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erm...I know no one cares. Another topic about guy problems. The only difference is that I don't even know these people in real life. but oh well.

I'm freinds with this guy on an online game, ragnarok. He has already had a wife, and divorced her, then got remarried to some one else the same day (all in the game, not in real life mind you). The thing is, that I'm crushing on him...but he doesn't know. He really annoys me at times, with his cluelessness and bad decisions, but no one's perfect...I think. Anwyways, he sys he's in love with his wife of now. He was planning on cheating on his his first wife with her. He's 17.

Then, on the game there was this guy that was crushing on me. I felt bad, so I said I liked him back, even though I hate him. He's turned into even worse of an a** now. But, I don't want to hurt him. He's also 17.

What should I do?

^^; That's happened to me a few times... I only said that I liked them just so that they can help me.. ^^; but to have a real crushing ness over in a game? = tell the one you don't like flat out.. tell him that you don't like him and say you have a real boy friend now.. ^^; but that'll hurt him.. hm.. just take him off your list then... ^_^ so then you dont' have any more of a connection with him. and with the one you like... [through the game] he's probably nice on the game and only on the game.. so it's not worthet on going into him... because it's just a game and that he might be a rappest... [not that he would be but it's a thought] and yet... he's already got a "wife" in the game.. he's probably going to do the same to you with the first wife... just rip you off and run. [hopefully this isn't hurting you in any sort of way because i've been depressing people when ever i try to help online.. ^^; sorry if it does.]

You also forgot to add that the guy you're currently crushing has a wife who is a shore b***h. > >;;

Anyway, if you want, I can create a temp. account on RO and tell the guy you hate that is currently crushing on you to screw off.

The guy you're crushing doesn't seem very trustworthy at all. He's quite a player. As the outgoing type, I'd say you tell him that you like him. I mean, I doubt you're going to meet him in real life [hopefully not offending you or anything] so there really isn't much to lose. But then again, my thinking is kinda messed up, but I seriously think you should tell him. I don't know him that well, if you were to tell him that you like him, there is a chance he'll return your feelings and divorce with the whore.
Hmm... yeah...
I was gonna say something else, but I forgot. xP
Anyway, hope everything turns out aiight for you, aiight?
If not, then I'll give you a big hug.
Well, I'll do that anyway because I can.
I hope I'm not repeating myself. > >;;
Meh... yeah I am.
~<3

That's what I told her that she should've just told him the truth in the first place. Though seeeing that this is an online game, I really don't think it matters if you hurt his feelings because you prolly won't see him again.

._.; Maybe it's best to tell him flat out... >_>;
wowie.. He must trust you on allot if he tells you that.. ^^;

o_o; hm... didn't he say you where his sister? then he has adopted a kid and it's his first sister? wtf? you can adopt syblings now! sweet! xD hmn... maybe it's best not to tell him cuz he's having fun adopting people. .^^;

oh.. how'd ya find out? that's kinda scarry if he tells you that his real sister is his kid in the game.. ._.;

Ya know what I think...?

I think.....it's just a game! for god's sake people, please! the dude that likes you is not gunna be thaqt hurt if you don't like him back. NO, he isn't gunna be happy but it's not like he will be crushed, so just tell him the truth stare

And as for the other guy, I agree with Lazi...he seems like a total jerk and I just want to ask, If he ever admitted that he likes you, what would you do?

Wouldn't you worry that maybe he would cheat on you like he wanted to with his first wife!? Use common sense people!