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 Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 6:34 pm
Okay my ex girlfriend and I were quiet close and my mom didn't really like me dating her, but I did anyways. Anyways my gf used to cut herself and always blamed it on us and I loved her no matter what she said or did until one day I cut for revenge and then my mom banned me from seeing her and we got passed it and I got to see her, but after out 1st year anniversary I got raped by my ex-bff and my gf accused me of cheating and cut herself after she hadn't cut for 4 months.
So we got passed it after I got in her head that I had been raped and yet I'm sure she still didn't believe me. A month later she dumped me saying we weren't as close anymore...I got over it after awhile then a couple days later she told me I never loved her, I never cared and then that she hated me. I left heartbroken cause after she signed off and I went and tried to commit suicide. My mom found me and took me to the hospital I spent awhile in there.
After my gf (ex...w/e) told me she meant none of it and that she was just in a bad mood...so I got grounded and have scars for nothing. And now she's acting all happy and nice to me and I just think the way she was acting wasn't fair along with what she did.
Now recently she's become friends with my ex-bff who raped me. It's screwed up...
what you think
My ex is named ' T A N K
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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 8:35 pm
Okay first things first ... never date a chick who is a self mutilator. I've had my fair share of that in the past ... you do anything for the girl and she still does what she does ... and still thinks you're in the wrong. You try to understand ... or even help and she shuns you ... but you keep comming back for more.
And what do you mean by "cut for revenge" ... ?
Cutters cut to take away the pain ... if it's real or imaginary ... because they refuse to or are unable to rationalize their emotions.
Any girl who would bring you to the point of cutting yourself or wanting to kill yourself is not a very good influence.
She sounds like an emotional time bomb to me ... perhaps even with quite a few personality disorders ... and perhaps severly wanting attention.
What I think is this relationship is not healthy and doomed to fail ... the mistrust is already apparent in that she though you were cheating ... and that her emotional capacity is limited or perhaps not fully developed.
Your best bet is to leave things as they are ... be friends ... and let yourself move past all this ugliness.
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