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Well, him and I have been together for about 9 and a half months.
So yesterday night I HAD to spend the night at my friend hannah's house and like he said he was going out with his freind anothny and a whole bunch of girls. He said one girl said it would be fun. This was at 2 in the morning.
So now I just talked to him, and he is pissed at me for asking him what the hell did he do. He wont tell me what the ******** went on with him spending the night with a whole bunch of whores.

I'm fustraited and I just might break up with him, even though I don't want to. Does this sound like cheating ?
He ******** cursed me out when I asked.
Oh and he just told me he's going out again.
Not telling me where either..


And please.. please exuse my french.


also, i'll be gone for 3 days, i'll come back monday or tuesday.
I wonder what the heck he'll be doing during that time.
When he went somehwere for a month, I stayed faithful.
I don't know if he was joking or not when he says he was considering cheating on me when I was gone for a week once.

And he's told me he would never cheat on me. He would never hurt a woman like that.
Bullshit.

Sorry I didn't give detail information.
I was

-Rushed off the comptuer
-In the heat of the moment

He has cheated on me before
and has wondering eyes and sometimes can't help it.
I don't like the girls because they TRY to tempt him,
and I don't know if they will actully go through with it.
He still wont tell me what he did and what happened.

Well, he's cheated on you before. I'll just say trust your instincts.

I wanted to highlight what you posted. It's like that shitty Hinder song, "Lips of an Angel," I don't buy into the whole can't help the temptation. If you've mentioned that you aren't cool with him looking and lusting after other girls, he needs to respect that. It's not that hard to be faithful and be in a relationship. If he can't, then he doesn't need to be in one. I'm more inclined to think if he LOVED you and betrayed your trust and was sincere in working it out, he wouldn't be cussing you out and being disrespectful. He'd be bending over backwards to gain it back, imo.

I know it's easier to have the "Other Woman" syndrome and place the blame largely on another girl, but don't make excuses for him. ever hear the Two to Tango line? Unless you're fine with him disrespecting you like that and you like the relationship the way it is, then don't mind me. I just don't buy into the whole "She kissed me!" "She threw herself at me!" How many times will it take.

I'll move it. You can look for it in the Recycle Bin if you need to look at it for reference or anything like that. smile