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 Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 1:41 pm
I'm a virgin at age 15.....and everyone keeps pushing me and making fun of me because i'm a virgin. I also don't want to do it because it's something special and sort of against my religion....
I don't know what to do sad
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 2:37 pm
Don't worry about it. I'm 16, and I'm still a virgen. I have friends who are virgens. You know what you want, you know what your values are. You're only 15, you're young take your time. Don't try and grow up too fast, because maybe one day you'll regret it.
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 5:19 pm
That's what I think =/
So I dunno if it's normal to lose it now or to lose it later..=/
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:18 am
15 is too young for sex in most cases in my opinion. I think teenage boys often lie and say that they are not virgins anyway. When I was in high school, it seemed like everyone was having sex. After college, when people were older, more mature, and did not think they had to lie about having sex anymore, then all of a sudden there were virgins everywhere. Most of my friends, lovers, and boyfriends lately have/had been male virgins over the age of 20. 3nodding If people tease you about it, you can always ask them why they are so interested in your sex life.... wink
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 7:32 am
lol...im guessing they're gay? =]
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 7:40 am
Just tell them to lay off! You have your values and they have theirs. If you have sex just because your friends are pushing you, you may have a moment of glory when your friends say "YEAH, ALL RIGHT! YOU'RE THE MAN!" or whatever, but eventually, reality will set in, and you will regret it because sex is a personal decision, one your friends should never make for you!
And if they keep puhsing you, say with a gay lisp "I don't see any of you sailors volunteering!" ^_^
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 10:15 am
i am picked on all the time because i'm a virgin. But i'm saving myself for marriage (religion) and I'm proud. I want it to be special.
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 10:42 am
broadwaybound19427 i am picked on all the time because i'm a virgin. But i'm saving myself for marriage (religion) and I'm proud. I want it to be special. I'm not saving myself for marriage necessarily, but I am saving myself for the right person. I want it to be special, and I want to be careful about who I do lose my virginity to because I do value it enough to save it for true love. When you lose your virginity should be a personal choice. I applaud people who take sex seriously and save it for when they're truly in love, as well as people who wait until they're married. I also think virgins should be proud of their virginity, not ashamed of it; it's always best to wait if you're in doubt. If you think maybe you shouldn't be having sex, go with that instinct because once you lose your virginity, there really isn't a way to get it back. There are born-again virgin, but it just isn't the same as being an actual virgin.
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 12:08 pm
adventchildren73 lol...im guessing they're gay? =] Of course not. xp I am a female. I did say that they were my friends, boyfriends, and lovers. wink xp Don't buy into that same stereotype that your friends are buying into, that you must be gay if you're not sleeping with women by the time you're 15 years old. Some women like an inexperienced man. wink I like Freedom's suggestion of saying that they are not volunteering too. xp You could think of a bunch of fun things to jokingly say. If they make fun of you saying you are gay or something (not there is anything wrong with being gay, but young boys seem to like to throw the word around as an insult anyway), you could call them gay right back for being so interested in your sex life.
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:48 pm
LorienLlewellyn adventchildren73 lol...im guessing they're gay? =] Of course not. xp I am a female. I did say that they were my friends, boyfriends, and lovers. wink xp Don't buy into that same stereotype that your friends are buying into, that you must be gay if you're not sleeping with women by the time you're 15 years old. Some women like an inexperienced man. wink I like Freedom's suggestion of saying that they are not volunteering too. xp You could think of a bunch of fun things to jokingly say. If they make fun of you saying you are gay or something (not there is anything wrong with being gay, but young boys seem to like to throw the word around as an insult anyway), you could call them gay right back for being so interested in your sex life. I'm sort of ...metro...I act gay but i'm not. I mean i'm a pervert...but i'm sort of losing my perverted ness and yet my friends literally think i'm gay. I don't actually date in real life. I online date =/ But I think it's more fun, and I would like the person for who they are. So that's a big plus :] And I've never had a real girlfriend because they're all kinda sluttish where I live.
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Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 2:03 pm
adventchildren73 LorienLlewellyn adventchildren73 lol...im guessing they're gay? =] Of course not. xp I am a female. I did say that they were my friends, boyfriends, and lovers. wink xp Don't buy into that same stereotype that your friends are buying into, that you must be gay if you're not sleeping with women by the time you're 15 years old. Some women like an inexperienced man. wink I like Freedom's suggestion of saying that they are not volunteering too. xp You could think of a bunch of fun things to jokingly say. If they make fun of you saying you are gay or something (not there is anything wrong with being gay, but young boys seem to like to throw the word around as an insult anyway), you could call them gay right back for being so interested in your sex life. I'm sort of ...metro...I act gay but i'm not. I mean i'm a pervert...but i'm sort of losing my perverted ness and yet my friends literally think i'm gay. I don't actually date in real life. I online date =/ But I think it's more fun, and I would like the person for who they are. So that's a big plus :] And I've never had a real girlfriend because they're all kinda sluttish where I live. Join the club! I'm sort of in an LDR with a guy, and I haven't seen him in over a year. I think my parents think I'm a lesbian because I don't date guys at my school, but that's really because most of the guys at my school seem like jerks, and the ones that are nice, I'm still not that into. I'm into the one I have, and I don't want anyone else. Like I said before, don't let people pressure you into doing thing sex-wise, or even relationship-wise. Also, think about all the drama that can come from having sex that you won't have to worry about right now, but they might have to. And also remember that a lot of people lie about their sexual experience; so it may seem like most guys are having sex, but I'll bet it only seems that way because a lot of guys are lying to protect their "image."
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 3:38 am
adventchildren73 I'm a virgin at age 15.....and everyone keeps pushing me and making fun of me because i'm a virgin. I also don't want to do it because it's something special and sort of against my religion.... I don't know what to do sad Hey, I'm 21 and still a virgin. I know what it's like to be pressured into having sex, it gets worse as you get older because it's made into a bigger deal then what it is when you're younger (well in my experience it is) It's up to you when and how you loose your virginity. But don't fall for their peer presure, you won't be ready for the consequences and you will feel horrible afterwards. You are best to wait for someone you love or at least trust and care about
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 7:06 am
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 17. And to be honest, sex isn't that everyone makes it out to be. Sure, me and my girlfriend have fun with it. But we could also live without it. With the amount of priorities people have in life, sex shouldn't be a major one.
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 10:38 am
The_Lurker I didn't lose my virginity until I was 17. And to be honest, sex isn't that everyone makes it out to be. Sure, me and my girlfriend have fun with it. But we could also live without it. With the amount of priorities people have in life, sex shouldn't be a major one. Good point. When a friend of mine first had sex, he told me it was not as good as he thought it would be. He said he liked it, it just was not some great and amazing thing like he thought it would be based on how people talk about it.
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Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 8:50 pm
The pain of people teasing you about being a virgin will last until your High School days are over.
The pain of having sex when you weren't ready may last you a lifetime.
People who tease you about being a virgin are probably only teasing you about that because it's something they feel they can tease you about. If you went off and had sex, these people would just find something else to tease you about.
Think about it...
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