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 Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 3:26 pm
Exactly what the title says.
Are there any Dollies with ED's here?
Being a loli doll unfortunatly inspires my eating disorder farther.
I want so badly to be a beautiful dollie instead of the fat, ugly girl I am.
I'm 'not fat' but until I feel that I'm not I can't eat, my mind is a constant swirl of calories, fat grams, areobics, and muscle toning.
I don't want to be like this, I just sorta am.
Anyone else like this?
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 3:47 pm
xX~Breaking_Free~Xx Exactly what the title says.
Are there any Dollies with ED's here?
Being a loli doll unfortunatly inspires my eating disorder farther.
I want so badly to be a beautiful dollie instead of the fat, ugly girl I am.
I'm 'not fat' but until I feel that I'm not I can't eat, my mind is a constant swirl of calories, fat grams, areobics, and muscle toning.
I don't want to be like this, I just sorta am.
Anyone else like this? well im not. but im def dont have very heathy eating habits (2 seconds ago i just ate a who know how many calories are in each bite cake) but if you really feel pressured to being skinny then you should keep the arobics and musle toning going (if you are doing em) and go vegetarian. you will have an excuse to eat nothing but salads all the time ^_^. and its really heathy for you. also veggi foods like veggie chicken are really delicious (you dont have to become a vegetarian to eat these, you can just switch from real meat to fake meat for a while) just one veggie chicken burger and wow your really full and its only about 100 calories. so dont feel pressured into being skinny. i know plenty of normal/overweight lolitas who arent uber skinny and they look beautiful. and switch your mind having constant worries about how you look and switch it into how you are inside. and if you arent confident enough to say to yourself "im beautiful" then say to yourself "people who dont know me are missing out on being with such an amazing fun/nice person (or whatever your like)" and be (on the inside) shallow to yourself and be "people are so jealous that im such a (insert what you like about yourself) person" it works for me!
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 3:53 pm
hey! we both have the same banner in our siggys! heh your officially cool cool
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 5:34 pm
I guess you could say I have an eating disorder...I just don't eat alot of the time, and as such I'm a twig. confused I've tried to eat more, but I just end up getting sick to my stomach later and falling asleep for ten hours. o-o
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 5:47 pm
i dont enjoy eating at all but i do eat breakfast and lunch most of time time any way. i get to busy for dinner and i cant cook and dont like to cook and lack food creativity so...
(my mom dosent cook)
i used to be verry fit and toned and am trying for that again. jobs suck.
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 6:17 pm
I dont really associate skinniness with dolls. I mean, sure you think of petite, but not necessarily skinny.
When I think of lollie i think of the dolls i had as a kid with the fairly chubby cheeks and fleshy arms. They weren't fat, but they werent skinny either, they were like healthy children.
I dont think you should feel pressured into being thinner when Lolita is not about just being pretty, its about being lady like, and ladies shouldnt...well, do bad things to their bodies like that. They should be healthy.
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 7:00 pm
Don't think of being skinny as being doll-like! I don't even dress loli around college, but the kids in my dorm still say I look like a little doll...and I am not skinny. In fact, many of the prettiest dolls have padded bodies under their frills!
I understand how you feel because I've often had to remind myself that doing unhealthy things to lose some weight is not a good idea, and luckily have never succumbed. It's a struggle, but I know you can be strong enough to be healthy. It's better to be healthy than extremely thin and in an unnatural state!
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Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2006 5:48 pm
Don't let yourself feel that way! Plenty of us girls have problems with our self-image. The key is to surround yourself with things that don't push you to continue that harmful behavior, and just try to stay healthy. Loli dolls have round, rosy cheeks and look healthy. That's what makes them so cute! If you starve yourself and over-exercise, you won't feel well and it will show. Just try to steay healthy, kay?
My sister has struggled with anorexia since she was 12. Most of it wasn't on purpose, but in the earlier stages of the disease she did use food as a source of having control in her life. It's really scary seeing someone that you love so much go through something like an eating disorder. I remember there was a time when my mom would repeatedly wake up in the middle of the night to make sure she was still alive because she was so afraid that my sister's heart would just stop from being so weak. My sis is doing a lot better now, but anorexia is something that you can struggle with for the rest of your life so it's best to take control of it while you're still young.
