (THEY ARE FAR AND AWAY NOT PORN ADDICTS) and i remember a naked women on a floor and i got excited and exactly how you would be attracted to both sexes without knowing a thing about where babies come from biggrin
I've changed the behavior and no one suspects me
I first actually said "i am bi... i've always been... didnt know such a thing exsisted..." and well accepted the fact about last year once i became a bit of a porn addict and i met Gaia and blahblhablhalbhlbhalabhla...
how'd you find out?
[edit] Okay people say "you dont TURN bi"; i didn't mean it that way
its out of habit, i meant it as, some people 'turn bi'(turning bi and always being it is a controversial topic), others always are, others discover
so i geuss the point is, when did you turn/discover you were bi? [edit/]
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Posted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 7:12 pm
i was about 14 and i started having sex dreams about guys. i thought i was str8 just having some weird dreams. at that time i hated gay people (i was ignorant and didnt understand) At first i wanted to know y i keep thinking of guys that way i started to see my friends in a new way and i would just brush any gay thoughts off. And pretended they never happend. 1 night a H.B.O. adult show came on and just started off with 2 guys and i couldnt help but look on. After it was off i accepted i was gay. But i couldnt get girls out of my head, and didnt know what was going on. And as time went on i started to care less about gender. i realized i was bi. It didnt matter boy or girl any more i just felt the same way about both. I was bi. i have been happer ever scence i found out my true sexuality. I am 18 now i have have some girlfriends and some boyfriends and i love the way i am. I feel great about my self now, and fell lucky to be this way.
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Posted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 12:23 pm
I think I've been bi for a really long time. (Like since I was 9) But I didn't actually classify myself as bi until last school year. (I'm 15) But now that it's out in the open, I feel great. I have no shame in my sexuality and my life is a whole lot better. ^__^
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Posted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 1:07 pm
It just happened. ^^" I went to a bar with my friend and we got drunk a little. and finally he ask me wether I could imagine being with a guy and without even thinking about it. I said yes. ^^ And after that it more and more became obviouse to me that I was bi. ^^
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Posted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 5:13 pm
about a year ago.... i just didn't want to be lonely.... and i could alwasy imagine me and a guyor girl doing it....(curse the mind of a 14 yr old...)
anyway i didn't want people to think bad of me so only my friends knew... or at least they sorta knew... i used the titel of "experimental" at first with them then just gave up cause they kept catching me with yaoi and yuri......
stilll only my firends know....
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Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 1:00 pm
In my honest opinion, you don't "turn bi," you're born that way. But anywho.
I didn't really realize bisexuality existed until I was 13 and in 8th grade, and as soon as I learned what it was, I immediately thought, "Oh. So THAT'S what I'm called."
I've noticed girls all the time in elementary school, and I often freaked out because I was an ignorant fool and didn't want to be homosexual. It's always been there, but I just didn't know what to call it. xd
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Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 9:42 am
i agree that you cant just turn that way. that a person just is but i came out with that in the eighth grade. i used to think it was so wrong, so gross and at first, i hated myself for it. i didnt actually think much about being that way until about the sixth grade, then i met my old best friend. she was beautiful, smart, funny and everything i wasnt and i loved her more than life itself but i thought it was wrong. then in the eighth grade i let it all go and kissed her. she was bi to and we almost got together but instead she ******** me over really bad. but since then i've had a couple other girlfriends. and my girlfriend now is absolutely amazing and posted on this topic]
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Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 10:51 am
Make It Rain i agree that you cant just turn that way. that a person just is but i came out with that in the eighth grade. i used to think it was so wrong, so gross and at first, i hated myself for it. i didnt actually think much about being that way until about the sixth grade, then i met my old best friend. she was beautiful, smart, funny and everything i wasnt and i loved her more than life itself but i thought it was wrong. then in the eighth grade i let it all go and kissed her. she was bi to and we almost got together but instead she ******** me over really bad. but since then i've had a couple other girlfriends. and my girlfriend now is absolutely amazing and posted on this topic]
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Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 12:02 pm
I have been Bi since about 14, when I was invited to a sleepover. Around 1 in the morning we were watching TV, then my friend left and came back with porn....lets just say we helped eachother throught the movie. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 5:26 pm
Ho hum. So do you guys ever have those memories that obviously are really important, but, for some reason, you just completely forget about them? Well. I just remembered something today.
When I was in elementary school, maybe 4th or 5th grade, I had my first sexual experience. I had a friend spend the night, and SOMEHOW we ended up in bed together, playing "husband and wife," in which we took turns being the husband. So we were pretty much naked together in bed, just touching each other's "areas" (lol). We didn't really do much other than nervously stick our hands down there for a second and withdraw quickly.
I can't help but find it incredibly odd. >.< But it's cool. And the same thing happened maybe two years after that with another friend.
My first sexual experience with a male wasn't until 8th grade. *sigh*
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Posted: Tue Dec 19, 2006 7:09 pm
I realized I was bi last year I always knew that I thought differently then all my other friends but I kinda surpressed it I guess stressed But I grew to except that I was bi and I felt happy which was strange for me cause I was depressed most of last year. I always had crushes on people I knew were straight but all I wished was that I could tell them and they magicly realize that they were bi too... sweatdrop It sounds like a stupid little fanatsy but I wish it would happen or that I could know more than just 3 bi people which 2 of them are going out and the other one has a bf...*sigh* I guess love and me will never be together.
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Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 3:33 am
b.u.n.n.i.e I realized I was bi last year I always knew that I thought differently then all my other friends but I kinda surpressed it I guess stressed But I grew to except that I was bi and I felt happy which was strange for me cause I was depressed most of last year. I always had crushes on people I knew were straight but all I wished was that I could tell them and they magicly realize that they were bi too... sweatdrop It sounds like a stupid little fanatsy but I wish it would happen or that I could know more than just 3 bi people which 2 of them are going out and the other one has a bf...*sigh* I guess love and me will never be together. Sorry for quoting you again. sweatdrop But I just have to say that. *smiles shyly* Love is a thing you can't control. If it happens, it just does. And if it doesn't it, you can't change it. If you ever try to surpress love it will cause the worst problems possible. Fantasys are okay, but you always have to know that it is just a fantasy and that only the reality can become truth. *pokes you* But don't hate just because of that, okay? sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 11:10 am
I always "Experimented" with a female friend. And I loved it.
She's the one who helped me find out that I love kissing girls more than females. And love seeing girls naked more than males naked.
But I still get excited, just in different levels depending on the gender.
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Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 11:59 am
1. you dont turn Bi you are bi since you are born
2.well i always have been and i always acepted it.o-o
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Posted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 10:50 am
I turned bi when I was eight. Back then, I didn't even know that people thought it was wrong confused I just liked girls...
But a few months ago, I turned lez.
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