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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 12:39 am

And I don't mean they died or moved away or something. Those are things that leave you with knowing they loved you like a brother or sister. I mean a best friend telling you that they basically don't want to be friends anymore.

It happened to me last night. My best friend of seven years basically told me that he outgrew me. He essentially told me that I was immature, and he didn't have time in his new "mature" life for me.

And as if that wasn't bad enough, I just found out from his girlfriend, who I'm friends with, that he was amused by the whole thing. He was, apparently, amused by the fact that I cried myself to sleep last night. He was amused by the fact that, for the first time in three years, I had thoughts of suicide.

And it's not just me. He was amused at the fact that his girlfriend got mad at him for what he said to me. He was amused by a bunch of other s**t that's happened recently. He just completely belittled everyone and their feelings, as if none of it ********.

Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 5:25 am

I've had friends do that to me before, about three of them to be exact. Just because I didn't want to tdate one of their friends, I was a b*****d, and treated as such, they stopped calling, started saying things about me, and telling me how immature I was being with the situation. I still don't talk to them to this day, and this happened almost 4 months ago.

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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 8:08 am

Pssh. ******** not mature.

A couple times in my life, yes. One just turned into an a*****e. Just like that. He played Final Fantasy 11 for 12 hours a day and whenever we did get to hang out he acted as though we was PMSing. Strangely enough, he also started claiming he was a woman online and frequently used it as an excuse for his a*****e-like behaviour. We just drifted apart from that point. I couldn't stand to be around him.

It's hard, man. I feel for ya. Don't let it keep you down.

Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 10:12 am

The dudes an a*****e, don't let it get you down.

Drugs turned my former best friend into an aquaintence, and then jealousy turned him into an enemy.

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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 10:34 am

Best friend -> Summer -> Boyfriend -> Start highschool -> push bestfriend away for boyfriend -> Boyfriend becomes "bestfriend" -> he breaks up with me -> Now I have no friends.

Yeah, grade eight, two months left of school, and I literally had no friends what-so-ever because I pushed everyone away for him, then he pushed me away.

I've never had a friendship last for more than 2 or 3 years. I've always drifted away from them. There isn't anyone here whome I would generally call up for no reason but to hang out. I still don't really have friends. I'm fine with it now... it sometimes makes me sad, but I shouldn't have to fight constantly to make friends, it should just happen. I'm generally happy with my friends-situation right now.I can just do my own thing.

I have a few close friends... although the bulk of them are online friends. There's one in particular who is very close to my heart, and I care about alot. I hope that our relationship can be one of those that lasts till I'm an old crazy cat-lady. Maybe they'll be there with me? i dunno yet ^^'

Anywho.
That guy sounds like a total jerk. I hope his girlfriend dumps the b*****d. He's really not worth your time or energy if he's going to act like a 6-year-old. Mature. Hah. I say inject him with rabies or syphilus while he's alseep.

Be this the whetstone of your sword: let grief
Convert to anger; blunt not the heart, enrage it.

I seem smart when I quote Shakespeare, although killing your friend may not be the answer >.<'

Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 11:58 am

Find a way to make his girlfriend break with him. ninja Now we will see who is "mature". He will be bawling like a baby instead of being "amused".

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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 12:18 pm

Aw Cel....I know how you feel losing a best friend is just as bad as losing a gf/bf/ or family member. To an extent, they are like oiur family.. and extended part of us. Too bad how that all went down though because that was more immature then anything Ive ever read or seen.

try to stay focused, and stay positive... now that the bad is gone and over only the good will remain.

I moved away from plenty of friends... but againts my wil.... thank GAWD FOR MYSPACE xd

if it wasnt for that... i would lost all my friends.

Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 4:57 pm

Guys guys, we're all friends here. Don't ever say you don't have friends, we all support each other 3nodding

Chin up okay. We all laugh, cry, and pwn the VGD together. Yes, we sometimes get on each others nerves (COUGHwiiannouncementCOUGH) but that's what friends do sometimes.

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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 5:48 pm

Well, I've never really been close enough to anyone to give them the fabled title of "Best Friend", but I feel for you. I have known a couple people who turned into complete assholes for whatever reason.

Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 6:14 pm

Yeah, almost 6 years ago. I was always alone after that, that's why I begin to read alot. But I made friends at college 2 years ago. Everything always turning out good it seems. Plus, my best friend wasn't a good friend at all, it's better be alone than in bad compagny.

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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 7:41 pm

Once. But it was more gradual. I was being the a*****e. He'd come over and I'd just sit there and play N64. I was like in 5th grade....
He went to 6th and we just sorta drifted apart. Boredom....
I had like no friends at my middle school in sixth grade. But I fell into a group. I have a knack for attracting eccentric people...

Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 8:00 pm

People on skype know about how I lost my best friend. Apparently, to my ex best friend, our friendship was worth 100 bucks.

EDIT: After reading the post... my ex friend did the same ******** thing to me.
Belittled the s**t out of me.

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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 8:42 pm

Sort of, but it wasn't someone I knew.

I refuse to talk about it.

Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 8:45 pm

Pompus b*****d.

I hope Jesus kicks him in the nuts on his way down.

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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 8:53 pm

UFO tofu

Pompus b*****d.

I hope Jesus kicks him in the nuts on his way down.

XD

I roffled myself.

Hardcore.

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