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 Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 8:40 pm
This sticky thread is here if anyone has a question for me, about any topic, though preferred serious. I find I love to help others, in any way I can. Having a lot of spare time, lonely time, much of the time, that I wish
I could help anyone in need of a solved problem, or even just someone to talk to about life, love, and even nothingness just to solve your own loneliness. Feel free to leave questions here for me, and if you think too personal for public, feel free to also PM me. If it is a PM, put the sticky title in the subject line.
*hugs to all*
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Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 4:40 am
Okay, I need some advice. My little brother, (well he's not really my little brother, hes actually a couple months younger and goes to my highschool, and we're not blood related) Trevor is VERY swishy. He likes to be a pervert and have fun, and alot of the time he does that cute little lisp thing some gays do (his retainer adds to it). Everyone says he's gay, but i think otherwise, and he's told me otherwise as well. We're really close and do tell each other alot, like i told him that i'm bi, so he knows that he can talk to me about any curiousness. He also is really good friends with a lesbian girl, jelly, (one of my really good friends) so he should feel good in that sort of enviornment to come out.
But sadly, he isnt gay, not bi, not even bi-curious. He's had girlfriends before, and is always saying whacky pervy stuff. We're always goofing off, and such, but here's the problem: Every single time I bring up his name everyone says he is gay. Even people who i said 'No he's not' to. This has been going on for a year, and i dont know, I love the kid, like a bro, and i am very tempted to just stand up and whack someone, because alot of the population of the school are homophobes. Its really upsetting how they make fun of him for being gay, some of them that even know my sexuality make fun of me, RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY FACE! What should I do to these people in responce to this, its really getting to the point where i would like to go physical... but... idk, i hate getting in trouble. Help?
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Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2007 5:13 am
The joys of school, not.
For him, short of screaming "HE'S NOT GAY!", not much to do to change other people's minds, other than pervsion of him having sex with a girl during school rolleyes . Hard thing about school is all the stereotyping and cliques. I personally was bullied and rumored about since 4th grade, didn't have a friend throughout school to my senior year from it. They said I was gay and all, but I wasn't even Bi until half way through college rolleyes . Only way that might stop it is him having romance perhaps with a girl, being openly showy of it as well.
For yourself, screw them (not literally). Their opinion of you shouldn't matter, they aren't your friends, nor will they be in your future life outside school. If they do this to your face, I'd just tell the guidance counselor (only one who would probably care about students), and try to get them in trouble for being mean to someone just because of their sexuality. It isn't something you should worry so much about if you can get the adults involved in it, I think.
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Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 4:52 am
*stabs Drak repeatedly* Hey man, this is MY area of expertise. You know I've always made had a rant/advice thread! gonk How's about we work something where I get my rant/advice thread back and you go Mod somewhere else (like...one of the subforums. idk.) I just miss my rant/advice thread and I don't want competetion! crying
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Posted: Thu Jun 28, 2007 5:52 am
You can make your "All hail Delphy or else" thread, it's fine, just people tend to work better when the one being asked is online often enough, I think...
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 5:48 am
So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now (In Real Life) and things have been really rocky for the last 2 months or so. I'm not sure how it started out, i think it was a trust issue, and we got into a pretty big argument (thats why i was going to leave Gaia.)
There was a few things in between... Like me having a crush on a girl, and i told her i wanted to have at least one fling before i settle down. Like, no regrets before i commit myself to one person.
Anyway... I kept on telling her i would make things right again, and i was planning on trying to make it up to her when she comes up in the holidays, which is in the next two weeks, but she's telling me she's using this as the last time we'll ever see each other again...
I just really don't know what to do.. Whether i stay with her and regret not having my fun later or leave and fling around. I'll probably never get her back if i do leave, that is what is worrying the most..
Or i could just live with the fact that theres going to be a few things i'll miss out on.
I was just thinking.. It's better i do that stuff now rather then later, right?
AND if i don't do something now, i'll defiantly lose her for good.
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 6:54 am
Well the question has become, whether to have fun for a few days...or to spend your life with someone you love?
The quality win choice is love I would say, as you spend decades with her, loving her, which is quantity as well, but so much better than just a lil fun that will be over soon enough, right?
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 5:49 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 9:28 pm
Is it not helpful then? emo
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Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 9:58 pm
Oy, I'm on Gaia everyday. And I at least show up in the guild weekly, sometimes more often. AND...I think I put in a "PM me cause my rents are rightwing nut job blahblahblah" thing.
And dang it, I needed those rants. I was gonna save them in my journal so I can read them later. I suppose I'll just make another thread. But let me tell ya'll this. DO NOT TOUCH MY RANT THREAD EVER. Or I will hunt you down and do very mean things to you, so mean, I don't even know what it is.
...I could always turn that brief history thread into it...maybe not...
Oh and I'm going to be seeing a shrink here soon, to find out just how ******** up I am. I'll keep ya'll updated about that.
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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 8:01 pm
Drak of Paradise Is it not helpful then? emo It is. I'm just really curious, as all. And i don't want to end up cheating on her or something, because that's really not my thing. Hmm i'll see how things go with her.
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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 8:10 pm
I would always prefer love to fun myself, as being in love is a good feeling, one rare enough for me. Plus the fun you can have while in love can be better than the fun you would of had.
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