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 Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 5:12 pm
My ex that i had sex with is now pregnant and she blames me but we havent had sex for a year and she constantly is telling me that im the father and shes 5 months pregnant. what do i do and what do i tell her?? also my dad and mom wont talk to me....
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 5:41 pm
Tell her you don't want to hear anymore about it until she gets a DNA test for the baby.
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 7:28 pm
Pretty much wait till the baby is born and calmly let her know if she claims it is yours to serve you the necessary legal papers so you can get a paternity test done after the baby is born.
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 7:41 pm
ok i thought about the tests but i cant do it without parental notification and they need to approve of it but they wont talk to me
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 7:47 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:40 am
You can't do the tests anyways until the baby is born. No doctor is going to okay an amniocentisis for just a paternity test. So, you have 4 months to work on your relationship with your parents. Write them a letter explaining yourself to them.
What I mean by the necessary legal papers is that she cannot do anything legally or even talk to you until she goes to a lawyer and goes through the agency in your area. If she is adamant about this, she will and when teh baby is born and she goes in to request getting child support from you, the courts will issue a paternity test. This is NOT something you can decide not to take if you don't want to. If it's done through the courts, it's a COURT ORDER and your parents will have to comply, both of you will.
I don't know how old you are or where you live to find out the necessary information pertinent for the state for you. You need to talk to a lawyer if she is persistent.
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 12:12 pm
Try to work things out with your parents. Eventually they'll come around, they're just disappointed now. And wait till after the baby's born, then you'll know if you're the father or not.
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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 1:38 pm
ok thanks that makes me feel alot better
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Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 10:29 am
Tell her you want a dna test maybe then she will get off your back
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Posted: Wed Nov 22, 2006 4:56 am
on the parent thing i can relat! when i told my mother and father about me having a baby they wouldn't talk to me but now that they see im taking the right steps and showing they that i can be resposable about the whole thing they are staring to come around to the idea of being granpartnes.
If you sit then down and tell thing abouyt the whole you haven't had sex with her for a year that there a BIG chance that it's not yours and she probley doing it for attenchen from you they my rethink your position on it and help you find out if it is yours or not!
Parents are hard to handle in this kind of situation sweatdrop and I'm almost 22 and i had the same problem (yes i know i just repeted myself) but it's to tell you that your not alone! biggrin
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 6:53 pm
well she had the baby. and the DNA tests show that its not mine. and shes taking me to court because she still thinks it mine. what do i do now? What do i tell her and her family?
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 8:30 pm
Erndg_1548 well she had the baby. and the DNA tests show that its not mine. and shes taking me to court because she still thinks it mine. what do i do now? What do i tell her and her family? To look at the DNA test? If it shows that it isn't yours, I don't see why you would have any explaining to do to anyone. She's the only one who has to explain anything to her family.
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 10:06 am
Get a restraining order.
Have you actually received a summons, or is she just telling you that she's taking you to court?
Any good judge would throw it out without much thought. You are not the father by proof of DNA test. So it's your ex's job to find out who is and deal with it.
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 10:53 am
It's been proven you're not the father so there isn't much she can do about it. Relax, you're fine.
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