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LadyKaeleer

PostPosted: Sun Oct 29, 2006 8:47 am


It's the bad times all over again...

I thought I had rid myself of these demons, these desires... I gave them up for you... for us... I fought back against these emotions, suppressed the darkness I am bound to, relinquished my addiction and my comfort.

And now there is no us...

And in a flash the want has returned... that painful desire creeps along my skin... I want that sweet release... the physical pain to wash away the hurt in my heart and fill the hollow place that was once my soul.

But I have found something different to place my faith in, something more then us, the greatest gift I never deserved... My daughter, your daughter, Our Daughter. A light in my life that hasn't had a chance to be tarnished, a piece of you no one will ever take away from me.

She is someone who needs me, and will never walk away from me. Someone I have the power to make happy, like I never was able to with you. For whatever reason, I was not good enough for you. I don't blame anyone for that, its no one's fault, but I am, can be, and will be good enough for her.

Thats all I have left to believe in.

I believed in forever, and you ripped that away from me.
I believed in our love, and you proved that to be a lie.
I believed in you, and you betrayed me.
I believed in forgiveness, and you threw it back in my face.
I believed you could stand up to the choices you made, and you proved me a fool.

You claim to be a man, yet you run and hide like a boy. You make a decision, and can't accept the sacrifices that are demanded of that choice. You've rolled over and given up, walked away from me, and the past four years we've shared, for a feeling you don't even know can ever be returned.

You want love, I gave you love, I gave you everything I am, body, heart, and soul... but you don't want me. You've never wanted me. But you wouldn't just let me go. You used me,you used my body, my love and my devotion. I was willing to give you the time and space you needed... I was willing to bite my tounge and let you find you. Swallow my own hurt and inadiquate feelings, and hope that you returned to me.

But you've never wanted to return to my arms, just my bed.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 10, 2006 2:07 pm


Oh hun that is so heartfelt. Is that what happened? I'm really sorry, I don't know what to say sad

Kyra_uk
Crew


LadyKaeleer

PostPosted: Fri Nov 10, 2006 11:08 pm


'eh... it's really not as bad as it sounds, or atleast it's not as bad any more.

About a month after Keiara was born Kenn decided he's not happy, and hasn't been happy, and moved out.

Luckily for me, he left me, not Keiara. He takes her on every day off he's got, he pays support. He loves her so much, but there's some things between the two of us that make being together difficult.
PostPosted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 10:04 am


I think I can understand that, but it's good he still wants to be apart of Keiara's life smile Some fathers would leave both the mother & their child.

Kyra_uk
Crew


Moonshine Aya
Captain

PostPosted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 1:55 am


Kyra_uk
I think I can understand that, but it's good he still wants to be apart of Keiara's life smile Some fathers would leave both the mother & their child.


Quoted for the truth. Some fathers would eve try to sue for full custody. =/ Im happy though that hes at least still in her life and being a father. My sister-in-laws "baby daddy" owes her about 5 months of "child support" (it's in " because she hasnt went to court and make him legally pay child support because she's dumb >.>), was in jail for the first half of the firts year of her life, and never asks to see her or find out how shes doing. He only calls my SIL to find out what SHES doing so he might have a chance to screw around even though he has another gf whos the mother of his OTHER 2 kids. As you can see things could much, much worse.
PostPosted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 10:14 am


AerynsMommy
Kyra_uk
I think I can understand that, but it's good he still wants to be apart of Keiara's life smile Some fathers would leave both the mother & their child.


Quoted for the truth. Some fathers would eve try to sue for full custody. =/ Im happy though that hes at least still in her life and being a father. My sister-in-laws "baby daddy" owes her about 5 months of "child support" (it's in " because she hasnt went to court and make him legally pay child support because she's dumb >.>), was in jail for the first half of the firts year of her life, and never asks to see her or find out how shes doing. He only calls my SIL to find out what SHES doing so he might have a chance to screw around even though he has another gf whos the mother of his OTHER 2 kids. As you can see things could much, much worse.

Kenn knows and accepts that Keiara is better off in my care, he works far too much and crazy shifts, so he'd never be arround while she's awake.

Sense the poem was origanally posted, he and I have gone through some ups and downs, even though we're not together anymore, but as I type this, things have been resolved {for the moment, I have no idealistic notions that things are going to stay this way, but I hope to be able to prolong the peace and continue working for co-existing with as little stress as possible} and he and I have regained a friends plus slightly more status again.

I've started to grow feelings for another guy, and he's been interested in someone else for a while now, but there are issues and obsicales in the way for the both of us, and we continue to spend what time we can together, for Keiara, and for ourselves, because despite everything that's gone on between us, I can honestly say I still love him. I just may have to learn to love him from a distance and on a different level.

LadyKaeleer


Katshme

PostPosted: Sun Mar 18, 2007 9:29 pm


I'm sorry that stuff doesnt work out the way it should. I wish all those fairy-tales we heard as kids had given us realistic ideals.
PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 1:51 am


im glad things worked out at least somehow....
my ex is giving me a hard time & i am pregnant with his baby....and he is acting like i am making it all up....i was going to keep the baby, but then he filed false charges against me to have me arrested ... i am not dealing with that forever so as hard as it was to even stomach the idea, i am not keeping my baby...it hurts to think it never mind say it, but whats worse is some men....most men, dont love us for anything but our beds....

Shorti Rock


ChasidyNightPhire

PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2007 4:38 pm


Wow, that was a really deep and poetic post.. it had me speechless. Have you ever thought about writing?
PostPosted: Tue May 29, 2007 5:49 pm


Kae dearie, my friend who's due in July (she may end up having her a little early), is facing a similar thing...the father of her baby and herself can't be together because of issues, I didn't bother asking because I thought it rude and stuff, but he's going to be doing the same thing for his daughter....If I'd gone through what you're currently facing, I'd not be here...The thought of losing Evan tears and rips me apart internally....But he's currently grumpy 'cause he hasn't smoked pot in near a week...I said 8 days, and he agreed and he wants to get high real bad...And my ex is a t**t.

RockyHorrorPictureWhore


LadyKaeleer

PostPosted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 10:57 am


ChasidyNightPhire
Wow, that was a really deep and poetic post.. it had me speechless. Have you ever thought about writing?

Awww... thanks.
I have concidered writing... but it seems that the only time my muse comes and whispers in my ear is when a tragedy occurs in my life.

Luckily for me, Kenn has come to his senses and we're living together again. Life's a whole lot less stressful now that he's here and not working at BK... not to mention his little Burger-King whore dropped off the face of the planet... prolly went back to her abusive baby-daddy. She let a wonderful man slip out of her grasp... not that it suprises me, he's done this a few times, but like Kat mentioned, life isn't a fairytale, and my love fo rhim lets me laugh about his 'adventures' with Brandy {his little BK-whore} and just be thrilled he's back at my side, and more loving and affectionate then ever...

Hell... I've got a sneaking suspiscion he's going to propose at some point in the future...
I dunno,maybe it's my own delusions, but when he's swinging arround a sword and saying "Well, you always said you wanted to marry a pirate, and they do this sort of thing", I can't help but think he's finally come to terms with the idea of 'settling down' and having a real family.
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:10 am


Here laid to rest...

Oh Kae!!! I'm so happy for you! I just knew things would work themselves out =3 Let us know when he proposes!!


...is our love ever longed

Moonshine Aya
Captain

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