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 Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 7:59 pm
I'm going to try and get back. I need more time in the day. I am going to change this into something I want to ask tomorrow too, but not right now. Well, what the hell. Any idea's on how I could come out to my mom that I'm bisexual? Or just ways I might be able ot hint her to it? She has found two books I have on that subject, and I only have pics of guys on my wall in my bedrrom. Thanks everyone, and I'll try my hardest to stay here.
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 3:35 pm
And, also, as the title says, I think I may attempt to start a GSA in my school next year. I hope I am able to. I just need to find a few more people who'd be willing to help. I know of one other already. Not realy any question about that, just saying, although if you have anything to say about it, plaease, go right on ahead.
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 9:42 pm
Confused_one000-Kun. (Sorry, Habbit. Japanese @-@)
I'm sorry but I can't help on the first part about helping you tell your mother or hinting to her. ^-^;; I just don't know about that.
But I know somewhere (I'm sure I can get the website this next GSA meeting - Thursday please wait) theres a website that pretty much shows you how to go about making a GSA in your school.
I'll get it as fast as I can. ^-^ ! heart
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Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 10:34 pm
I don't really know what to do in such a situation, since I've never had to say anything of the sort to my parents. But I'm sure that if she really loves you, then she'll learn to accept you.
Oh, and we have a GSA at our school too. There aren't many members, because I'm sure people in school are too afraid to show up there and all. Still, we go to events outside of school sometimes and we also did the Day of Silence event this year. I think we'll be more organized next year.
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Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 9:51 am
See, I'd just say it passivly, like adding it in a sentance while allready talking about something completely irrelevant. like this, for example:
[Phone conversation]
Hi, mom, it's me. I'm home, just got off the bus, I'm inside the house, I locked the door, I took out the dog, watered the plants, put out the birdseeds, and I'm a bisexual.
the above is just an example. Either that, or just act around the house like everyone allready knew you were bi, but don't outright say it. When they figure it out and ask, "Why didn't you tell me you were bi?" just simply sit/stand there and say, "You didn't ask."
Then again, no one in my immediate family cares who preferes what gender, really.
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Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 5:25 pm
Shmoo-Chan Confused_one000-Kun. (Sorry, Habbit. Japanese @-@) I'm sorry but I can't help on the first part about helping you tell your mother or hinting to her. ^-^;; I just don't know about that. But I know somewhere (I'm sure I can get the website this next GSA meeting - Thursday please wait) theres a website that pretty much shows you how to go about making a GSA in your school. I'll get it as fast as I can. ^-^ ! heart I'm sorry, but I wasn't able to get it. End of the year stuff got in the way. Sorry, but good luck.
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Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 8:28 pm
If your parents are accepting, I'd suggest telling them in a straightforward kind of way. Do it however you're most comfortable though.
I told my mother late at night while we were the only people awake in the house. It took some serious guts, but finally I started with the phrase "I need to tell you something." That gave me a good segway into it without having to be like "Mom I'm gay." Plus, I couldn't back out after I said it. Then I just said "I like Molly [my girlfriend] and she likes me." I never actually said I only liked girls, but then again, I didn't really know at the time.
It was subtle, truthful, and unoffending. I donno. My parents dealt with it really well though, so I'm lucky.
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2005 4:12 pm
Kohki See, I'd just say it passivly, like adding it in a sentance while allready talking about something completely irrelevant. like this, for example: [Phone conversation] Hi, mom, it's me. I'm home, just got off the bus, I'm inside the house, I locked the door, I took out the dog, watered the plants, put out the birdseeds, and I'm a bisexual. the above is just an example. Either that, or just act around the house like everyone allready knew you were bi, but don't outright say it. When they figure it out and ask, "Why didn't you tell me you were bi?" just simply sit/stand there and say, "You didn't ask." Then again, no one in my immediate family cares who preferes what gender, really. Yeah, she probabl;t already knows, or at least suspects, because I almost accidently act like it. lol
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2005 4:14 pm
Shmoo-Chan Shmoo-Chan Confused_one000-Kun. (Sorry, Habbit. Japanese @-@) I'm sorry but I can't help on the first part about helping you tell your mother or hinting to her. ^-^;; I just don't know about that. But I know somewhere (I'm sure I can get the website this next GSA meeting - Thursday please wait) theres a website that pretty much shows you how to go about making a GSA in your school. I'll get it as fast as I can. ^-^ ! heart I'm sorry, but I wasn't able to get it. End of the year stuff got in the way. Sorry, but good luck. It's okay
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2005 4:24 pm
This is a hard one but my biggest suggestion is to make sure you let her know you are still the same person you have always been, you may have to deal with "oh, it's just a phase" or "well, you like girls too, just stick with them". Try showing her pflag.org that might help.
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Posted: Sun Jun 19, 2005 4:37 pm
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