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Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2006 6:03 pm
Unity Don't let yourself feel that way! Plenty of us girls have problems with our self-image. The key is to surround yourself with things that don't push you to continue that harmful behavior, and just try to stay healthy. Loli dolls have round, rosy cheeks and look healthy. That's what makes them so cute! If you starve yourself and over-exercise, you won't feel well and it will show. Just try to steay healthy, kay? My sister has struggled with anorexia since she was 12. Most of it wasn't on purpose, but in the earlier stages of the disease she did use food as a source of having control in her life. It's really scary seeing someone that you love so much go through something like an eating disorder. I remember there was a time when my mom would repeatedly wake up in the middle of the night to make sure she was still alive because she was so afraid that my sister's heart would just stop from being so weak. My sis is doing a lot better now, but anorexia is something that you can struggle with for the rest of your life so it's best to take control of it while you're still young. I have a friend who used to struggle with it too, and her mother as well. In fact, her mother's case was so severe that it still causes her problems today, several years, four kids, and three husbands later. She has a bad case of osteoporosis that causes her to frequently break bones. @-@ Just this month she broke her foot and fractured her knee cap as well... Thankfully, though, my friend managed to get control of it and she now has big chubby pinchable cheeks that I ADORE. As anyone can see, it is a VERY good thing to get it under control as quickly as possible...who wants to be breaking bones every which way? (Good idea with the dolls, btw...that really seems like it should work... 3nodding )
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Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2006 6:27 pm
Being skinny and healthy, are two different things. Being too skinny and of course malnutrition, aren't good for you.
With dolls, they picture more of small children. Smaller children still hold that baby fat, and are very "straight" rather than skinny or curvy.
I don't have one. I basically eat what I want, and when I want. I have a high metabolism and I love to run around. I've never had to worry about weight, and appearance isn't a big thing for me. I like to dress and look nice for me, not anybody else.
As long as I'm comfortable with myself, I'm perfectly fine.
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Posted: Tue Oct 24, 2006 2:04 pm
I am not the most skinny of girls and I could never fit into size 2 jeans, but I try to excersize when I can, and now that the soccer season for my high school has ended I need to make sure I don't gain alot. Don't worry about your weight, and be comfortable in your skin.
Doing this to yourself now may make you look good at the time, but it will only hurt you in the long run. Besides eating a few calories won't kill you. Just eat when you're hungry and eat what you want, don't malnourish yourself. Hopefully your friends will help support you and beat this!
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2006 7:58 am
It's true about the dolls. And being pretty and thin are completely different, if you look at people with eating disorders, hardly any of them look nice.
Although having said that, why is it that it does inspire eating disorders?? I never used to worry about my weight, now all I can think about is wanting skinnier legs X(
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Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2006 11:06 am
not really i only eat 2 meals a day but i have a tine tummy so i dont eat much.
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Posted: Fri Oct 27, 2006 1:10 pm
Rarrr! I'm fat and I love food.
Give me cookies!!! domokun
I think I'm addicted to food. Especially chocolate. OMGPLZHLP D:
It's not bad. I get my bouts, especially during the weekend. My stomach just becomes neverending.
Maybe I have a tapeworm.
But then I wouldn't be fat
So the tapeworm must have an eating disorder too?
If that's the case, where can I go to counsel a disordered tapeworm?
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Posted: Fri Oct 27, 2006 1:53 pm
PsychodelicPenguin Rarrr! I'm fat and I love food.
Give me cookies!!! domokun
I think I'm addicted to food. Especially chocolate. OMGPLZHLP D:
It's not bad. I get my bouts, especially during the weekend. My stomach just becomes neverending.
Maybe I have a tapeworm.
But then I wouldn't be fat
So the tapeworm must have an eating disorder too?
If that's the case, where can I go to counsel a disordered tapeworm? heehee you sound so cute ^w^ Poor tapeworm... ;-; Maybe he's depressed because his wife left him for his evil twin Raoul.... emo Oh and... *gives you a cookie*
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