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 Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 4:12 pm
Edit: I now realize that my original post could have been worded better. Of the larger women I know personally, most of them prefer a guy who is average weight to slim. Are there big girls out there who in turn like big guys?
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 4:23 pm
Hm . . . well, I think that you should stay the way you are. I don't think that a person should go and change because one person doesn't exactly find you intriguing or whatevs. I dunno hun, just make sure you don't do something drastic or anything. ^^ Sorry, I probably wasn't much help.
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Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2006 9:57 pm
As long as the guy is healthy, not to the point where he's obease, size doesn't really matter... I like 'em all. I actually like big, chubby guys a lot, as well as skinny track looking guys.
My guy is in the middle, and I love making him wear tighter shirts.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 2:55 am
My ex did, much I have lamented about the fact. She used to get me to wear tighter shirts too, what is it with girls man?
I guess there are, I have met a couple online but I have never met any in real life. In fact most of the larger ladies I know absolutely hate fat people.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 4:54 pm
I like all sorts of guys sweatdrop Anybody's my type as long as I like their personality.... but I've never had an obease guy hit on me so I dunno... Like when a person gets to a certain weight and their voice sounds breathy and naisly and I hate that gonk
I met my boyfriend on Gaia and we live 9 hours away (by car) so if I'm about looks, I suck at it. Plus, when I first picked him up from the airport I can remember my first thoughts at seeing him being "OH GOD, HE'S SO GEEKY LOOKING!" I'd seen his photo many a time, but his hair was waaaaay too long (we had the same style down to our shoulders) and he was a little shorter than me with abnormally long arms (we have to hold hands a certain way when we walk to as to not hurt his wrist). I've always wanted a guy noticeably taller than me (6' and up is so hot), so I failed miserably in the looks department at getting what I wanted.
But I love him very much, and I find him very attractive now. His looks have grown on me and when you see him in person he isn't so goofy looking all the time... he looks really goofy in this photo, though.
Him in the Goonies shirt that I got him that was accidentally too tight. Some big guy at the City Museum asked where he got it when we went there, and then said "That's hot" It surprised us. It's since shrunk, so now it's entirely too tight.
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Posted: Tue Dec 12, 2006 11:42 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty I like all sorts of guys sweatdrop Anybody's my type as long as I like their personality.... but I've never had an obease guy hit on me so I dunno... Like when a person gets to a certain weight and their voice sounds breathy and naisly and I hate that gonk
I met my boyfriend on Gaia and we live 9 hours away (by car) so if I'm about looks, I suck at it. Plus, when I first picked him up from the airport I can remember my first thoughts at seeing him being "OH GOD, HE'S SO GEEKY LOOKING!" I'd seen his photo many a time, but his hair was waaaaay too long (we had the same style down to our shoulders) and he was a little shorter than me with abnormally long arms (we have to hold hands a certain way when we walk to as to not hurt his wrist). I've always wanted a guy noticeably taller than me (6' and up is so hot), so I failed miserably in the looks department at getting what I wanted.
But I love him very much, and I find him very attractive now. His looks have grown on me and when you see him in person he isn't so goofy looking all the time... he looks really goofy in this photo, though.
Him in the Goonies shirt that I got him that was accidentally too tight. Some big guy at the City Museum asked where he got it when we went there, and then said "That's hot" It surprised us. It's since shrunk, so now it's entirely too tight.
OMG HE'S SO CUTE! Seriously, that's immediatly what I thought. Awwwww you guys have to be the cutest couple ever since you're freakin' adorable. To be honest, body type doesn't matter to me as long as a guy is confident. There are quite a few guys I know who are larger and they are so attractive to me because they take care of themselves and have this confidence about them (hogeez they're so sexy...omg...k I'll calm down). Most of my boyfriends wind up being thin or muscular. My last boyfriend was husky and really tall (6'5") and was an ex-football player. I dunno ex-football players have really hot bodies to me, they have a little bit of chub but then there's all the muscles underneath and still the slight cockiness of a football player and polo shirts...mmmm. But then confidence in general is a huge turn on...like my crush right now is a very confident gothic/emo...mmm.
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Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 12:54 am
Wow, Ghosty, your boyfriend's got a nice body. wink And you can tell him I said that.
Don't worry, I'm not into taking other girls' boyfriends. xp
And in answer to the OP's question, don't worry. I personally am somewhat turned off by the six pack. I like a guy to be soft, and I don't mind if he's a little on the pudgy side.
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Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 9:24 am
Hehe, Rob will be so pleased...
It seems girls here don't care about looks so much as confidence and a nice personality.
The skinny girls I know are a lot like that, too. So the plus-sized and probably skinny girls in these guy's areas must suck sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 12:19 am
Personally I don't care very much about bodytype. One of the cutest guys I know has quite the big tummy, but he's very cuddly and handsome to look at.
Not that I can get a date with any of them, anyway. xd
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Posted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 7:39 pm
skinny, fat, I dun care. As long as they have appealing arms and are good for cuddling... I love cuddles! n_n
My boyfriend has the sexiest arms and shoulders in the free world. heart Once he biked up to my house after I got our date time wrong.... And he got there in 5 minutes when it usually takes 15.... and he was all sweaty.... mmmm..... redface twisted heart whee
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Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 1:40 pm
I think bigger guys to me are cuter i mean as long they are obease then i'm fine with it. I grew up with my dad being bigger and when i was little i would cuddle with him so that kinda wat i like pic of my bf! srry i know its kinda bad 
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Posted: Wed Dec 27, 2006 3:58 pm
ShyGuy2 Edit: I now realize that my original post could have been worded better. Of the larger women I know personally, most of them prefer a guy who is average weight to slim. Are there big girls out there who in turn like big guys?
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 10:53 pm
Ok, so I guess what I can take away from this is someone's weight really doesn't affect what type of person they're attracted to. Thank you for your input.
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Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 4:32 am
Forced Merit My ex did, much I have lamented about the fact. She used to get me to wear tighter shirts too, what is it with girls man? I guess there are, I have met a couple online but I have never met any in real life. In fact most of the larger ladies I know absolutely hate fat people. Don't you like to see girls wearing tight shirts?
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