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have you ever had a partner that doesn't practice becasue they just don't want to ?
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tarataillily

PostPosted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 12:06 pm


I have compitition coming up november 11.....I have a duest with my best friend....we are singing my favorite song..."For Good" from "Wicked" and it really means alot that I get to sing it with her....BUT....she never pracitices...and her mom is fixingto take her out of drama all together befor compitition...and my teacher doesn't want to give me a fill in just incase she gets pulls out or drops out....sooo right now I'm planning for the worst and hoping for the best...I'm trying to get her to practice but she doesn't care....what should I do with all these problems?
PostPosted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 3:27 pm


Yeah that sux scream gonk

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Softrider

PostPosted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 6:18 pm


Oh... I'm sorry. That's terrible.

Have a serious talk with her. Tell her it means a lot to you, and you'd really appreciate it if she could just practice until the show. Offer help with anything that might get in the way of rehearsing.
But just in case, find someone else who can do the part. Even if the connection isn't there, it would be better than doing nothing.

By the way, great song choice! biggrin
PostPosted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 6:43 pm


Bottom line, if she's not going to make the commitment to you and to practicing... then she doesn't deserve the chance to be in the competition.

I know being that she is your best friend and it might make this hard, but if she isn't going to put in the work that you put do or the that someone else that WANTS to be in this competition and will practice their butt off, then you have to replace her.

It might not seem fair to her, but in the real world it's the fairest of the fair. If she was in a professional production, if she didn't practice she'd be fired in a heartbeat.

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Denoument

PostPosted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 7:13 pm


WickedElphie
Bottom line, if she's not going to make the commitment to you and to practicing... then she doesn't deserve the chance to be in the competition.

I know being that she is your best friend and it might make this hard, but if she isn't going to put in the work that you put do or the that someone else that WANTS to be in this competition and will practice their butt off, then you have to replace her.

It might not seem fair to her, but in the real world it's the fairest of the fair. If she was in a professional production, if she didn't practice she'd be fired in a heartbeat.


Indeed. But another fact of the real theatre world is that if she's screwing the director and/or is the director/producer/writer's best friend, she'll keep the part and you'll have to suck it up.

Sorry. I'm a callous b***h. I wasn't calling your friend a slut, I promise.

But yeah, have a come to Jesus meeting with her and your director and her mother if need be. But also keep in mind the level of competition that you're at and how much it's going to affect your career should you choose to have one. For example, I was really angry at my seventh-grade duet acting partner because he wouldn't memorize his lines and we never broke at a competition, but the fact of the matter is that he's going one way with his life and I'm going another and basically nothing before tenth grade counts, unless you were the lead in a huge show as a freshman.
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