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 Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 6:10 pm
Yes, that is from a TFK song, so sue me.Not really, I'm dirt poor, so please don't! gonk
Well, ever since my friend from Milton came down two weekends ago, it has been an on-going battle in the house over the 'rules of house'. Since it's the first time my father had met Fletcher, of course he wasn't allowed to stay the night, but then when I asked if he would ever be able to stay over, Brian (my dad) said "No, absolutely not!" and the following conversation/argument followed:
Me: "Dad! Why the hell not?"
Brian: "Because!"
Me: "Daad!! Give me a better answer than that!"
Brian: "He's a boy and you're only 13."
[*Snort* Yeah, for another month!]
Me: "Exactly!"
Brian: "Yes."
Me: "No, dad, I mean I'm only 13!-"
Brian: "Yeah-"
Me: "-So I'm not going to do something like that if I'm only 13! And besides, we're bestfriends! He has a girlfriend too!"
Brian: "A real one or an internet one?"
[Why the ******** would it matter? Not all LDRs are quickies!]
Me: "Long-distance, but he's going to see her in-"
Brian: *Nods head in a way that means 'riiiiiight'*
Me: "I am not going to do anything dad! And besides, if guys aren't allowed to sleep in my room, then girls shouldn't be either!"
[Stupidity on my part.]
Brian: ".. You're right, girls can't either."
Me: "No- dad! Grrr, that's not the point, this is stupid, I am not going to..!"
[s**t.]
So, that argument sort of went underground until Connor (my gay friend, as in, not liking girls *hint hint in direction of father*) decided to spend the night here.
["Of course, so long as he sleeps in the living-room.-" "DAD!!"]
Today at super I told him about the whole 'Sarah's mom thinking I was hitting on her and she wouldn't allow Sarah to stay the night because she freeked out' thing and he said (Oh his ******** nerve stare ) "Well she'd be sleeping in the living room you know." That was enough for me, I'd had as much as I could take. We went through the whole 'but you're 13' thing again and then I told him how wether he wished to believe it or not, I'm a stubborn b***h and NO ONE was going to change my mind about not doing anything past making-out until I was at least 16-17, so he had nothing to worry about 'til then anyway.
He simply blinked then responded with "I trust you Sophie, if you say you won't, then- yes- you can have people sleep in your room."
Thank the Goddess that's settled up now! Two weeks of being driven insane by him mentioning that!
Anyway, topic for disscusion: Has something like this ever happened to you because of your gender/sexuality? If so, how was it fixed- if at all? Pissed off as hell? If this has never happened, do you think it will? Has it happened to anyone you know, possibly your love?
Bah, I'll shut up now.. u.u;;
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 7:51 pm
jibberish-San ! Oi ! @_@ I have something to add to all this..
Ok. The 'What happened.'
My friend, one of my closest friends. (We'll call her Neko for the sake of not wanting to use names) And I were laying on my mother's bed watching a movie. (We're so lazy sweatdrop )
(Oh, and to understand this. You have to know. Its my Great Gram's house, and my mom and I live with her. Though I always have. Just beacsue, no family issues, thats just the way it is. But anyway, back to the story..)
So I was laying there with my head on the pillows and Neko was leaning back against my legs. We we're so into the movie that when my Great Gram opened the door we both jumped like our pants were on fire. Then she goes to accuse us (Yes, infront of my friend.) of 'doing things'. I kept telling her that we werent and showed her that Neko was just laying against my legs. Great Gram said 'Ok' But I knew she didn't belive me becasue she asked me about it later.
She was using excuses like 'Your always hugging her..ect ect.'
And me? 'Yeah! I am! BECAUSE SHES MY FRIEND! DUH!'
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*Shakes head* Shes accused me of being 'gay' a total of 5 times. The one I just told you about was the only time she had any 'proof' (witch as you can see, was comptely not true.) of it.
And alot of it is just because I go to my school's GSA. It bugs me sometimes. Some times I just wonder what would happen if I went up to her and screamed. "GREAT GRANDMOTHER I'M BI AND GET OVER IT!"
Witch I'm not of course. I don't know witch I like. Though pretty sure when I find out I'l be bi.
But I would just want to see her reaction.
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 2:58 pm
Ahh, the temptation to scream "I'm bi!" in someone's face... *Sighs dreamily.*
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razz xp
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 9:34 pm
jibberish Ahh, the temptation to scream "I'm bi!" in someone's face... *Sighs dreamily.*
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razz xp Well its kind of annoying though, right? I mean. Most if not All my friends see me as bi, though I say I don't know what I am. But now days I can clearly see that I pretty much AM bi. But just wont admit it for some reason. *bits lip*
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 3:01 pm
Shmoo-Chan jibberish Ahh, the temptation to scream "I'm bi!" in someone's face... *Sighs dreamily.*
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razz xp Well its kind of annoying though, right? I mean. Most if not All my friends see me as bi, though I say I don't know what I am. But now days I can clearly see that I pretty much AM bi. But just wont admit it for some reason. *bits lip*
Take your time to admit something like that, and remember it's not the end once you decide to say it.
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 4:42 pm
jibberish Shmoo-Chan jibberish Ahh, the temptation to scream "I'm bi!" in someone's face... *Sighs dreamily.*
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razz xp Well its kind of annoying though, right? I mean. Most if not All my friends see me as bi, though I say I don't know what I am. But now days I can clearly see that I pretty much AM bi. But just wont admit it for some reason. *bits lip*
Take your time to admit something like that, and remember it's not the end once you decide to say it.
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Posted: Wed Jun 08, 2005 2:43 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 9:43 pm
jibberish Shmoo-Chan jibberish Ahh, the temptation to scream "I'm bi!" in someone's face... *Sighs dreamily.*
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razz xp Well its kind of annoying though, right? I mean. Most if not All my friends see me as bi, though I say I don't know what I am. But now days I can clearly see that I pretty much AM bi. But just wont admit it for some reason. *bits lip*
Take your time to admit something like that, and remember it's not the end once you decide to say it.
And My mom and I had a talk similar to the one in the original post, although I'm not sure whether or not we resolved it. I forget how it started, so let's pretend I asked if I could have a (male) friend over.
Mom: Yes, but you're not allowed to have boys in your rooom with the door closed.
Me: Mom, that doesn't make any sense! I'm a lesbian!
Mom: Hmm. I hadn't thought about that. Then you're not allowed to have girls in your room with the door closed.
Me: Mom!! All my friends are girls! If it was romantic, you would know because I'm such a bad liar!
Mom: Hmm.
I'm still not sure whethere I'm allowed to have girls and boys in my room with the door closed, but I think I am because I had my male friend over and the door was closed, and I've had a few female friends spend the night since then.
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Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 7:42 pm
Well, I hope it was resolved. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 8:54 pm
I hop it is resolved to, I'm glad I don't have any problems like that with my parents, they trust me so much and I love them for it! Oh the only thing I am not allowed to do is go to anyones house without thier parents there and to go to a girls house for the night.
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