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 Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 7:12 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:16 am
Got any friends with a car? You could find a Planned Parenthood in your area, find out if you really are pregnant, and take their advice.
If I saw this message sooner, I would have suggested to get to a Planned Parenthood right away and see if you can get your hands on a 72-hour pill, but it's probably too late now.
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:28 am
Lumineya Got any friends with a car? You could find a Planned Parenthood in your area, find out if you really are pregnant, and take their advice. If I saw this message sooner, I would have suggested to get to a Planned Parenthood right away and see if you can get your hands on a 72-hour pill, but it's probably too late now.
Blarg.
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 11:02 am
Is this nice guy or emo with bitchmonster mother guy?
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 2:13 pm
Alright, first off: calm the hell down. Stop it with the talk of someone shooting you in the stomach, the melodrama is not conducive to problem solving. I apologize if I put on a bit of a Mom Hat, but you asked for help.
You might not have your period in two weeks but still not be pregnant. Stress can cause you to skip periods. (True story: In January of 05 my grandmother died and while my boyfriend and I were having sex the condom came off. I got myself so stressed out over my grandmother's death, the condom coming off, and my boyfriend talking about going in to the army to help support myself and our possible kid that I skipped a period. I'm normally a 28 days kind of girl but there were about 45 honking days there. I took two separate EPTs and they were both negative. It managed to calm me down enough that two weeks after that I finally had my period.) So don't assume that if you don't start your period in 14 days you absolutely ARE pregnant.
Lumi makes a good point about going to a Planned Parenthood (or a clinic) to take a test to find out if you really are pregnant. Or maybe getting a emergency pregnantcy test from Walgreens or your grocery store. (All the ones I've taken so far have been accurate - negative.) Either way, you're going to need to find out. So you need to get someone, maybe his mom, maybe a friend who's willing to drop something to help you, to help you find out. Also you need to know if this person will keep this as confidential as you want them to keep it confidential.
You shouldn't try inducing a miscarriage when you don't know for sure if you're pregnant or not. Find out first. And if you do turn out to be pregnant then I still STRONGLY suggest you do NOT try to induce a miscarriage yourself. I really don't think the website you linked to is legit, anyone can put anything on the web. In the website's FAQ section it even says that the method, "may not work at all" and on their last resort page they admit that some of the methods can be "toxic" and "lethal." Sweetie, I don't want to sound condescending, but if you and your boyfriend don't it together to wrap his willy, do you think you have it together enough to herballly medicate yourself with something described as "toxic" and "lethal"? And what do you tell your Mom if you try this method and start hemorrhaging and have to go to the ER? If you are pregnant, however, and having this man's child at this point in your life is something you do not want to have happen, and you want that fetus OUT then I suggest you go see a doctor. Planned Parenthood or at a clinic - I'm sure you can get someone you trust to drive you. But I really discourage you from taking advice from a dubious source from the internet.
Now, let's talk about your future for a minute here assuming you aren't with child. Even if you do not plan on having sexual intercourse with this man again I suggest that you and he cough up the money for a pack of condoms and he familiarizes himself with putting them on and taking them off safely. Even if you don't plan on having sex again. Because the unexpected can, and does happen. If the two of you are comfortable with contraception you are more likely to use prophylactic contraception responsibly in the future, which will, if the two of you do have sexual intercourse again, translate in to less anxiety for you in the future.
You're probably going to be really nervous the next couple of weeks till you know. And if you find out it's a NEG you're still probably going to be nervous for a while. But it'll be ok. It's not the end of the world. These things are managable. Find out for sure if you are or aren't pregnant. Get the condoms. Try not to stress out too much because stress isn't helpfull. Best of luck to you. Keep us posted, and if you need to vent more, that's what this forum is for.
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 2:44 pm
imaverydisturbedgirl Lumineya Got any friends with a car? You could find a Planned Parenthood in your area, find out if you really are pregnant, and take their advice. If I saw this message sooner, I would have suggested to get to a Planned Parenthood right away and see if you can get your hands on a 72-hour pill, but it's probably too late now.
Lessee... I snuck out last night to see my love, and got in trouble. I can talk to him, and all, but can't see him or be alone with him. Um... thing is, he lives with a friend. This friend is out of town every week, and is only home on weekends, if then. The reason they live there is another friend of theirs is in college, and she's letting them stay there. He goes back up with her, as he has a job there, and always brings her back when he comes back. Well, she leaves her car at home, and takes her keys with her. She accidentally left her kays this time, and my love saw them. I was in a fight with my gramma, and he knew, so took the car, and came to see me to make me feel better. Lots of drama happened, and I'm not allowed at the house anymore unless one of the other friends are ther, or my mom. Bad timing... My mom's going easy on me, so I think if he's with -his- mom, I'll be able to see him.
