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Abusive Foster Mom

PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 2:00 pm


Well I'm 12, and I was wondering if it is common for middle-schoolers to have girlfriends/boyfriends.

And if it is common......

I'm really slim like a Japanese girl, but my skin is dark tan.
I'm Half Black and Half White, with alot of different things mixed in.

Is there a high chance that I won't get a cute Japanese boyfriend if I move there?

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 3:23 pm


Thats not really some thing you can REALLY say yes or no to. You would have to look from person to person, and 12 isn't an age that you should be thinking about big relationships.

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Jazzy Zeig

PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 4:05 pm


yeah, I have to agree with what the panda one said. Also a relationship should be something on a personal more mental level rather than just phisical attraction.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 4:26 pm


SuperTurkey
yeah, I have to agree with what the panda one said. Also a relationship should be something on a personal more mental level rather than just phisical attraction.

I agree with them both but I have more to say, only I'm not "here" (long story about me being sick, and getting "high" of ONE medicine caplet for my cold at school.... sucks to be me) so when I'm back I will say what I want to say.

Short form though, you shouldn't be trying to do that now at your age.

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ferretclaw

PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 4:46 pm


at that age, boys can still be really immature, no matter what country you're in. i hate to generalize like this, but i know japan can be a bit intolerant of foreigners in general, and i'm sure their 12 year old boys aren't exactly the epitome of japanese maturity. so i'd say it'd be hard, but nothing's impossible.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 5:07 pm


scream Hopefully it matters more on your personality than on what you look like, no? Even if you were dark, dark black-skinned with like 5 foot legs and blond hair (I don't know how), if you had a good personality, it might take you a while, but I'm sure you could find someone in Japan, right?

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g_maine19

PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:19 pm


Maybe.. if you and a Japanese boy can click together.. ^^
PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:37 pm


i really dont think u can actually ask that. its morea of a thing that you have to find out for yourself.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 7:14 pm


12 years old is way too young for a relationship~
PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 7:37 pm


Yeah, your way too young for a relationship..
At that age, all it's going to end up is drama...

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Jazzy Zeig

PostPosted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 8:10 pm


ITEMhunter
Yeah, your way too young for a relationship..
At that age, all it's going to end up is drama...

3nodding yupyup, been there done that whee
PostPosted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 1:55 pm


You may be able to get a good relationship, but don't think too deeply into it. Young people in japan have alot of school work to deal with, so it may be better to just try and make some friends before trying to make a bf.

gothic_panda

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Aiko_589

PostPosted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 5:07 pm


gothic_panda
You may be able to get a good relationship, but don't think too deeply into it. Young people in japan have alot of school work to deal with, so it may be better to just try and make some friends before trying to make a bf.


Actually, dating among students is forbidden
PostPosted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 5:34 pm


^^ Nice informantion Aiko^^

I had no idea that student's are forbidden to date in Japan. Now I know why society in my hometown is corrupt so much. I mean you've got people who date at that young of an age. It makes me angry and think, "what the bloody hell are they thinking? The drama and all the problems that follow it." Know I know why I was thankful that I was never involved in a relationship, despite the fact that I don't date guys.

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ferretclaw

PostPosted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 11:25 pm


even high school students? eek
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