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 Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 11:31 am
When did you discover you were bi/gay and, if applicable, who helped you see it?
I found out truly last night... my sister and i were playing a sort of truth or dare thing without the dare part, (trust me, it's not what you think) and it just sorta came to both of us at the same time.
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 12:32 pm
I think I knew I was bi, but the first time I knew 100% was almost a year ago at a summer camp...
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 12:41 pm
the first time I ever really thought about was over a friends house durring 8th grade. Only becuase I was the only one acting like a guy and wearing my shorts like a guy......hey its comfy lol. but ever since that day it was always on my mind, the first time I knew 100% that I was bi, was last agust. I was talking to my best friend who is bi too, and I discovered that I acted like her and everything. but now thats its almost been a year, I am very sure that I'm bi and not a lesbian. which had always been a looming idea.
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 12:46 pm
i knew that i was bi since last year. I was over a friend`s house ( who was bi) He was hitting on me really hard So i let him kiss me. Little did i know i fell for him.
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 1:10 pm
I knew that I was bi when I was in 2nd grade..I really liked this girl in my class. I was in an all girls Catholic School...But I guess I was wrong, I am a lesbian after all which I just found out this year...I'm 14
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 1:18 pm
I found out I was bi when I always looked a tthis one girl differently from the rest, BUT I wasn't 100% sure until last summer when one of my friends confessed she liked me alot, and I had the same feelings back. heart
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 3:05 pm
ever since i became aware of homosexuality i had thoughts that i was a lesbian. i began to only have crushes on girls, but i tried to suppress these feelings b/c many ppl i knew trashed homosexuals. i eventually began having crushes on guys again and i soon realized, a lil over a year ago, that im bi. i guess ive had a lot of doubts though, both ways. i constantly go back and forth between thinking im straight and thinking im a lesbian. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 3:45 pm
Hmmm, if I had to pinpoint it, I suppose it would be a tad over a year ago, during art class. I was kinda zoning out and compairing my body type to other girls. I was thinking, "if I was a guy, would I be more attracted to her or me?". When I was thinking about a certain one of my friends, I realized, hell, I was attracted to her as it is. I thought about it for a sec, and asked myself how I would react to kissing her. When I realized that I would be happy with it, I realized that I was bi. After that, everything else kinda fell into place.
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 3:49 pm
about 4 or 5 months ago we started talking about it and me and some freinds of mine began to notice that i seemed much to eager to discuss it then about a month and a half ago it became pretty odvious becuase of certain events.... sweatdrop
another thing that kind of gave it away was how i didnt really seem to care any of my guy freinds hitting on me
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 6:16 pm
I think it started in 6th grade or so. I thought I was straight, yet I started having this strange feeling while being around certain girls, I had no clue what it was, until in 8th grade I had a huge crush on this girl, Kate. Then realized "Oh, ********! I'm bi!". I was kinda freaked out cuz a lotta my class disliked me as it was, and that would just lead to more bashing. Over that summer though, I realized that all my life I had gone by the ideaology that if you love somone you shouldn't like them only for thier body... I had used this basically in terms of not judging guys in terms of ethnicity, weight, height, handicaps, etc., yet never really realized that that if following this ideaology without factoring in somones sexual organs was kinda hypocritical. Thats when I really came to full terms with it, yet I stayed closeted for another 5 months or so.
I do see now, whilst looking back, that from a young age I did have quite a few bisexual qualities. I loved female nude potraits from a very young age. Seriously, at the art museum I loved looking at that stuff since I was 5, possibly younger... and when I got a hold of my bros porn magazines as I got older... that just opened a whole new world of fun for me.
Not to mention that at age 7 or 8 or so I was almost raped by a female friend (she was 10 or 11) . She was feeling me up, and I thought it felt really good, yet I was so screwed up because according to what my parents and teachers had told me, no one was supposed to touch you like that except a doctor. I felt happy and good, yet guilty at the same time. Finally when she asked me to take my undies off I felt all guilty because I was defying what my parents had always told me so I refused to take them off, broke out in tears, and locked myself in the bathroom until she said she was sorry and said she'd never do it again.
Sorry... I'm rambling...
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 6:47 pm
Oh, and also as an extra note (which I found rather ironic) about two or three years before I realized I was bi, I re-painted my room... in pink, pruple, and blue. xd
Maybe it was an omen of sorts... whee
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 7:22 pm
when i first found out when i was gay i was 11 years old it was when i was at a dace compitation
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 4:04 pm
Wow, so many posts! My threads are never this successful...
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 1:03 am
I have always known that I was different than all my other female friends................
I finally noticed that I was bisexual when I first met this girl, my very first girlfriend. She started talking about her life as a gay female and I was sort of interested in it from the start anyway.....................anyways to make a really long story shorter than what it would be, me and her experimented and I finally found out that I was..............I mean I always knew I was different because I was always more comfortable and happier in the company of females than males, and I just couldn't figure it out until she came along. Well that is pretty much my story
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 2:28 am
Well in kindergarten through middleschool I always hung out with girls,but I hung out with guys too. We would talk about so and so being hot, but when the girls would talk about a guy being hot, I kept my mouth shut and told myself, " no thats gay". Even so i still would look at guys, and be like he's hot, and then imagine what it would be like to make out with him,but I thought all guys did that.Then one day I found out i was sadly mistaken. That all that made me bisexual, but I told no one, because I didnt want to get into trouble.Then in my freshman year in highschool,I dumped the christian religion upon realization that there was no god.I still didnt tell anyone however. then a few months later i was talking to my frien megan and she told me she was bi so without thinking twice i said me too. It was so easy to do so i told all my friends, knowing if they were really my friends it wouldnt matter,and it didnt, not to my friends i have now{they were the ones i hung out with most anyway}. one of them was a homophobe and although he knows he doesnt reall like to talk about it but even were still friends. You can really tell if the're really your friend if they're a homophobe and dont care if youre bi.
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