He's planning on telling his mom today, and so with that, I'm hoping she'll be able to take me to find out. We're both pretty sure she'll do this for him at least.
I found a few ways to help, if I am. If I can't get up there soon, and I don't have my period within the next two weeks, then I'll try those. I'll be sure to get up there either way though.You could consider taking the bus or a taxi, Planned Parenthood would be your best bet. Also Peeka gave alot of great advice, I would considering following it. I also visted the site and it seemed very sketchy. My best friend's mom is an OBGYN maybe I could talk to her for you and use hypothecticals, but she would tell you to come forward to your mom and go to planne dparenthood.
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 2:59 pm
azreal425 imaverydisturbedgirl Lumineya Got any friends with a car? You could find a Planned Parenthood in your area, find out if you really are pregnant, and take their advice. If I saw this message sooner, I would have suggested to get to a Planned Parenthood right away and see if you can get your hands on a 72-hour pill, but it's probably too late now.
Lessee... I snuck out last night to see my love, and got in trouble. I can talk to him, and all, but can't see him or be alone with him. Um... thing is, he lives with a friend. This friend is out of town every week, and is only home on weekends, if then. The reason they live there is another friend of theirs is in college, and she's letting them stay there. He goes back up with her, as he has a job there, and always brings her back when he comes back. Well, she leaves her car at home, and takes her keys with her. She accidentally left her kays this time, and my love saw them. I was in a fight with my gramma, and he knew, so took the car, and came to see me to make me feel better. Lots of drama happened, and I'm not allowed at the house anymore unless one of the other friends are ther, or my mom. Bad timing... My mom's going easy on me, so I think if he's with -his- mom, I'll be able to see him.
He's planning on telling his mom today, and so with that, I'm hoping she'll be able to take me to find out. We're both pretty sure she'll do this for him at least.
I found a few ways to help, if I am. If I can't get up there soon, and I don't have my period within the next two weeks, then I'll try those. I'll be sure to get up there either way though.You could consider taking the bus or a taxi, Planned Parenthood would be your best bet. Also Peeka gave alot of great advice, I would considering following it. I also visted the site and it seemed very sketchy. My best friend's mom is an OBGYN maybe I could talk to her for you and use hypothecticals, but she would tell you to come forward to your mom and go to planne dparenthood. Public transit FTW!! Hopefully it's avaliable where you are, Disturbed. Thanks, Az! heart
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 6:14 pm
Marillius Is this nice guy or emo with bitchmonster mother guy?
I'll leave that bit. surprised
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 6:34 pm
azreal425 imaverydisturbedgirl Lumineya Got any friends with a car? You could find a Planned Parenthood in your area, find out if you really are pregnant, and take their advice. If I saw this message sooner, I would have suggested to get to a Planned Parenthood right away and see if you can get your hands on a 72-hour pill, but it's probably too late now.
Lessee... I snuck out last night to see my love, and got in trouble. I can talk to him, and all, but can't see him or be alone with him. Um... thing is, he lives with a friend. This friend is out of town every week, and is only home on weekends, if then. The reason they live there is another friend of theirs is in college, and she's letting them stay there. He goes back up with her, as he has a job there, and always brings her back when he comes back. Well, she leaves her car at home, and takes her keys with her. She accidentally left her kays this time, and my love saw them. I was in a fight with my gramma, and he knew, so took the car, and came to see me to make me feel better. Lots of drama happened, and I'm not allowed at the house anymore unless one of the other friends are ther, or my mom. Bad timing... My mom's going easy on me, so I think if he's with -his- mom, I'll be able to see him.
He's planning on telling his mom today, and so with that, I'm hoping she'll be able to take me to find out. We're both pretty sure she'll do this for him at least.
I found a few ways to help, if I am. If I can't get up there soon, and I don't have my period within the next two weeks, then I'll try those. I'll be sure to get up there either way though.You could consider taking the bus or a taxi, Planned Parenthood would be your best bet. Also Peeka gave alot of great advice, I would considering following it. I also visted the site and it seemed very sketchy. My best friend's mom is an OBGYN maybe I could talk to her for you and use hypothecticals, but she would tell you to come forward to your mom and go to planne dparenthood.
Wow, that'd be awesome. Thank you. <33
But this isn't so much a problem anymore. I am going to tell her.
If I really had to though, I would get some cash together for a taxi.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 5:51 pm
Wow, I hope things turn out for you. Just remember to always be prepared for situations like that. Next time if you do it without protection you should have the boy buy a tube of spermacide at the store.
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